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Posted by l�cid on May-11-2007 19:54:

boycotting Mother's Day

ok, as if i need to give you guys any more of a reason to think i'm a nonconformist, i just thought this was interesting...

quote:
After the death of her mother, daughter Anna Jarvis was determined to found a memorial day for women. She celebrated her first Mother�s Day on May 10, 1908 , at the Methodist church where her mother had taught Sunday school. West Virginia Governor William E. Glasscock issued the first state-recognized Mother�s Day proclamation on April 26, 1910 . Two years later, Anna was recognized as the founder of Mother�s Day by the General Methodist Conference.

President Woodrow Wilson declared an official national Mother�s Day in 1914, approving the Congressional resolution to celebrate the day every year on the second Sunday in May.

By the 1920s, Jarvis had become soured on the commercialization of the holiday. She incorporated herself as the Mother�s Day International Association, claimed copyright on the second Sunday of May, and was once arrested for disturbing the peace. She and her sister Ellsinore spent their family inheritance campaigning against the holiday. Both died in poverty. Jarvis, says her New York Times obituary, became embittered because too many people sent their mothers a printed greeting card. She considered it "a poor excuse for the letter you are too lazy to write."


so what do you guys think? it's crazy to me that the woman who invented the holiday spent her entire savings basically fighting against what the holiday had become. personally i'd rather honor the holiday as Jarvis intended it to be, and not send my mom a cheesy Hallmark card or flowers. granted i'll still call her and tell her i love her... but after knowing how hard Jarvis fought, i think it's a little wrong to buy into the commercialism of the holiday.


Posted by RJT on May-11-2007 19:57:

Meh - any of these holidays are what you make of them.

If you buy into the commercial aspect of any of them, it's your own fault.

On the other hand, if you take it as an opportunity to make sure your mom knows you genuinely care for her, whether it be by phone call, letter, whatever - I think it's great.

As long as you don't think "Mothers Day" really means "buy something cheap as a bullshit gesture that you love your mommy day," I think it's all good


Posted by StanVoid on May-11-2007 19:58:

so instead of sending my mom a card and some flowers i'll send her this memo.

that's basically the Festivus equivalent for Mother's day.


Posted by Frenchie on May-11-2007 19:59:

W/e, I still buy my mom crap.

I mean I don't need to, I pretty much tell her and show her everyday that I lovevher.

It'll take longer to get people to STOP buying into it than getting them to know the tru importance fo Monther's day.


Posted by RJT on May-11-2007 20:00:

quote:
Originally posted by StanVoid

that's basically the Festivus equivalent for Mother's day.




Excellent.


Posted by shaw on May-11-2007 20:00:

Re: boycotting Mother's Day

quote:
Originally posted by l�cid
ok, as if i need to give you guys any more of a reason to think i'm a nonconformist, i just thought this was interesting...


"If there's anything the nonconformist hates more than a conformist, it's another nonconformist who fails to conform to the prevailing standard of nonconformity."

~Bill Vaughan


Posted by Project-K on May-11-2007 20:52:

quote:
Governor William E. Glasscock




Sounds like a cheesy gay james bond villain name


Posted by shaw on May-11-2007 20:54:

quote:
Originally posted by Project-K


Sounds like a cheesy gay james bond villain name


aka an austin powers villain


Posted by stren on May-11-2007 21:36:

we celebrate it on 26 of may, should I boycott it ?


Posted by SuspicionVandit on May-11-2007 21:41:

she's in hell right next to Brutus


Posted by Abercrombie on May-11-2007 21:43:


Posted by Orbax on May-11-2007 21:44:

poor people are poor because of poor decisions.


Posted by raveed on May-11-2007 21:49:

quote:
Originally posted by RJT

On the other hand, if you take it as an opportunity to make sure your mom knows you genuinely care for her, whether it be by phone call, letter, whatever - I think it's great.


We shouldn�t need stupid days like this one to show our parents that we love them. Mothers day is supposed to be a 364 day thing with the one day that is her birthday being the special day out. Parents are the last people to whom we need to prove that we love them.

I agree with the article. This is commercialism at its worst.


Posted by Orbax on May-11-2007 21:56:

im going out to dinner with her and getting her an awesome gift and its going to be the whole family.

Dont you people understand?!??! moms like to have their families surrounding them and having fun!


Posted by Subey on May-11-2007 22:01:

quote:
Originally posted by Orbax
im going out to dinner with her and getting her an awesome gift and its going to be the whole family.

Dont you people understand?!??! moms like to have their families surrounding them and having fun!



Everyone Ignore this post! Orbax is obviously a guerrillaz (Clint Eastwood) marketer for the restaurant industry! We won't be fooled by your lies!


Posted by Abercrombie on May-11-2007 22:58:


Posted by gehzumteufel on May-11-2007 23:01:

i hate my cvnt egg donor. so i dont participate in this "holiday"


Posted by spiflicated on May-12-2007 02:19:

quote:
Originally posted by Orbax
im going out to dinner with her and getting her an awesome gift and its going to be the whole family.

Dont you people understand?!??! moms like to have their families surrounding them and having fun!


+1

Regardless of how it started, if you have a great mom, take the time to show her how much you love her for changing your diapers.


Posted by Frenchie on May-12-2007 02:23:

Just like Valentimes day, you don't need one day to show someone you love them. Everyday is Mother's day..


Posted by medinaM5 on May-12-2007 02:24:

quote:
Originally posted by Frenchie
Just like Valentimes day, you don't need one day to show someone you love them. Everyday is Mother's day..


i shed a tear


Posted by squirrelly on May-12-2007 02:38:

quote:
Originally posted by gehzumteufel
i hate my cvnt egg donor. so i dont participate in this "holiday"


wow. pretty f*&$ing harsh.

I love my mom. She's my best friend and my mom all at once. I send her flowers even when it's not mothers day, just to make her day. Randomly come by her work with a surprise dinner just to say "hey, thanks for raising me and spending all your hard earned cash on your children".

Even if it's "commercialized", I don't give a crap. It's another day to make my mom feel great and another way to show how much I appreciate her. She deserves it.

And non-conforming is conforming anyway now a days.


Posted by gehzumteufel on May-12-2007 03:13:

quote:
Originally posted by squirrelly
wow. pretty f*&$ing harsh.

I love my mom. She's my best friend and my mom all at once. I send her flowers even when it's not mothers day, just to make her day. Randomly come by her work with a surprise dinner just to say "hey, thanks for raising me and spending all your hard earned cash on your children".

Even if it's "commercialized", I don't give a crap. It's another day to make my mom feel great and another way to show how much I appreciate her. She deserves it.

And non-conforming is conforming anyway now a days.

i know its harsh. im surprised your the first to actually say anything for my comment. i dont hate anyone other than her. even people who have burned me. i am not one to quickly forgive but im not one that cant forgive. theres a lot of shit that happened that built up to get me to the point i am. its unfortunate but its the way it is.


Posted by adder on May-12-2007 06:05:

quote:
Originally posted by Orbax
poor people are poor because of poor decisions.


in many cases, its not the poor people themselves who made those decisions, and they're stuck with the consequences anyways.


Posted by Clovis on May-12-2007 06:12:

I am so tired of "Get your mother the perfect gift for Mother's Day, with a ___insert_product_here___ from __insert_corporation_here___!"

Mothers Day is supposed to be about ending war, and not letting mother's continue to lose their sons to the will of generals.


Posted by Arbiter on May-12-2007 07:37:

Dunno

As opposed to how great it is to buy into the commercialism of everything else?

It seems to me that it would be better to stop trying to express one's feelings in the form of "conveniently marketed" goods and services altogether, rather than concerning oneself with one, specific example.


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