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its been already 2 months, and my heart is still broken...
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| stk |
Me and my girlfriend has been dating for a year, and we loved each other so much..or so i thought... She broken up with me 2 months ago saying "i lost interest in u" straight out to me..i had gave up everything and gave my all to her..my love...my tears.....my commitment...myself... Its been 2 months, but everyday i goto bed with tears in my eyes and wake up with very dry eyes thinking of my ex...i love her so much..i try so hard to let her go..but its impossible...she was the most precious thing that ever came into my life....i've been depressed for 2months, every time i listen to trance, i cry..i duno why ..it reminds me of her...i even made new friends, started to work out, get a job, go out with friends, but the memories me and my girlfriend shared is permanently scarred in my broken heart...
Ugh..sorry for sounding "gay" but i just have to let out my feelings...every time i see my ex, i get tears, i want to hug her so much, but see just doesnt see me that way... |
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| davinox |
wow...that's really horrible.
she must have not REALLY loved you... imagine if you married her... she'd divorce you whenever she got tired of you.
all i can say is you have the whole rest of your life to go, and i'll be damned if you don't find another girl.
by the way, it's not gay to talk about your girlfriend. that would be an oxymoron. |
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| Sarcoman |
Ive been through like that too. I was crazy about this girl that I was dating. We were only going out for three months, and then she told me she loved me. Everything seemed to be going well, when all of a sudden, she didnt call me one night (we spoke just about every night). Then She didnt call for a week. Its been a few years now..
Dont get me wrong.. I got over it.. and im sure you will to. I wish you the best. |
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| Stylez |
try this on for size.
I went out with my ex for 4 yrs...(ring & all)... she ended it. WE got back together for 3 months after the initial break up.. then she broke up with me again... through EMAIL.:conf: It's been 1 yr since the initial break up.. and I still can't get over her. She's gone through a few guys already...and I still haven't dated 1 girl yet. But I've learned to accept it... things happen in life for a reason m8.. keep your head up... and know that it could be worse. BELIEVE me ..it could. Don't go rush out to look for someone to replace her... just to fill that empty void...u'll only end up hurting that person...and yourself even more. Take it from me.
The memories will always be there...and it's okay to cry and feel hurt. U're allowed to feel that way, not only girls. I'm not ashamed to admit that I balled my eyes out for mths...and I mean mths over my ex. I still think of her alot, but just knowing that if it's meant to be it will be. Maybe not now...but one day. U just have to continue.. and know that everything will be alright.
"It is better to have loved, than not to have loved at all." Although it hurts when the love leaves or is gone... cherish the experience. |
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| AnotherWay83 |
| im not expert in this stuff but if u're really having SUCH a hard time then maybe u're depressed (in the clinical sense), u should get sum help i think, other than that all i can say is good luck! |
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| TeKnoHe@d2025 |
| Yeah, I know how it is...my gf broke up with me about a month ago claiming "she's too busy for a boyfriend right now". I don't exactly know what that means (any girls care to explain?) but we still talk and everything. |
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| ali92 |
Doesn't that SUCK?: BIG TIME! I know how u feel because something similar happened 2 me about a year ago and the worst thing was that afterwards, I still saw her EVERY DAY for the next 3 months (school) and at this point, I don't know when I'll have a girl again (EVERY American that I know HATES Trance/Techno because they say "IT'S BORING" and they can't stand it (they like Rap/R+B/Hip Hop/Rock/Pop and all of the other "MTV USA" stuff). It's not like they say "it's allright" or "if you like it, that's all that counts" but, these people say to me: "I CAN'T SEE HOW YOU CAN LISTEN TO THAT FOR DAYS ON END NONSTOP!"
I get VERY mad when people comment like this. What if they got the same comment about their music? I bet they wouldn't like it that much either... |
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| speedracer_mec |
| girls...girls ...girls....tooo much for me to handle...they are complex and make me cry:( |
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| extulas |
| quote: | Originally posted by stk
Me and my girlfriend has been dating for a year, and we loved each other so much..or so i thought... She broken up with me 2 months ago saying "i lost interest in u" straight out to me..i had gave up everything and gave my all to her..my love...my tears.....my commitment...myself... Its been 2 months, but everyday i goto bed with tears in my eyes and wake up with very dry eyes thinking of my ex...i love her so much..i try so hard to let her go..but its impossible...she was the most precious thing that ever came into my life....i've been depressed for 2months, every time i listen to trance, i cry..i duno why ..it reminds me of her...i even made new friends, started to work out, get a job, go out with friends, but the memories me and my girlfriend shared is permanently scarred in my broken heart...
Ugh..sorry for sounding "gay" but i just have to let out my feelings...every time i see my ex, i get tears, i want to hug her so much, but see just doesnt see me that way... |
Join the club. Hey, Lets get together and find some girls! ;) :) :D |
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| extulas |
| quote: | Originally posted by TeKnoHe@d2025
Yeah, I know how it is...my gf broke up with me about a month ago claiming "she's too busy for a boyfriend right now". I don't exactly know what that means (any girls care to explain?) but we still talk and everything. |
Basically, We can be friends, But expect me to be showing off another guy soon. |
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| Damo |
| sometimes you just gotta slap yourself in the face, pretend to be macho and move on with things. crying about her's not going to bring her back. feeling the way you're feeling is natural, but so is being homocidal. i recommend lots of porno, cigarettes, beer, and a few one night stands, and you should forget about this broad in no time. |
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| drizzt81 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Damo
sometimes you just gotta slap yourself in the face, pretend to be macho and move on with things. crying about her's not going to bring her back. feeling the way you're feeling is natural, but so is being homocidal. i recommend lots of porno, cigarettes, beer, and a few one night stands, and you should forget about this broad in no time. |
good idea..
yet i understand STK pretty well too. sometimeseven porn and beer won't really help.. |
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