quote: | Originally posted by wienerschnitzel
I talked to him more then a casual friend. I was in the wrong. I'm pretty sure that's what Eric was getting at. Things have been shaky between eli and I since having two kids and two jobs has eaten so much time we don't get much time left for our relationship. I sought out attention from someone else online. It wasn't right. Go ahead and judge me but I'm just being honest. Since this has happened I've spent alot less time online and more time trying to make things work with my family. |
No, you were not in the wrong. Neither was he. No one was.
Even if you saw him more than just a casual friend, in no moment you did something that put your family (or your marriage) in actual jeopardy. You did not leave Eli or your children behind. You needed attention and a nice guy who could provide it to you, and Russell fulfilled this role momentarily. Had it not been for him, and the support he gave you, wouldn't your situation with Eli become more difficult to tackle?
Had you left Medicine Hat in a bout of impulsiveness and run to Buffalo so you could break free from your past life in order to be with Russell, THIS would've been irresponsible (because of your kids) and rather wrong. However, as far as I could gather, this has not happened.
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