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Posted by CranberryJuice on Jul-03-2007 14:00:

in need of some cheer up words

hey everyone

i come in here hoping to find some cheer up words.....it's almost 4 pm in france....

to explain the situation , my dog is sick....i got "her" since im 11 and for a long time "she" is sick now....these past weeks her state deteriorated very quickly and the medicine nor the vet could be helpful anymore

she has spent the past days lying , hardly eating (and god knows if she used to love eating) and hardly moving at all

so finally my dad and I took a decision , we cant bring her to the vet because if we try to move her , she's screaming ,barking in pain

so ....my dad called the vet and he's going to come at home and euthanize her around 7 pm

this dog is basically my little baby i know it's the best solution because i cant stand her suffering but OMG ....im feeling like calling the vet back and telling that i dont want he comes ,

i dont want her to die

sorry if all this sounds cheesy and EMO im just so unhappy right now

Posted by Marc Summers on Jul-03-2007 14:02:

oh NO!

so sorry to hear

Posted by Yan on Jul-03-2007 14:02:

Cheer up, pup.

Posted by RJT on Jul-03-2007 14:04:

I'm so, so sorry to hear that, Marie. I've been in the same spot before, and it can definitely feel surreal.

At the very least though, the old cliche' is true, and you never do forget just how terrific they were, so try to keep your head up and just remember the good times.

Posted by wienerschnitzel on Jul-03-2007 14:08:

i'm sorry marie! i'm sure your dog will die peacefully and happy that he lived with such a great family. I see so many dogs that are just chained up in the yard, always barking and sad.

Posted by meDina on Jul-03-2007 15:22:

she wouldnt want you to be sad for her! remember the good times always

Posted by eRRaTiK on Jul-03-2007 15:24:

"Death is more universal than life; everyone dies but not everyone lives."
- A. Sachs

i'm sure you helped make hers a great life marie

Posted by cheshirepk8 on Jul-03-2007 16:36:

oh man. i remember how traumatic it was when we had to put my 17-year old puppy down. just remember the good times, the bad times, and everything in between... If your baby was in pain, then you made the right decision.

My mom had the best comment for how to make that decision...
"I will never put down an animal who has life left in them, but I also will never keep an animal alive just to suffer.

only thing i can do in this e-world is... *bigassairhugfromme*

Posted by CranberryJuice on Jul-03-2007 19:52:

thank u guys

everything still appear unreal ....

but thank u

Posted by Project-K on Jul-03-2007 19:58:

Do you think she would've rather died any differently? She dies an easy death, surrounded by her family. What else is there to hope for?

I grew up with a dog. Then she died when I was 15 (and so was she). It was one of the hardest things I had to go through. But once you realize that it's inevitable, you look back on the years you had and you appreciate them more. Makes you value life even more.

Posted by gehzumteufel on Jul-03-2007 20:01:

go get another dog. it will ease the pain since it will distract you. also you will try to inject a lot of the things you did with your old dog with your new dog. some will work and then remind you of the great times you had with the previous.

one of my really good friends had to put down one of his 2 dogs. i have known him since we were like 13. when i came over one day and she was gone it was very empty feeling. really wierd. not the same. so i feel you. its still odd now (about 4yrs later) going over there and not seeing her.

Posted by CranberryJuice on Jul-03-2007 20:05:

i dont want to have a new dog anyway that wouldnt be a good solution right now....

my parents have actually an another dog "she" is 18 ....and the vet saw "her" tonite too and told us to be expected to lose her too soon

Posted by Project-K on Jul-03-2007 20:14:

quote:
Originally posted by gehzumteufel
go get another dog. it will ease the pain since it will distract you. also you will try to inject a lot of the things you did with your old dog with your new dog. some will work and then remind you of the great times you had with the previous.

That doesn't sound too healthy. It's best to take some time, so that when you do get a new dog, it'll be for the right reasons.

Posted by Clovis on Jul-03-2007 20:17:

Une phrase tellement cliche dans le monde, qu'en France que c'est presque pas cliche.

"C'est la vie."

Posted by nchs09 on Jul-03-2007 20:20:

imo a dog is a dog

its sad when they die, but its a dog.... i guess i just never really got attached to pets as much as other poeple do.

sounds like he is old enough to die too, his time has come. get another dog if it makes you feel any better that could help.

Posted by chach on Jul-03-2007 20:23:

Posted by nchs09 on Jul-03-2007 20:27:

quote:
Originally posted by chach

exept for the gay ones, and the ones that commit suicide.

Posted by denys envy on Jul-03-2007 20:27:

Re: in need of some cheer up words

quote:
Originally posted by CranberryJuice
hey everyone

i come in here hoping to find some cheer up words.....it's almost 4 pm in france....

to explain the situation , my dog is sick....i got "her" since im 11 and for a long time "she" is sick now....these past weeks "her" state deteriorated very quickly and the medicine nor the vet could be helpful anymore

"she" has spent the past days lying , hardly eating (and god knows if "she" used to love eating) and hardly moving at all

so finally my dad and I took a decision , we cant bring "her" to the vet because if we try to move "her" , "she's" screaming ,barking in pain

so ....my dad called the vet and he's going to come at home and euthanize "her" around 7 pm

this dog is basically my little baby i know it's the best solution because i cant stand "her" suffering but OMG ....im feeling like calling the vet back and telling that i dont want he comes ,

i dont want "her" to die

sorry if all this sounds cheesy and EMO im just so unhappy right now

fixed for pattern.

my question is this. is your dog suffering? and can anything be done to help it?

Posted by PvDoBseSSioN on Jul-03-2007 21:03:

sorry to hear that.... it happened to me a couple months ago and also happened back in august to my other dog, the worst part of it was that i was in france and could not be there for it!

Posted by Lilith on Jul-03-2007 21:05:

Somewhere out there I'm sure there's a new puppy or kitten to adopt just for you Marie.

Posted by all-nite-freak on Jul-03-2007 21:09:

i had to put my cat (i fucking hate cats but an ex made me get one...this one was cool because it starting acting like a dog from being around 2 labs all of the time) to sleep 3 weeks ago and it is hard for sure. I decided to spend its last moments with it and had it in my arms when it died. It was a very sad experience, but you just have to tell yourself that putting it out of its misery and taking the pain away is the most selfless loving thing you could do to an animal. Just give it time, you will heal...just right now spend every moment you have left with it and show it all the love you can until the time comes. No person or thing is forever, but memories last as long as you let them

edit:don't get a new dog right away...give it a little time first

Posted by jonSun on Jul-03-2007 21:09:

Im very sorry Marie. With your dog being raised by you & your family, im sure a dog had a very good life. WHen ive had pets that passed, i just thought of them being in doggy heaven playing with all the other dogs & eating jumk food all day.

Posted by Ted Promo on Jul-03-2007 21:39:

quote:
Originally posted by nchs09
exept for the gay ones, and the ones that commit suicide.

and Chris Benoit.

Sorry to hear, Marie :/

Posted by bubble on Jul-03-2007 21:39:

is she dead yet?

Posted by Jackson on Jul-03-2007 21:39:

Thinking of you Marie...
If you wanna call or text me then its no problem.

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