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Singularity55
Senior tranceaddict

Registered: Sep 2015
Location: Melbourne
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Re: Re: Odd things dates/fwbs/partners have done
quote: | Originally posted by Lira
My wife has steamed rice for breakfast, which would be the definition of odd (for me), but totally harmless and perfectly acceptable. She doesn't seem to understand why I can't get enough of bread and cheese either, which is also odd because cheese is life, but that's hardly something serious.
What you said, however, isn't odd, it's abusive and not something most people would put up with.
- Get off the internet and seek professional help. Something is clearly off about you, and even if one of us here turned out to be a specialist, this isn't the right medium or place to give you any assistance. If anything, it's just a matter of time before you end up listening to misogynistic cretins online. Sure, do that and you might attract partners being a red-pilled Andrew Tate-like figure, but the people around you will most likely be a reflection of the twit you'll become.
- Like Sys said, this is something we might experience when teenagers, not in our thirties. Most grown-ups would see this sort of situation and simply walk away. What you call "anxious attachment style" seems to be low self-esteem issues, and you're not being able to spot a red flag in a Chinese military parade.
- It's blatantly obvious that you're hanging out with the wrong sort of people. If you're single, good, it's easier to get your act together and find a way out... but, for the love of God, don't put up with this sort of thing you're talking about. Just get off the internet already and go seek professional help.
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Yeh it is abusive. My friends are pissed and can't believe I even want to know her.
Nah no Andrew Tate... there's probably a few reasons I can't think of right now but really i have 3 times as many female friends so I doubt anti women attitude would happen to me
I have a feeling professional help isn't as useful as people think. I kniw plenty of people with a personality disorder who have been that way despite therapy.
I am however seeing a psych but we're more working on work related routines. Also ehh... the social advice might be better to learn from friends anyway
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Jan-18-2024 22:40
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SYSTEM-J
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Registered: Sep 2003
Location: Manchester
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"Nah man, I just like intense girls, you wouldn't understand the complexities of the situation, I don't need any advice thanks, my friends are saying the exact same things as you but it's cool it's just who I'm attracted to, I've got more disorders than zeros at the end of my bank balance but I don't need to listen to people with jobs and stable long term relationships, the doctor told me to take these pills but whatever man, people just don't get me, really though, why am I single..."
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Jan-18-2024 23:10
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SYSTEM-J
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Registered: Sep 2003
Location: Manchester
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Jan-18-2024 23:48
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planetaryplayer
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Arnold Ernstain wrote that reality is relative in case you didn�t hear about it
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