So I was curious last week and asked my father how he would feel if he was never a grandfather. He replied that he wouldn’t mind either way.
I was honestly curious to see what he would say. It’s mainly because it’s just me and my cousin to carry on the family name and let’s just say he's more in love with his computer then any girl he has ever met. Plus my parents had me at this time in their lives.
I'm so against Kids that I had to tell my dad he is never going to be a grand father, like I honestly can't stand them and nor can my wife we both agreed to never have kids. I even tested myself with my last girl friend who had a kid. We dated for like 2 months then I met her kid and he was such an annoying brat she never herd from me again. Some people are meant to have children and care for something they created I can't. Me and my wife agree the only thing we'd like to see if we had a baby is how beautiful it would be, then we wouldn’t want it anymore LoL
Registered: Feb 2008
Location: Dancing with strangers in dark rooms - Toronto
Up until last year I was dead against having kids... I knew I was too selfish and just thought they would get in my way of a happy life (travel, work, fun...)
Now..... I look forward to it... but I am definitely willing to wait until the right time in my life.... Im too young to be seriously thinking about it.
I get all happy inside whenever I see babies.. lol
Just sucks that having kids will hinder my ability to be a successful career woman. I am convinced that you can not be a a great mother (to my standards) and successful in your career (to my standards) at the same time.... but I guess life will work its way out like it always does.
Mar-04-2009 20:40
Intangible
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Location: Dancing with strangers in dark rooms - Toronto
And I think kids become less bratty when they are your own
My mom use to say (I was never sure if she was joking or not) that she disliked every child but her own.
Originally posted by Intangible
Just sucks that having kids will hinder my ability to be a successful career woman. I am convinced that you can not be a a great mother (to my standards) and successful in your career (to my standards) at the same time.... but I guess life will work its way out like it always does.
see my wife wants to be a cop and it would seriously affect her creer she had kids plus her dad was rcmp so she knows what its like to have a cop for a parent and doesn't want to do that to her children
LOL, well for me there are some pretty rigurous rules ill need to follow set forth in my dads will
one of which being
- Not until i was 30 ( so the age gap would be fixed and my father would be a grandfather at an apporiate age)....
Mar-04-2009 21:25
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quote:
Originally posted by Geoffb3
LOL, well for me there are some pretty rigurous rules ill need to follow set forth in my dads will
one of which being
- Not until i was 30 ( so the age gap would be fixed and my father would be a grandfather at an apporiate age)....
Your dad is controlling when you have kids
Mar-04-2009 21:30
FunkyCrew
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Registered: Feb 2006
Location: Soul Shakin'
can't imagine myself with kids for another 5 years
so I'll say no for now
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