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Why do ladies have to tease sometimes?
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| NiteMer |
Okay, I'm gonna vent a little bit.
There was a party, here in Denver, on Friday. Friends of mine hosted it and it featured George Acosta and Jerry Bonham. I had to spin somewhere else so I got there around 12:30. There were a good amount of available women and I had started to make my rounds. I run into a girl that I've known for a long time. We had been 100% platonic until two thursdays ago when she kissed me at a club. On Friday she was drunk and started making out with me. But she's also a flirt and I know I wasn't the only one she made out with. All of a sudden she grabs me and drags me out of the club, saying she wants to go home. I ask her if she wants me to come and she says yes. (Note: I had just popped a pill about an hour prior to this) So I go home with her and she doesn't give me any love. :wtf:
The next morning she even brought it up saying, "What, did you think I was going to have sex with you?" :conf:
Is this some sort of mind game, or standard procedure for women to torment us as men? |
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| tu_face |
| gutted, maybe she was testing your integrity :p |
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| Lira |
She said she wanted to go home and you asked if she wanted you to come.
It doesn't necessarily lead to sex. You thought it did. |
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| NiteMer |
| quote: | Originally posted by tu_face
gutted, maybe she was testing your integrity :p |
Maybe, she said something about only liking sex when she really cares about someone. She's too much drama to be in a relationship with though. She's a princess who whines and complains too much. Oh well. I learned my lesson. No going home with her anymore. |
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| NiteMer |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
She said she wanted to go home and you asked if she wanted you to come.
It doesn't necessarily lead to sex. You thought it did. |
I know that, but it still seems unnecessary for me to have gone home with her. And it seems unnecessary for her to throw it in my face that I didn't get any, later. |
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| dj tek |
| quote: | Originally posted by NiteMer
Okay, I'm gonna vent a little bit.
There was a party, here in Denver, on Friday. Friends of mine hosted it and it featured George Acosta and Jerry Bonham. I had to spin somewhere else so I got there around 12:30. There were a good amount of available women and I had started to make my rounds. I run into a girl that I've known for a long time. We had been 100% platonic until two thursdays ago when she kissed me at a club. On Friday she was drunk and started making out with me. But she's also a flirt and I know I wasn't the only one she made out with. All of a sudden she grabs me and drags me out of the club, saying she wants to go home. I ask her if she wants me to come and she says yes. (Note: I had just popped a pill about an hour prior to this) So I go home with her and she doesn't give me any love. :wtf:
The next morning she even brought it up saying, "What, did you think I was going to have sex with you?" :conf:
Is this some sort of mind game, or standard procedure for women to torment us as men? |
man.. the minute she started to act 'weird' after you guys went to her place, you should have just bounced, shes no obligations to you is she ? y'all just ing around so cares ? you could have done something valuable with your time than sitting in some chic's house rolling and not doing imo.. girls like to tease cuz they know they CAN and get away with it.. you gotta play the game too tease em right back. then it gets interesting. |
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| jonze234 |
try ghb next time. i heard you get better results :)
girls do this all the time. its one of the drawbacks of being "the nice guy" |
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| NiteMer |
| quote: | Originally posted by dj tek
man.. the minute she started to act 'weird' after you guys went to her place, you should have just bounced, shes no obligations to you is she ? y'all just ing around so cares ? you could have done something valuable with your time than sitting in some chic's house rolling and not doing imo.. girls like to tease cuz they know they CAN and get away with it.. you gotta play the game too tease em right back. then it gets interesting. |
Oh, yeah. I'm done. If she even tries to kiss me again, I will back away. I don't want to be one of 4-8 guys she's kissing that night. No, thank you. I didn't realize for sure that I wasn't getting any until the morning. I'm kind of glad in a way. She's a pretty good friend, and I don't think she would have been able to handle it if we hooked up. She would have gotten attached and that's the last thing I need right now. |
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| jonze234 |
| quote: | Originally posted by NiteMer
I don't think she would have been able to handle it if we hooked up. |
thats a great line :haha: :stongue: |
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| jdat |
well
From what you're saying you basically spent the night there
SO :
WTF did you do with all the spare time?
Must have had a nice convo or something :stongue: |
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