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| LinX |
we've all been through this, all been hurt and healed. like that blah blah blah. but i just need some opinions from the ladies real quick. and guys if you've dated this type of woman yet.
so ive been going out this this girl for 3 months. not that long i know. she broke up with me last night. whatever. i mean im hurt but ill be aight. anyway long story short she was a manic depressive with high anxiety who was raped when she was 16... and yeah i only figured this out last week.. she just told me. soooo i need an opinion here guys/gals has anyone ever dated someone like that? because honestly it explains a lot to me now, her mood swings, her weed smoking habbits and just over all bug out moments ive been through with her. ive never dated a girl who had problems like this have any of you? and im bein serious . is it hard to maintain a relationship with that much extra stress, bagage, emotional problems cause for some weird fukked up feeling even though i was dumped (because she changed so dramatically in the last few weeks) which was the second time in my life not to sound cocky.. i still kinda feel like it was my fault WTF...
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| Long Island, eh? Never thought she'd move back east... |
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| LinX |
| quote: | Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
Long Island, eh? Never thought she'd move back east... |
you got a story, elaborate please |
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| Sushipunk |
| quote: | Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
Long Island, eh? Never thought she'd move back east... |
lol |
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| LinX |
| quote: | Originally posted by winston
everyone has problems. welcome to the real world. stop dating sixteen year olds. wat? |
she's 24 dude. and not everyone has problems like THAT. |
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| wienerschnitzel |
| yeah i think it would be hard to date someone with alot of baggage but that's your choice. everyone has a story, some people may have it harder then others but you have to take ownership for your own life and if she chooses to deal with it recklessly then i don't think she's ready for anything serious. both my husband and i have had some pretty ty things happen in our lives but at the end of the day you have to put your big girl panties on and work hard to have a decent life. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by wienerschnitzel
put your big girl panties on. |
lololol |
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| winston |
| my bad, i didn't read enough, i just now read she was raped when she was sixteen. my bad, ok i'd do this, first of all if you really have feelings for her then you should help her get better. Let her know that you're there for her and all of that; but, if you don't want to get involved for whatever reasons, then don't, it just depends how much you love that person. |
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| msz |
| u really got a kick out of your sig linx???? wow... |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| quote: | Originally posted by LinX
you got a story, elaborate please |
All of their stories are the same. Oh, they've been raped, they were force-fed hard drugs, etc. etc. It's cold, but damaged goods aren't worth it. I mean, not if you're wanting a lasting and significant emotional attachment to somebody.
The tell-tale sign is when they give you their story after a "safe" period of time - say, 2 weeks. They know you're into them, they want you to be there for them (for whatever reason), so they lay down some really heavy to keep you around. I'll bet you took the bait, didn't you? Yeah, she made you care about her, but the moment you had some sympathy, she took it and ran. And then they don't know how to break up with you because you're everything they've ever wanted in a pincushion, so she ing sleeps with your landlord/ cousin and takes off with your cat, but i'll find you, Jennifer, oh I'll FIND YOU I PROMISE, AND THEN IT WILL BE TIME TO PAY ME BACK FOR MY CAR THAT YOU WRECKED. BUT NOT EVEN THEN WILL WE BE EVEN. DO YOU LIKE PINK CHAMPAGNE YOU ING CUNT? YEAH, I'LL BET YOU MISS IT, DON'T YOU? DON'T YOU?!??! |
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| Schadenfreude |
| hi dad penis in mouth pics or die. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
All of their stories are the same. Oh, they've been raped, they were force-fed hard drugs, etc. etc. It's cold, but damaged goods aren't worth it. I mean, not if you're wanting a lasting and significant emotional attachment to somebody.
The tell-tale sign is when they give you their story after a "safe" period of time - say, 2 weeks. They know you're into them, they want you to be there for them (for whatever reason), so they lay down some really heavy to keep you around. I'll bet you took the bait, didn't you? Yeah, she made you care about her, but the moment you had some sympathy, she took it and ran. And then they don't know how to break up with you because you're everything they've ever wanted in a pincushion, so she ing sleeps with your landlord/ cousin and takes off with your cat, but i'll find you, Jennifer, oh I'll FIND YOU I PROMISE, AND THEN IT WILL BE TIME TO PAY ME BACK FOR MY CAR THAT YOU WRECKED. BUT NOT EVEN THEN WILL WE BE EVEN. DO YOU LIKE PINK CHAMPAGNE YOU ING CUNT? YEAH, I'LL BET YOU MISS IT, DON'T YOU? DON'T YOU?!??! |
Did you have to use MY name?? |
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