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Posted by Dilmeet on Sep-26-2007 18:15:

Love Poundin' Sensation I really like this girl... I can't decide Nocturnal or Lovefest :(

I've been talking to this girl, who is also from LA, for about 3 weeks now. I was introduced to her through a friend and we have been just talking to each over phone. We've exchanged pics over the internet, but haven't met in real life yet.

I really want to meet her. She's going to be at Nocturnal and my original plans were to go to Lovefest. I have been forcing her go to Lovefest, but all her friends are for Nocturnal. I really want to go to SF, I love the DJs that are going to be there. I love the whole dancing/drinking outdoors experience. But, I really want to see her as well, and she's not even 100% sure if she's going to be there or not. Also, I really want to meet her in a club or dance event type of place because we might not be feeling each other. If we went to grab coffee or a movie we would be obligated to spend more time with each other and I would hate for her to do that if she doesn't feel me.

Your insight plz


Posted by Scoops on Sep-26-2007 18:17:

post HER pic


Posted by HotDogWater on Sep-26-2007 18:19:

Re: I really like this girl... I can't decide Nocturnal or Lovefest :(

quote:
Originally posted by Dilmeet
she's not even 100% sure if she's going to be there or not

there's the flag that tells me stick with your original plans... how bad would that suck if she didn't go and you cancelled love fest? just invite her to a club or something the next weekend


Posted by idoru on Sep-26-2007 18:19:

Re: I really like this girl... I can't decide Nocturnal or Lovefest :(

quote:
Originally posted by Dilmeet
... and she's not even 100% sure if she's going to be there or not. Also, I really want to meet her in a club or dance event type of place because we might not be feeling each other...


Then play it safe and go to SF. You'll have the chance to meet her in a club or wherever you want to later.

Edit: See, HotDog knows what I'm talking about.


Posted by HotDogWater on Sep-26-2007 18:19:

speed typing ftw


Posted by nerdgrl416 on Sep-26-2007 18:22:

I met my current gf of 7 years on the net.
We spoke on the phone for 3 months, exchanged pictures etc. I was a little nervous until I got to meet her face to face.

Why don't you just meet her for coffee at Starbucks or something. 10 minutes just to meet and see each other. Just let her know there's no obligation but you're just meeting to say hi. After the first 5 minutes you'll know if you guys click or not. If you don't click just part as friends. That way you can make that decision about the love fest.


Posted by 72hrpartyanimal on Sep-26-2007 18:23:

Dont be a pussy!! Go to LoveFest...


Posted by zxsaint on Sep-26-2007 18:23:

Go with your original plans to go to SF or you'll severely regret it if you don't. Not only that, you're going to lower your values in her eyes if you change all your plans just to go meet someone. Not that you're desperate but it'll give off that vibe, you know what I mean?

Going to an event where all her friends will be will also take the focus off you... There will be plenty of other chances to meet her and I'll guarantee theres plenty of women in SF to meet as well.

You'll also have all these pictures and stories to share and talk about after your trip.


Posted by Mecca82 on Sep-26-2007 18:26:

go to love fest.. stick with ur plan...
u never know what will happen in nocturnal... u dont know who her friends are... i think it's better just go to love fest now and ask her to meet up for the next event in LA.. it's easy, LA has events every weekend.. u'll meet her.. there's no rush...

u will never regret going to love fest, but u may see something that u may not want to see in nocturnal.. i dunno what they might be.. but girls are shady.. lol they dont know what they want


Posted by HotDogWater on Sep-26-2007 18:30:

quote:
Originally posted by zxsaint
Go with your original plans to go to SF or you'll severely regret it if you don't. Not only that, you're going to lower your values in her eyes if you change all your plans just to go meet someone. Not that you're desperate but it'll give off that vibe, you know what I mean?

Going to an event where all her friends will be will also take the focus off you... There will be plenty of other chances to meet her and I'll guarantee theres plenty of women in SF to meet as well.

You'll also have all these pictures and stories to share and talk about after your trip.

agree 100%


Posted by Scoops on Sep-26-2007 18:36:

post her pic.....


Posted by TSG on Sep-26-2007 19:09:

Looks like most of the ones that responded are guys, smart ones too.

Hotdogwater saw that RED FLAG right away.
quote:
she's not even 100% sure if she's going to be there or not


Talking on the phone is not the same as talking in person. Same thing goes for writing to each other.

I say stick to your original plans. Go to SF. She will still be here in LA when you get back and with so many things always going on in the EDM world, I'm sure you guys can hook up I mean set a date in which to meet some other time. Well that's if she's a 100% sure about meeting you in person.

BTW... how young is she?


Posted by Trancelover24 on Sep-26-2007 19:48:

The choise should be easy two words...


LOVE FEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Posted by R!CH on Sep-26-2007 19:52:

nudes?


Posted by bas on Sep-26-2007 19:57:

Go to Nocturnal...if she doesn't show up you can always hook up with another slutty high school chick. Win/win.


Posted by |Thrax| on Sep-26-2007 20:01:

SF! , maybe you can find a girl who is not running around in her underwear.
bas =


Posted by R!CH on Sep-26-2007 20:31:

quote:
Originally posted by bas
Go to Nocturnal...if she doesn't show up you can always hook up with another slutty high school chick. Win/win.


hah, more like go to lovefest and ignore her the whole weekend. she'll start to think 'omg wtf is wrong with me! why doesn't he want me?!?!' then come home monday and wait for the panties to drop


Posted by FromAbove on Sep-26-2007 20:59:

Maybe you should post her pictures right here on tranceaddict.com


Posted by skwallie on Sep-26-2007 21:03:

quote:
Originally posted by bas
Go to Nocturnal...if she doesn't show up you can always hook up with another slutty high school chick. Win/win.


or come to lovefest and you can hook up with all the slutty chicks up here.

definitely a win/win with no obligation.


Posted by skwallie on Sep-26-2007 21:03:

quote:
Originally posted by lex400sc
nudes?


yes. nudes please!


Posted by Direct on Sep-26-2007 21:08:

Give me her name, phone number and street address. I will go to noctunal for you.


Posted by rizo on Sep-26-2007 21:28:

quote:
Originally posted by Direct
Give me her name, phone number and street address. I will go to noctunal for you.
arent you coming to love fest?


Posted by bas on Sep-26-2007 21:30:

quote:
Originally posted by skwallie
or come to lovefest and you can hook up with all the slutty chicks up here.

definitely a win/win with no obligation.

Touche sir.


Posted by skwallie on Sep-26-2007 21:37:

quote:
Originally posted by bas
Touche sir.


either way he wins!


Posted by 72hrpartyanimal on Sep-26-2007 21:37:

if you go to lovefest... you can also hang out with all the trannies!!

at least they dont take advantage of guys who are really fucked up like they do in LA


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