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Dervish
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Registered: Dec 2003
Location: Wick, Scotland

Ahh well you can blame your parents for being too normal.

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Why couldn't you of at least hit mum once dad... just for me... for my future...





Nah seriously when home is so easy the big wide world must just seem really hard. And parents can seem like they are just wanting you to do well for them, or as if it is some kinda favour to them to do well.

Then when you reach a point where you are on your own you find it hard to get motivated. Especially if you are doing "ok". But when that leads no where or stops being "ok". Perople get pissed off and fucked up.

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trancaholic
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Registered: Oct 2000
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Originally posted by Dervish
Nah seriously when home is so easy the big wide world must just seem really hard. And parents can seem like they are just wanting you to do well for them, or as if it is some kinda favour to them to do well.

Then when you reach a point where you are on your own you find it hard to get motivated. Especially if you are doing "ok". But when that leads no where or stops being "ok". Perople get pissed off and fucked up.

Well, then I'm not like your friends anyway. The world doesn't scare me and I succeed in most things I take part in. It's just that it takes an effort, and I think I've lost track of why I do it, because I would get by fine with doing less. I mean why try to achieve, when you've got enough already? Sort of how you described it in the first post.

Old Post Jun-07-2005 17:26  Denmark
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damn you interpol! damn you all to hell!



Hiding kiddie porn or something similar perhaps?


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Dervish
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Registered: Dec 2003
Location: Wick, Scotland

The second one was more in ref. to my cousin really, than my mates. It is the only reason I can understand why she went running back to uni after 3 months of one job, just to get away from the world of work.

Though to be fair she has worked abroad quite alot (in summers), but she's good with different languages so maybe it isn't too hard for her.

Think she is just scared of the drudgery of employment. I'm not looking forward to it much either

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Registered: Oct 2000
Location: New York

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Originally posted by trancaholic
Well, then I'm not like your friends anyway. The world doesn't scare me and I succeed in most things I take part in. It's just that it takes an effort, and I think I've lost track of why I do it, because I would get by fine with doing less. I mean why try to achieve, when you've got enough already? Sort of how you described it in the first post.


My motto: Hard work pays off in the future but Laziness pays off NOW!

Edit: Granted laziness is a personal metric. I'm sure some might consider what I'm doing as working hard, but compared to the effort I could be putting into work, I'm soooo lazy.


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Dervish
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Registered: Dec 2003
Location: Wick, Scotland

Squirrelly, I'd say that being with someone in terms of waking up in the morning next to them and having breakfast with them can seem like nirvana even if they arn't the person for you.

I had that with a one night stand of mine once everythign so nice her skin so soft and so on.

The feeling of comfort you had while he was there though powerful is not a be all and end all. My (main) ex gf and I had that but we just didn't fit in a fundemental way.

You talked about alot of things but mainly you seemed to be "backing up" the desision to give/dump this guy is that right?

(note: I've been drinking, but still roughly know what I'm talking about)

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Dervish
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Registered: Dec 2003
Location: Wick, Scotland

Ah well but waking up next to someone the nice warm body next to you is a very powerful thing. Really, when they are asleep an you wake and look at them asleep.

Who is the other person you did that with? As in didn't go to sleep with but joined you later?


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squirrelly
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Registered: Oct 2003
Location: In the Shower

quote:
Originally posted by Dervish
Ah well but waking up next to someone the nice warm body next to you is a very powerful thing. Really, when they are asleep an you wake and look at them asleep.

Who is the other person you did that with? As in didn't go to sleep with but joined you later?


The guy I dated/lived with for two years... with no one else have I ever felt that comfortable.


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Old Post Jun-08-2005 01:41  Poland
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Dervish
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Registered: Dec 2003
Location: Wick, Scotland

And you don't atall fell the same with this latest guy? Maybe it is that you don't mind that he joins you later because you don't care if he does or doesn't?

It is obviously complicated, but is it that you just don't care about this latest guy that much?


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Dervish
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Location: Wick, Scotland

That perhaps is a bit simplistic, but you know what I mean.


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Arbiter
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Registered: May 2002
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Originally posted by squirrelly
I don't really have a specific reason for my move. I suppose it's just the hope that I will move forward. Although I'm okay with living here in Orlando, I just feel as though as a whole, I'll never move forward with my life, and after all, that IS what we're supposed to do, no? Move forward, make new goals, be sucessful, not just sit in the same spot for the rest of our lives.


Well when you put it that way, it sounds much more promising. It's natural to feel a sense of decadence, when one's life falls into a repeating pattern rather than showing signs of progression, and this sense can have quite a strong depressing influence. It happens to me quite frequently regrettably, and it seems to be doing so again these past few weeks. Last time, I quit my job and decided I wasn't going to work anymore. I decided that I would live on $750 a month and never make plans, living day-to-day and moment-to-moment to the extreme. It was exciting and new for a while, but now I grow weary of it once more and must find some new, yet unexplored path.

Moving forward, hell, moving backward - it's better than standing still.

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He stayed here with me last night and I fell asleep before he joined me in bed and it was strange, because it was a feeling of utomost comfort that I had while laying in bed while he was doing networking on my computer. I think leaving him behind will be the hardest thing for me to do.

This morning we had breakfast and sat down and drank our mugs of coffee while we talked and he just looked over at me and asked my reason for leaving, and I couldn't really give him one. Sometimes I think living in Orlando is simply unhealthy because it's nearly impossible for me to let things go while I'm here.

In all honesty, what do we look for when we look at another individual? What is it that sparks our interest in the beginning? Nothing but looks, for all you have to go off of are really looks, you don't know them yet. What makes an individual actually like someone else? Having the same morals, having different morals, looking for the same things in life? And then when you find that someone, or you think you have, why do we hesitate to say something?

We can see through the games, the facades, the insincerity but we choose not to. And then when you decide to start paying attention to the signals that things are headed in a wrong direction with that individual, all you are left with is disgust. Then when you start paying attention to your surroundings, all the beauty you thought you saw is nothing other than bitter and ugly. People say they want one thing and then attach themselves to something completely different. If you're frequenting downtown a lot, chances are there's something wrong with that picture. A girl that frequents downtown a lot loves the attention she gets, likes the feeling of being wanted, is turned on by people wanting to fuck her. A girl that wears barely any clothes is probably not the type who's going to stick around.

I was talking to him today about all of this and we had a long discussion about it, and I said that basically there are two types of people when it comes to relationships, those that choose to wait for something special to come along, and those that bounce from person to person hoping that eventually one of them will be something that they want. Some of them will even wait, no matter how painful it might be, once they found that one person, for an eternity hoping that one day they will gather up the courage to express how they really feel (like myself).

There are those who are somewhat ashamed that they are in a relationship so they stress to others how the relationship really isn't THAT serious, basically saying that even though they are dating someone, you still have a chance. Who wants that kind of a person? If they did it with them, they'll do it with you as well. Then there are those who are so happy to be with the person they really want, they'll have nothing other than a smile when they talk about their SO, and make sure everyone knows they AREN'T available. There are those that cheat, and then there are those that are so happy with the person they're with, they would never dream about leaving them for someone else. There are those who will wait forever for someone, and there are those that look for quick fixes in the mean time.

Which are you?


Most people seem incapable of acting on anything but impulse, and their impulses usually deceive them. When I was younger, I tried desperately to find the "right one," and I went through relationships extremely fast. It seemed like the thing to do, but it was too simplistic and thus the relationships never went anywhere. As I grew more pessimistic about the search, I only grew more impatient and more impossible to satisfy.

It was not until I had all but given up completely that love found me, and suddenly I found a satisfaction I could never have imagined. But just as abruptly, and just as senselessly, it was annihilated. And just like that, I seek love no longer. There is nothing left for me in the world of romance.

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squirrelly
The Phun Nun



Registered: Oct 2003
Location: In the Shower

quote:
Originally posted by Dervish
And you don't atall fell the same with this latest guy? Maybe it is that you don't mind that he joins you later because you don't care if he does or doesn't?

It is obviously complicated, but is it that you just don't care about this latest guy that much?


I haven't felt that kind of a comfort level with someone since my ex boyfriend. I've dated a few people since then and I've not felt that same way with any of them. It throws me off, I suppose. I think I care about him more than I'm willing to admit. Or perhaps with that statement I just admitted it.


Arbs, I no longer seek love, nor have I at all. However, if I happen to stumble across someone that I could possibly see myself spending a lot of time with I'd hate to think that it could all fall to pieces simply because of a fear of relationships.


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