I've always tried to be nice to Juan but he's his own worst enemy.
The stalking thing was not fucking OK. I don't mean that frivolously; he harassed a long standing and well liked female TA on here to the point she left TA for good, had to close all her social media accounts and emails, and he still didn't stop.
Even now, he jokes about her here and there. At one point she posted a comment for the first time in like 5 years and Juan just went full psycho and she still won't come back. She's fin now but It somewhat fucker up her life for a while and the emails were fucking creepy.
Then there's the alts. I've honestly lost count. As Stubert said, it's got to be at least 50, if not a 100 alts and sometimes you'll see single page threads but 5 or more of his alts on them as each one gets banned.
I wouldn't mind so much if he stuck to the rules. At one point he was pretty level and was basically back in the fold but then he went off the meds and just starting taking shits on this sub (and others), posting nonsense and throwing insults just to get attention, then told everyone to fuck off and then when he was getting banned, got all apologetic then switched again.
The other infuriating thing is that he'd ask for advice, get proper, educated, articulated answers (say for instance about what to buy, or what to focus on) and then would do the absolute fucking opposite.
When it then didn't work, he'd then ask for more advice from ther same people. I never mind giving advice but I don't enjoy pissing in to the wind.
I get it. Some people have issues and I for one have really tried to help the kid but I don't want this place polluted.
I'd welcome him back if he could behave, stick to one identity and never, ever mention or post about that girl again.
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