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| Fire|IcE |
HOW can we trust? When do we learn to trust
How did trust come into us.. where we born with it... did we learn it from out perents... from ppl... did we read it ... did we grow into it..
HOW did Trust form in ppl ? |
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| Gekhous |
| i have no trust in mankind |
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| Maaz |
| I trust everyone, unless they betrayal my trust or show any potential to do so (it's hard to trust in a begger 1:00 AM in a desert street with a knife in his hands :D). |
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| Slylee |
| the first stage of life or conflict is trust v. mistrust when you are a newborn....but that's more about cognitive development as an infant. as far as trusting people in general as an adult, i guess it's learned and your experiences you go through shape your attitude towards people. i guess i am sort of like maaz...unless you give me a reason right off the bat that i shouldn't trust you, then i am pretty trusting. i am very sketchy and observant w/ people sometimes too though. i have been dicked over before by friends who betrayed my confidence but it's hard for me to hold a grudge, i dont believe in that. basically if it happens, i can easily forgive but that doesn't mean i will go right back to sharing personal things with them or being how i was before. you just have to be careful. |
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| SportTrance |
I'm the opposite, if I don't know you, I automatically can't trust you. You have to build it, and it isn't easy.
Its the business perspective I've learned over the years, and any business owner realizes, 90% of the time, trusting in someone, backfires the majority of the time. You have to build trust, no questions asked.
You up once, then well, tough . I will tell someone, in all seriousness, to their face, "I am trusting you", and most of the time, they know I'm not kidding. If you up, it means you tried me, and means many other things, and so the trust is lost. This is all ofcourse from a business perspective. As far as relationships, thats a whole different story, but in my world of business, you get 1 chance, lifes too short to around. |
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| Munken |
| I'm very trusting... maybe to much it backfires sometimes, and i've lost a few friends coz of it, but i have no recrets... i trust nearly anyone to start with, if they betray my trust chances are i will never speak to them again. |
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| {b.s.e.} |
| trust is self-reassurance. it is a firm belief in honesty, reliability and honor. |
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| Kimmi |
| Well, if you look at it Psychologically or Sociologically, we learn to trust between when we're born and the age of one. If we dont trust outr parents in that time, it''ll be harder to trust other people in the fufutre. Personally, I'll trust people. But once it's gone, it's gone for good and there's no way to gain it back |
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| Kimmi |
| Wow I can't spell. It looks like I'm dyslexic up there or something. Online stutters. :nervous: |
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| {b.s.e.} |
| d-d-on't wor-worry, it-t hap-happens t-to th-the bes-bes-bes-bes-best of uh-us. ;) |
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| BLuEOcEaN420 |
trust is something earned and it isnt part of human nature...we learn to trust others over course of time... first w/ our mother and then so forth. prolly trust first signs of trust is allowing to be taken care of by our parents and trusting them to not drop us our head! :toothless :crazy:
anyways i dont trust most ppl and its prolly a result of having my trust betrayed by my parents :o
-BLuEOcEaN420 |
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