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Moving from home...
Hey what's up guys?
Im finally moving out tommorow from home. Im finishing up my last 2 years of undergrad at a university (UC Riverside) that's about 6 hours away from here. I have been all excited about this for the last 6-7 months, but this week I just realized how much I'm going to miss my family and friends. I have a pretty easy life here, my friends are really cool I don't think I could ever make friends like these. It's hard for me to make friends I really don't know why, maybe it's just hard for me to let people get close? Plus, im really bad at meeting girls too, I'm that shy & insecure type of guy. And my parents, as much as I have told myself I can't wait till I get out of this place to their face, I'am really starting to regret it now. They give me everything I need. I just hope when I move I make it out there in the real world. I don't want to have to depend on my parents anymore for anything. I guess I'm scared. Are these just emotions just toying with me? My stomach is feeling nasty like it's just dropping constantly. I'm not crying or anything, just feel depressive I think, again, maybe scared... This is not the first time I have been on my own, the first time I was living in the same place (LA) but I would come home every weekend, drive about 4-6 hours every weekend. I promised myself and my parents I wouldn't do that this time.
Can you guys give me any tips on what to do? Not miss home so much? Make my new place seem a bit more homey... Im going to be living near my cousin, a girl that attends a school nearby. She also lives on her own. My best friend is moving to San Diego in about 2 months which is only like 1.5 hours away from me, so it won't be so bad on the weekends.
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if you are moving from Riverside to LA, get a gun
if you are moving from LA to riverside, keep the gun, but put on a Panic@the Disco shirt. If you ever get caught without your shirt, your gonna need that gun
Get yourself involved in activities. If you are just sitting at home alone all the time, you're going to feel shitter, and have more time to think about the people you're missing.
Join clubs or something at the school.
That's my suggestion.
Re: Moving from home...
Northern Cali to Riverside
have any friends there? make new ones
Just go down there and go with the flow.
Find people to party with. Go from there.
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| Originally posted by SuspicionVandit ???? if you are moving from Riverside to LA, get a gun if you are moving from LA to riverside, keep the gun, but put on a Panic@the Disco shirt. If you ever get caught without your shirt, your gonna need that gun |
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| Originally posted by SuspicionVandit ???? if you are moving from Riverside to LA, get a gun if you are moving from LA to riverside, keep the gun, but put on a Panic@the Disco shirt. If you ever get caught without your shirt, your gonna need that gun |
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| Originally posted by Theresa Get yourself involved in activities. If you are just sitting at home alone all the time, you're going to feel shitter, and have more time to think about the people you're missing. Join clubs or something at the school. That's my suggestion. |
damn, i couldn't wait to move out
i don't miss a thing
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| Originally posted by Clovis Just go down there and go with the flow. Find people to party with. Go from there. |
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| Originally posted by nefardec damn, i couldn't wait to move out i don't miss a thing |
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| Originally posted by bas No shit. I can drink, smoke, listen to music, do whatever the hell I want |
A striking similarity to Nou, no?
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| Originally posted by UWM A striking similarity to Nou, no? |
Haha, don't worry; moving out of home is great. The only bitch is having to do all the cooking and cleaning yourself.
Think about all the great shit you can do now you're without parents.
If you wake up with a half mongrel, no need to stay in bed til it goes away, you can get up and walk around as much as you like. Hell, you can even polish it off in your lounge room without being interrupted if it floats your boat.
i have moved so many times that moving does not scare me. i can see how you would be scared from not being with your maily. i really dont have this problem either since my parents are gone half the time either way, so im used to it.
you will be ok, not to worry my friend. like clovis said, go with the flow. you will meet new poeople and new friends.
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| Originally posted by nchs09 i have moved so many times that moving does not scare me. i can see how you would be scared from not being with your maily. |
it was supposed to say family 
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| Originally posted by Beat Blog Haha, don't worry; moving out of home is great. The only bitch is having to do all the cooking and cleaning yourself. Think about all the great shit you can do now you're without parents. If you wake up with a half mongrel, no need to stay in bed til it goes away, you can get up and walk around as much as you like. Hell, you can even polish it off in your lounge room without being interrupted if it floats your boat. |
By the sounds of it, I think you'll become a stronger person who won't depend on parents, and your relationship with your parents will become stronger as you'll start to appreciate them more. Sometimes I wish I moved out too since I've realized that everytime I come home from Uni, I take things for granted and neglect the things which I could do on my own like cooking, laundry or budgeting myself.
Parents are great for support but when you move out you realise what you can accomplish on your own. You'll come out better off even if it's hard at first.
make sure you buy lots of tissues. looks like you'll need them.
^^^
Haha; that was pretty harsh.
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| Originally posted by tubularbills are you kidding? cooking for yourself is awesome! no more fucking brussel sprouts for dinner!!!! if i could (which, technically i guess i can), i'd eat spaghetti every night until i died. lol cleaning, on the other hand does suck. i hate doing dishes. and not having a dishwashe blows. |
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| Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN make sure you buy lots of tissues. looks like you'll need them. |
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