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Posted by torontotrance on May-24-2004 23:49:

Ever do this?

Like your friend is having a super bad day and like shit hit the fan (yet you don't fucking realize this) and you ask an innocent question to that person and WHAM!!!!!!!! you get it....you honestly cared enough to check in and maybe it was your fault but maybe theirs and then like WHAM!!!....you get all this anger and bullshit or just the plain hint that you are adding salt to the wounds.

my question, why does this always happen when you talk with women..pms? or genetic makeup or maybe just your own idiocy

Posted by torontotrance on May-24-2004 23:53:

oh if someone just realized my day has been shit...

my response...YUP

Posted by trancEyes22 on May-24-2004 23:55:

well newsflash, this doesn't always happen with just women. i've had plenty of men snap at me when they are having a bad day. it's natural- its called anger displacement...the person who gets attacked isn't the reason for the persons anger...they are just the only one there to take it out on. usually in my experiences, the angered person will apologize later after realizing what they did.

cheer up andy!!

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Posted by torontotrance on May-24-2004 23:57:

who says I'm pissed off?

I'm fine...just I care too much for others (newsflash to the ta folk, who all think that I am some faceless SOB monster).

Posted by trancebrat on May-24-2004 23:59:

Re: Ever do this?

quote:
Originally posted by torontotrance
Like your friend is having a super bad day and like shit hit the fan (yet you don't fucking realize this) and you ask an innocent question to that person and WHAM!!!!!!!! you get it....you honestly cared enough to check in and maybe it was your fault but maybe theirs and then like WHAM!!!....you get all this anger and bullshit or just the plain hint that you are adding salt to the wounds.

my question, why does this always happen when you talk with women..pms? or genetic makeup or maybe just your own idiocy

You posted our argument? You left out a lot of details.

Are you calling me an idiot now?

Posted by trancebrat on May-25-2004 00:00:

quote:
Originally posted by trancEyes22
well newsflash, this doesn't always happen with just women. i've had plenty of men snap at me when they are having a bad day. it's natural- its called anger displacement...the person who gets attacked isn't the reason for the persons anger...they are just the only one there to take it out on. usually in my experiences, the angered person will apologize later after realizing what they did.

cheer up andy!!

I didn't snap at him. Like I said...details details.

Posted by torontotrance on May-25-2004 00:01:

who said that was you? lmao (this has happened with 3 people today)

I was talking hypothetically here anyway

who the hell I blamed anyone about anything. I figured since it happened 3 times with 3 different women today that I would talk about.

of course I failed to mention it was my own idiocy 2 out of the 3 times.

Posted by torontotrance on May-25-2004 00:02:

case and point, I've been a complete fuckup with things today. So I'm just going to hide for the rest of May 24th (then I can't do anymore harm!!!!!)

Posted by Rodrico on May-25-2004 00:03:

Andy is not Rico...Suave...

Posted by trancebrat on May-25-2004 00:03:

quote:
Originally posted by torontotrance
case and point, I've been a complete fuckup with things today. So I'm just going to hide for the rest of May 24th (then I can't do anymore harm!!!!!)

I think that's a good idea.

Posted by torontotrance on May-25-2004 00:04:

and then the other pissy people can't get mad anymore at me.

Posted by torontotrance on May-25-2004 00:04:

quote:
Originally posted by Rodrico
Andy is not Rico...Suave...

comes with the territory I reckon

being blunt, direct and no bullshit.

Posted by Rodrico on May-25-2004 00:06:

blunt, direct, and no bullshit also means no ladies...you would think they would cherish such traits? :P

Posted by torontotrance on May-25-2004 00:07:

oh so you mean kissass to get women?

Posted by trancebrat on May-25-2004 00:07:

quote:
Originally posted by torontotrance
and then the other pissy people can't get mad anymore at me.

Like I said to you earlier...sometimes it's best to listen instead of always reacting.

Posted by torontotrance on May-25-2004 00:08:

yes boss

this also points out why i don't have a g.f

Posted by trancebrat on May-25-2004 00:09:

quote:
Originally posted by Rodrico
blunt, direct, and no bullshit also means no ladies...you would think they would cherish such traits? :P

I actually like someone that is straightforward. I don't like games or guys that BS me. I'm not that way so I damn sure don't want a guy that is that way. I am very direct and sometimes people get their feelings hurt as a result. What can you do?

Posted by torontotrance on May-25-2004 00:09:

run and hide :P or just avoid amber

I can't seem to do either....so attracted to that woman

Posted by trancebrat on May-25-2004 00:11:

quote:
Originally posted by torontotrance
run and hide :P

Very funny

Posted by Rodrico on May-25-2004 00:12:

quote:
Originally posted by torontotrance
oh so you mean kissass to get women?

Lol, naw man, just because one end of the spectrum doesnt work, means that the other will either...find the suitable middle ground.

Posted by trancebrat on May-25-2004 00:12:

quote:
Originally posted by torontotrance
run and hide :P or just avoid amber

I can't seem to do either....so attracted to that woman

Nice edit

Posted by torontotrance on May-25-2004 00:12:

read the re-edited version

Posted by torontotrance on May-25-2004 00:12:

i ain't lying either

Posted by trancebrat on May-25-2004 00:15:

quote:
Originally posted by torontotrance
i ain't lying either

I'm sure you aren't. We've bickered quite a bit lately and we're still friends.

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