I talked to him more then a casual friend. I was in the wrong. I'm pretty sure that's what Eric was getting at. Things have been shaky between eli and I since having two kids and two jobs has eaten so much time we don't get much time left for our relationship. I sought out attention from someone else online. It wasn't right. Go ahead and judge me but I'm just being honest. Since this has happened I've spent alot less time online and more time trying to make things work with my family.
May-04-2012 19:21
Vivid Boy
TA's GodFather
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: T.O
I see as I provide a service to TA. I help the lonely people not get too attached to an online world. Lets take the example of nou. He has finally ventured outside of his house after years of making fun of him. He's had many a ta crush because its safer having feelings for someone's words then it is to have feelings for an actual person. Now he has either left his basement and is exploring the world around him or he jumped off a bridge. Either way I deserve a Thank You letter.
May-04-2012 19:25
Vivid Boy
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Registered: Sep 2001
Location: T.O
quote:
Originally posted by wienerschnitzel
I talked to him more then a casual friend. I was in the wrong. I'm pretty sure that's what Eric was getting at. Things have been shaky between eli and I since having two kids and two jobs has eaten so much time we don't get much time left for our relationship. I sought out attention from someone else online. It wasn't right. Go ahead and judge me but I'm just being honest. Since this has happened I've spent alot less time online and more time trying to make things work with my family.
well I didn't know all these tiny details. I just figured you had a few hours to kill in between sending the kids to bed and your husband coming home, and srussel was just reliably online all the time and jumped at the opportunity to talk to you on skype and then spent hours painting pictures of you in illustrator afterwards.
May-04-2012 19:29
Silky Johnson
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quote:
Originally posted by Vivid Boy
and then spent hours painting pictures of you in illustrator afterwards.
May-04-2012 19:33
Lira
Ancient BassAddict
Registered: Nov 2001
Location: Brasília, Brazil
quote:
Originally posted by wienerschnitzel
I talked to him more then a casual friend. I was in the wrong. I'm pretty sure that's what Eric was getting at. Things have been shaky between eli and I since having two kids and two jobs has eaten so much time we don't get much time left for our relationship. I sought out attention from someone else online. It wasn't right. Go ahead and judge me but I'm just being honest. Since this has happened I've spent alot less time online and more time trying to make things work with my family.
No, you were not in the wrong. Neither was he. No one was.
Even if you saw him more than just a casual friend, in no moment you did something that put your family (or your marriage) in actual jeopardy. You did not leave Eli or your children behind. You needed attention and a nice guy who could provide it to you, and Russell fulfilled this role momentarily. Had it not been for him, and the support he gave you, wouldn't your situation with Eli become more difficult to tackle?
Had you left Medicine Hat in a bout of impulsiveness and run to Buffalo so you could break free from your past life in order to be with Russell, THIS would've been irresponsible (because of your kids) and rather wrong. However, as far as I could gather, this has not happened.
May-04-2012 19:33
Vivid Boy
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Registered: Sep 2001
Location: T.O
quote:
Originally posted by Lira
No, you were not in the wrong. Neither was he. No one was.
Even if you saw him more than just a casual friend, in no moment you did something that put your family (or your marriage) in actual jeopardy. You did not leave Eli or your children behind. You needed attention and a nice guy who could provide it to you, and Russell fulfilled this role momentarily. Had it not been for him, and the support he gave you, wouldn't your situation with Eli become more difficult to tackle?
Had you left Medicine Hat in a bout of impulsiveness and run to Buffalo so you could break free from your past life in order to be with Russell, THIS would've been irresponsible (because of your kids) and rather wrong. However, as far as I could gather, this has not happened.
how do you know thats not what srussel wanted
thus srussel is totally in the wrong and a sad sad individual
May-04-2012 19:35
Lira
Ancient BassAddict
Registered: Nov 2001
Location: Brasília, Brazil
quote:
Originally posted by Vivid Boy
how do you know thats not what srussel wanted
thus srussel is totally in the wrong and a sad sad individual
Even if Russell WANTED that, I don't believe he egged her on, or convinced her she should do it. We're not responsible for what we want/think/feel, but for what we do
May-04-2012 19:39
Vivid Boy
TA's GodFather
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: T.O
quote:
Originally posted by Lira
Even if Russell WANTED that, I don't believe he egged her on, or convinced her she should do it. We're not responsible for what we want/think/feel, but for what we do
at the same time, thinking of raping a kid and not acting on it still makes you a pedo
May-04-2012 19:40
Lira
Ancient BassAddict
Registered: Nov 2001
Location: Brasília, Brazil
quote:
Originally posted by Vivid Boy
at the same time, thinking of raping a kid and not acting on it still makes you a pedo
But preferable to an actual child rapist
Wait, what!?
Edit: Are you really calling him a rapist!? That's bang out of order, mate, even if you're just "stirring shit up" the way you like
May-04-2012 19:41
Vivid Boy
TA's GodFather
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: T.O
quote:
Originally posted by Lira
But preferable to an actual child rapist
Wait, what!?
so then its settled, srussel is a homewrecker and a pedo. let the cor continue!
May-04-2012 19:43
Silky Johnson
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Guys, come on, think about this realistically for a minute. You REALLY think Megan would ever go for a guy like srussell??
I think it's obvious that Eric's right. Srussell prolly thought he was some kind of hero, playing on Megan's vulnerabilities as if he really believed (deep down even he must have thought it laughable) he could be something to her. Hahahahaha. What a nard.
May-04-2012 19:44
Vivid Boy
TA's GodFather
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: T.O
Srussel is right now redfaced staring at himself in a mirror talking himself up "I am not a fuckin loser...I am not a loser...I have 8 degrees...losers dont have 8 degrees........get a hold of yourself russel your crackin up...." *SMASH*