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FAO: People who are married or have been married
If you're married right now or have previously been married at some point, what are your impressions of marital life? Is it generally enjoyable or generally not that great?
And if you were married but then split or got divorced, do you think you'll ever marry again?
*looks at arcadiamaxima*
lol
I have NEVER heard of a good marriage. Every one i know that is married bitches.
Not to menchion my parents got divorced, my mom remarried, got divorced again. Now my dad is getting remarried.
Fuck that jazz.
It's not worth it.
ok i'll give a serious answer. Marriage is alot of work. I would say it is generally enjoyable. I am probably happier and more stressed then the average single person (if that makes any sense). I'm putting in alot of hard work starting a family now in hopes that it will pay off (more then it already does) later. I also think that most peoples ideas of marriage are really delusional and unrealistic. Marriage is full of good times and total bullshit, you just have to draw the line somewhere and otherwise resolve to work it out and grow from it. why are you asking about marriage?
Yeah, I don't know anyone my age who has gotten married or engaged with good results.
But my parents' marriage is very good, so I've seen both sides.
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| Originally posted by wienerschnitzel why are you asking about marriage? |
i think the problem with marriage these days is people are too selfish. I think that the femminist movement has generated a "what's in it for me? and "i can do better" attitude, which isn't condusive to marriage.
Most of my friends who are now married are perfectly happy. I also know of many couples who have been married 20-30 years and are still fine.
Am I hanging out wiht a different fucking crowd to the rest of you or what?
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| Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles .just curious.. |
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| Originally posted by tubularbills ALT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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| Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles |
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| Originally posted by tubularbills mom's got no money and can't work; and might end up moving in with me. |
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| Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles Yikes. |
Re: FAO: People who are married or have been married
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| Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles If you're married right now or have previously been married at some point, what are your impressions of marital life? Is it generally enjoyable or generally not that great? And if you were married but then split or got divorced, do you think you'll ever marry again? |
bummer tbills....
i've been married for.. tomorrow will be 6 weeks...
everything is great so far... except that im going to iraq for a year in september... she's cool with it b/c we'll be much better off in the monies department..
but back to the topic.. yes its great, but honestly i dont think its any different than the past 2 years that we lived together... that was a huge "trial" run that went off great... there are still things that we both bitch about each other, but marriage isn't a fairy tale with finding that perfect someone... its finding that special someone that is close enough...which means it'll involve lots of work...but in all i couldnt be happier
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| Originally posted by Ted Promo *looks at arcadiamaxima* |
yes?? what do you want =o
imo, for a monogamous relationship to work, both people must focus on being interdependent rather than codependent.
I don't see the point of marriage these days.
It used to be a commitment thing, but now I think it's just a big day of celebration which can complicate things and ruin the relationship down the track.
A friend of mine has just had two kids with his partner, after deciding that they weren't going to get married.
For all intents and purposes, they may as well be married, but without all the issues that go with it.
I think the problem is that a lot of couples think their life will magically change after marriage, and end up becoming disappointed and disillusioned with the whole arrangement.
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| Originally posted by Beat Blog I think the problem is that a lot of couples think their life will magically change after marriage, and end up becoming disappointed and disillusioned with the whole arrangement. |
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| Originally posted by Beat Blog I don't see the point of marriage these days. |
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| Originally posted by verndogs tax and other financial benefits...that's about it |
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| Originally posted by verndogs tax and other financial benefits...that's about it |
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| Originally posted by Zewad bingo.. esp w/ the military... she now has full medical for free... and i get paid mucho deneros more b/c of marriage |
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| Originally posted by Sushipunk If you don't mind me asking Zewad, how much does the army pay you to go to Iraq for a year? |
hence why iraq isnt so bad... and i'm pretty sure i'll be some staff job nut who will sit at a desk the whole year..
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