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Hello all, ive got an issue at hand and have come to a crossroads.

Ive been dating this girl for 2 months, shes beautiful, and what attracted me to her was her not being as slutty as all the other girls in my age group (22 years old). However, after 2 months of being with her shes still not very affectionate with me and we've only had sex once. Not to say that sex is the only thing that matters, but id hate to be in a situation where i would cheat on her with someone less attractive because i havent gotten liad in a month.

I dont want to bring it up with her because shes a genuinely nice girl and make her feel guilty and get guilt sex out of it. Should i wait it out ? Talk to her ? Dump her ?

An example of non-affection: pic her up today, hang out for a few hours, go out for some beers and wings with a few freinds, go to drop her off and only get a peck on the cheek. wtf ? at least give your boyfreind a decent kiss.


Input ?


I also consider myself decent looking, socially aware and decent with women, except extremely picky, after my last girlfreind it took me almost a year to find a girl that id deemed decent enough to date rather than randomly hook up with.

Without having read any of that I say:


ROFLMAO!!





Hahahaha, Boomer is my hero!!

rapeh4x that.

I don't know what to tell you but -

I know a guy who didn't kiss his girlfriend until they'd been 'together' about a year. Now they're happily married. (but I still think they're freaks)

Some people just need more time to devellop intimacy. Maybe she's been betrayed in the past, who knows. How much 'affection' are you showing? And are you intrusive about it?

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Originally posted by Aquarian I don't know what to tell you but - I know a guy who didn't kiss his girlfriend until they'd been 'together' about a year. Now they're happily married. (but I still think they're freaks) Some people just need more time to devellop intimacy. Maybe she's been betrayed in the past, who knows. How much 'affection' are you showing? And are you intrusive about it?

id say im affectionate without being overbearing or making her uncomfortable but id like for her to make the first move. I dunno if its taking her a while to get comfortable with me or what, but its not like we havent been intimate.

weird. is she mad prude?? if not, then i'd say that she's not really feeling ya.

try to have a romantic evening, invite her over, cook her dinner, get some wine and drink LOTS of it. and if nothing happens, then...it's time to move on.

or...y'know u could always bring it up with her. just ask her what the deal is. go the route: "is everything ok? are you comfortable with me?" not "put out damnit!"

edit: just tell her how hot you think it would be if she initiated.

dude WTF, she dont want ur shit, so loose her

i read the first few sentences and i was honestly going to tell you that you can work out any situation with a girl with hot sex.

i geuess this can be solved by having sex with her mom

maybe you werent good in the sack the first time around?

Its time for alcohol poisoning......

But just get her drunk, not you...you have a mission to accomplish

Re: Girlfreind Advice

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Originally posted by chadmk3 Input ?

If you're attracted to girls because they don't put out, and then you don't like it when they don't put out in your relationship with them, then you have a problem.

Wait it out.

For you a month might be a very long time but you should think about us patient people who have waited up to a year just to get to 3rd base.

i think it could be because you were bad in the sack so shes dont wanna do it again yet..

Or your being to much of a nice guy about everything and your becoming a hang out friend to her,(go for coffee etc), rather than a boyfriend and she probally doesnt get turned on by it.its like if you say "but im a really nice guy" its like a fat girl sayin "but im really smart" same thing.
you gotta make her want to be with you.

So next time you go out, take her out without your friends, get smashed, talk to other girls, have a good time and dont pay so much attention to her. If she does like you more than a friend she'll put up with it and still wanna hang out.

or get her alone with a bottle of wine and have drunken sex. you are her boyfriend right?

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Originally posted by Frost_Melt i think it could be because you were bad in the sack so shes dont wanna do it again yet..

Ouch. Speaking of blunt.

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[i][b]O or get her alone with a bottle of wine and have drunken sex. you are her boyfriend right?

hahah yea about that......... shes not a big drinker. SHe comes out to the bar and watches me get hammered with my freinds but doesnt like to get drunk, do drunken sex isnt really a possibility. Id say i was decent in the sack our ony time.

and i understand where its confusing that i liked her for not being slutty but am now mad that she doesnt put out, my college is full of absolute whores so i really want to shy away from that when looking for a real relationship.


And shes into me, she text messages me all the time just to say hi and stuff.

Talk to her.

Really, how do you want to know what to do if you don't know why she's behaving that way?

sleep rape

Just wait for it, if you talk with her she may get uncomfortable..

you shouldn't have tried to put it in the butt the first time around

Try to be a bit more agressive and show her that you want her. It is possible that she is just used to being the passive one. Was she a virgin before you?, if you have only had sex with her once she may not want to do it again because it wasnt that good in her opinion. The only way you will really find out what is going on is by communicating with her. Dont feel bad about asking why she is being this way and tell her that you have needs but you are also concerened about hers.

force feed her some good e.

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Originally posted by tampax give her some good e.

heheheh yea if she is into that... if she doesnt want it then send it my way please

what are u waiting for....dump her!!! seriously she'll want u badly then

I'll break her in for you.

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Originally posted by Spike what are u waiting for....dump her!!! seriously she'll want u badly then

prob not

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