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Originally posted by 72hrpartyanimal To you new parents out there. What is your opinion on spanking. I've done it a few times and I hate it. BUT it works. I just feel like shit after it though. My good buddy (who doesn't spank) has told me that he doesn't spank because he learned that "it was his parents own frustrations in communicating with me" that led to the spanking.

I'm not a parent, but I've been around kids more than IGK, and spanking is definitely not ok nor will it make anything better in any way. Very much the opposite, with studies hinting that spanked and otherwise physically dispiclined kids develop weaker empathy and a totally different (worse) mindset regarding right and wrong compared to kids who aren't spanked. It's ok to hate spanking. Even more reason to not do it. Definitely nothing wrong with not liking it.

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Originally posted by JEO I'm not a parent, but I've been around kids more than IGK, and spanking is definitely not ok nor will it make anything better in any way. Very much the opposite, with studies hinting that spanked and otherwise physically dispiclined kids develop weaker empathy and a totally different (worse) mindset regarding right and wrong compared to kids who aren't spanked. It's ok to hate spanking. Even more reason to not do it. Definitely nothing wrong with not liking it.

Thanks my bro! I try doing timeouts when she's not listening. I have to remind myself that just because I was spanked as a form of discipline does't mean that I need to do it.

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What is everyone's thoughts/feelings on sharing your kids' personal info, pics, etc online?

I just deleted every picture I ever posted (which wasn't very many to begin with) of our baby, and asked that our friends and family refrain from posting media of her online as well. I want the decision to be hers, when she's old enough, whether or not she wants her life profiled online.

I haven't shared too many yet, some on FB. My daughter is 12 years old now, but I do have some great pictures of her in her first two years which are so funny or cute that I'm thinking of sharing some
I showed my son these pictures and he didn't know who was on the pictures

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Last edited by Trance-M on Oct-09-2018 at 20:18

Lol, yes I totally agree. Mostly about the privacy and autonomy thing. I'm also not into contributing to/further perpetuating the normalization of validation/selfie/etc., culture.

But yeah, I can't imagine getting older and coming to realization (or worse, not at all because it's just so "normal") that your whole life has been put on display without your permission.

We post on FB to friends and family. We don't really do embarrassing 'ya shit everywhere' pics. But we keep our friends updated on her growing up. We suck at holiday cards and keeping up with people anyways so its our way of doing that. It also helps us gather pics for birthday type things and scrape-booking crap. Its definitely not close to exploiting them or risking an IGK encounter...I hope.

We do have a niece (in-laws of my in-laws) and her parents just use iphotos collection to share with family. I am just too lazy to setup. Plus my parents barely understand FB...so anything else would be a disaster. So its easiest on FB.

And what do you mean by personal information?

Name, birthday. Whatever other stuff comes up as they get older, like where they go to school, etc. I'm shocked at how many parents I know freely post all this stuff about their kids.

but how else can you get sweet 20% off coupons at H&M!!!

Publicly I can see that as being weird to advertise out. I doubt we'd share school name out even with FB people, just whatever grade they are in. Definitely not here

I guess if I overstep they can change their name to Boomer188.

im so off the grid that when i have kids they will be off the grid as well. my girlfriend doesn't even post on Facebook, only messages a few friends. i take photos i like, get them developed then remove them off my phone. if IGK hacked my phone and looked at my cute nieces and nephews i'd be devastated

I seriously dont get all that baby photo posting drama stuff on facebook, it too annoying and a total let down that I didn't get to hit it before that baby crawled out. Sheesh.

well now I never fucked a milf but I can say the tighter the better or am I completely wrong?