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Posted by D-res on Oct-21-2004 03:58:

Unhappy my parents are gonna split up

so yeah... today was their 20th anniversary and my dad gave my mom a card and money. the card said inside that they should attend marraige counseling, but my mom says that she doesnt love him anymore, so she's not even going to bother. Basically they've spent 5 years living in the same house, but sleeping in different beds. my dad would get off work at 5 and then go to a bar till 8 or 9. whenever he is home, he spends his time in the basement alone watching tv. basically my dad is a lazy asshole who spends his time with himself, but he actually made an effort to try and turn things around, so im kinda pissed my mom wont try and go for it.....

i really dont know what to do.


Posted by Arbiter on Oct-21-2004 04:01:

Re: my parents are gonna split up

It's probably your fault.


Posted by Rodrico on Oct-21-2004 04:01:

What says, "I love you and take me back" more than a card and money?

Your dad is a romantic type of guy isn't he?


Posted by Xenocreator_PG_ on Oct-21-2004 04:01:

Re: my parents are gonna split up

quote:
Originally posted by D-res
so yeah... today was their 20th anniversary and my dad gave my mom a card and money. the card said inside that they should attend marraige counseling, but my mom says that she doesnt love him anymore, so she's not even going to bother. Basically they've spent 5 years living in the same house, but sleeping in different beds. my dad would get off work at 5 and then go to a bar till 8 or 9. whenever he is home, he spends his time in the basement alone watching tv. basically my dad is a lazy asshole who spends his time with himself, but he actually made an effort to try and turn things around, so im kinda pissed my mom wont try and go for it.....

i really dont know what to do.




Bad news. How long they been together?


Posted by D-res on Oct-21-2004 04:04:

Re: Re: my parents are gonna split up

quote:
Originally posted by Rodrico
What says, "I love you and take me back" more than a card and money?

Your dad is a romantic type of guy isn't he?


my dad is a lazy asshole like i said... oh did i forget cheap.




quote:
Originally posted by Xenocreator_PG_
Bad news. How long they been together?



it does say 20th anniversary doesnt it?


Posted by nialsjd on Oct-21-2004 04:04:

ur life is over. go to iraq and help USA


Posted by Arbiter on Oct-21-2004 04:04:

quote:
Originally posted by D-res
thanks for the nice comments


No problem. If your mother needs some extra cash after the divorce, you should remind her that prostitution is always an option.


Posted by Rodrico on Oct-21-2004 04:04:

So would you like me to come to your house and kick him in the ass and tell him how to treat his wife of 20 years, or maybe you can try it.


Posted by Rodrico on Oct-21-2004 04:06:

quote:
Originally posted by Arbiter
No problem. If your mother needs some extra cash after the divorce, you should remind her that prostitution is always an option.


ROFL, thats it, im fuckin leaving, I cant handle reading your comments anymore, your killing me here.


Posted by D-res on Oct-21-2004 04:07:

quote:
Originally posted by Rodrico
So would you like me to come to your house and kick him in the ass and tell him how to treat his wife of 20 years, or maybe you can try it.



actually im considering it. he always says he's stronger than me, but he's getting old and i have him in both height and weight. i can probably handle him. im sure he heard the entire conversation between my mom and i, and if he confronts me about it, i guess i will have to tell him that he did wait a tad too long.... but, yeah


Posted by cap on Oct-21-2004 04:07:

Is your mom a MILF?

If so, I'll "counsel" her and get her through this


Posted by TweeK on Oct-21-2004 04:08:

Dont worry man, same thing happen to me when i was 15 yrs old.And look at me now i turn out normal.....or did I?

Srry to hear that.....but shit happends and you will get over it eventually.


Posted by Arbiter on Oct-21-2004 04:08:

quote:
Originally posted by Rodrico
ROFL, thats it, im fuckin leaving, I cant handle reading your comments anymore, your killing me here.


This shit never gets old.


Posted by d0uble h3lix on Oct-21-2004 04:09:

Re: my parents are gonna split up

quote:
Originally posted by D-res
so yeah... today was their 20th anniversary and my dad gave my mom a card and money. the card said inside that they should attend marraige counseling, but my mom says that she doesnt love him anymore, so she's not even going to bother. Basically they've spent 5 years living in the same house, but sleeping in different beds. my dad would get off work at 5 and then go to a bar till 8 or 9. whenever he is home, he spends his time in the basement alone watching tv. basically my dad is a lazy asshole who spends his time with himself, but he actually made an effort to try and turn things around, so im kinda pissed my mom wont try and go for it.....

i really dont know what to do.



sorry to hear man, if you want try to get them to hear out each other's differences and try marriage counselling, but there's only so much you can do, its up to them for the most part...take care holmes.


Posted by tribu on Oct-21-2004 04:10:

Sucks man, but you dont seem to broken up about it. Hope everything goes the best for you. Remember both your parents are people too, and as deserving of your love/compassion as you were of theirs as they raised you...


Posted by Arbiter on Oct-21-2004 04:12:

quote:
Originally posted by TweeK
And look at me now i turn out normal.....or did I?


Your name should be Butters, not Tweek.


Posted by nialsjd on Oct-21-2004 04:14:

u have any single sisters? broken families usually have pretty horny kids


Posted by Dmatrox on Oct-21-2004 04:14:

quote:
Originally posted by Arbiter
No problem. If your mother needs some extra cash after the divorce, you should remind her that prostitution is always an option.


wtf, dont be a fucking asshole, for fucks christ


imo, your parents are selfish for wanting to separate. They may not love each other, but there should be someone that should both love, if you know what i mean, which is why its best for parents to stay together. best of luck.


Posted by TweeK on Oct-21-2004 04:14:

quote:
Originally posted by Arbiter
Your name should be Butters, not Tweek.


But tweek is the cool one


Posted by Arbiter on Oct-21-2004 04:15:

quote:
Originally posted by Dmatrox
wtf, dont be a fucking asshole, for fucks christ


What are you, his mom? It's time for him to shed his Pampers and stop being such a crybaby.


Posted by Arbiter on Oct-21-2004 04:16:

quote:
Originally posted by TweeK
But tweek is the cool one


Exactly, that's why it doesn't fit you.


Posted by Dmatrox on Oct-21-2004 04:16:

quote:
Originally posted by Arbiter
What are you, his mom? It's time for him to shed his Pampers and stop being such a crybaby.


its not nice to say shit about peoples moms.


Posted by TweeK on Oct-21-2004 04:17:

quote:
Originally posted by nialsjd
u have any single sisters? broken families usually have pretty horny kids


Is this true???? sounds interesting


Posted by D-res on Oct-21-2004 04:17:

well i've lived with them long enough where they have basically been split up, but both of them have been around and been there for eachother when something trajic happens (death in family, etc) but my dad actually suggested counselling, which is a HUGE improvemtn in my opinion. if you knew him like i do, you would know that that is so much more than what he usually would do, which is nothing. it just upsets me that my mom isnt going to atleast try. they're getting older and i want the best for them, which is eachother. it doesnt hurt my so much, just cause im kind of used to this kind of stuff around the house, but its more how they're handling it. i guess in a sense, my dad deserves it.... jeez.


Posted by TweeK on Oct-21-2004 04:18:

quote:
Originally posted by Arbiter
Exactly, that's why it doesn't fit you.



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