|Originally posted by Singularity55 |
So I used to think that fat girls were just less attractive, now I know it's also actually an indicator of poor self discipline and self control so my view is even worse.
Actually, I wouldn't paint them with so broad a brush. The poorer you are, the worse your diet (for all the obvious reason, and I mean quality not quantity), so if you're working like a slave and earning about as much, odds are you won't look like a supermodel. It's hard to say such people have poor "self discipline" when they're struggling to make ends meet. See what I mean?
Sure, some probably do lack self discipline and self control, but to say it's an indicator? That's a bit too general, don't you think?
(Also, keep in mind that, because all this extra weight may well be accompanied by diabetes, and diabetics seem prone to mood swings, odds are you'll need some patience dealing with them sometimes - unless they get too violent. I drifted away from a diabetic friend after he nearly crashed the car we were in not just once, but three times!)
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