How to scold a friend that may have feelings for me

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Posted by Lira on Nov-26-2008 18:36:

How to scold a friend that may have feelings for me

I'm kinda pissed off at a good friend of mine, and there's no ongoing drama in the CORe right now, so I decided to make a little contribution. Here's a brief summary of what happened:

Said friend phones me and tells she's just entered university. Asks me if I've got some reading material that may be useful for her, and I tell her to wait a couple of months because I was busy at the moment and I wanted to browse my library (and my mum's) so I could see what I could get her;
After a couple of months, I phone her back and tell her she can pick up the stuff she wanted. As I found out she had just got a boyfriend, I invited both of them over, as I usually do with my friends. She said she couldn't go because she was busy;
Because she's a good friend, and being someone who likes to share books, I told her she could pick up the most basic stuff in my office, at university. She never did. Whenever we met, she didn't say a word about it, and I just didn't bother because it's not like I'm the one that asked for a favour anyway;
I now want to throat punch her now for having made me do all that for nothing.

And, I'd probably do that - I'm not usually mad at anyone, but this was bang out of order... and the only reason why I didn't tell her to bugger off is because she's not like that at all. And because her recent behaviour puzzled me.

She seems to have gone bonkers after I told her I got engaged (and that's around the time she got her boyfriend as well, which would mean her feelings would no long be a problem), and I suspected, long before that, that she had feelings for me (hell, even people who didn't know me noticed that), but I decided to simply overlook it because I'm fine with my current relationship, thank you. So, I feel it all may have happened because she's avoiding me. Hopefully, I'm wrong.

But, in case I'm right, how can I scold her without giving her any room to even mention this possibility? I'm not used to arguing with friends, and I don't want to simply forget and forgive because I am irate

Posted by josh rising on Nov-26-2008 18:37:

COR version please?

Posted by Ygrene on Nov-26-2008 18:39:

Re: How to scold a friend that may have feelings for me

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
throat punch

You've known the answer all along.

Posted by Alex on Nov-26-2008 18:40:

Did you come inside her?

Pics or stfu?

Big bag of dicks?

/thread?

Posted by nchs09 on Nov-26-2008 18:41:

So she didnt get some books and you are mad at her? Seriously, how long did it take you to pick out hte books? 5 minuets?

Posted by david.michael on Nov-26-2008 18:41:

Re: Re: How to scold a friend that may have feelings for me

quote:
Originally posted by Ygrene
You've known the answer all along.

Posted by Lira on Nov-26-2008 18:41:

quote:
Originally posted by josh rising
COR version please?

Friend asks for a favour. I do it, she disappears. I'm pissed off, want to vent, but don't want any drama to ensue.

Posted by tubularbills on Nov-26-2008 18:41:

Looks/sounds like you just kind of lost a friend.

life's hard sometimes

Posted by david.michael on Nov-26-2008 18:42:

quote:
Originally posted by nchs09
So she didnt get some books and you are mad at her? Seriously, how long did it take you to pick out hte books? 5 minuets?

5 minuets can take longer than you think, depending on who composed them.

Posted by ChemEnhanced on Nov-26-2008 18:43:

Nothing screams "I'm Mad At You" like anal

Posted by nchs09 on Nov-26-2008 18:43:

quote:
Originally posted by ChemEnhanced
Nothing screams "I'm Mad At You" like anal
What about unwanted anal?

Posted by Lira on Nov-26-2008 18:43:

Regarding the PICS/STFU, she's in that pic that made PKC wonder why I'm always swamped by "Young Asian Muff". Go look for it.

quote:
Originally posted by nchs09
So she didnt get some books and you are mad at her? Seriously, how long did it take you to pick out hte books? 5 minuets?

No, I actually browsed my library, got some old books my mum didn't want any longer, and looked for books that could be useful for her and what not.

Being the disorganised person I am, it took far more than 5 minutes, believe me

Posted by nchs09 on Nov-26-2008 18:44:

is she asian? :/

Posted by ChemEnhanced on Nov-26-2008 18:44:

quote:
Originally posted by nchs09
What about unwanted anal?

no such thing

Posted by nchs09 on Nov-26-2008 18:45:

quote:
Originally posted by ChemEnhanced
no such thing
Oh my...

Posted by tubularbills on Nov-26-2008 18:45:

quote:
Originally posted by nchs09
What about unwanted anal?

i love that fucking gsmile

Posted by Ygrene on Nov-26-2008 18:46:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
Being the disorganised person I am, it took far more than 5 minutes, believe me

You should send her an itemized bill for the time you spent on collecting the books.

Payment accepted in:

1. Actual collection of the books

2. Relevant currency

3. Throat punch

Posted by elFreak on Nov-26-2008 18:49:

You are going to get a lot of people who do not think you are serious about your engagement due to the distance involved. Don't get angry, get used to it.

Posted by Lira on Nov-26-2008 18:49:

LMAO, I may actually do that, Ygrene

And I'll ask her for my 5 minuets back

quote:
Originally posted by nchs09
is she asian? :/

How is that even relevant?

Posted by david.michael on Nov-26-2008 18:49:

quote:
Originally posted by Ygrene
You should send her an itemized bill for the time you spent on collecting the books.

Payment accepted in:

1. Actual collection of the books

2. Relevant currency

3. Throat punch

4. anal

keep up, please.

Posted by Moral Hazard on Nov-26-2008 18:50:

let's not kid ourselves here... you're going to get before getting married and feel areal need to put your cock into someone other then your finance... you also need to work out your frustration with this broad... so kill two birds with one stone... HATE SEX (preferably including an ATM).

Posted by Lira on Nov-26-2008 18:50:

quote:
Originally posted by elFreak
You are going to get a lot of people who do not think you are serious about your engagement due to the distance involved. Don't get angry, get used to it.

Maybe

Still, it sucks to lose a friend, as Bill said.

Posted by elFreak on Nov-26-2008 18:50:

YES WE CAN!

Posted by r5a on Nov-26-2008 18:51:

pee on her

Posted by Moral Hazard on Nov-26-2008 18:51:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
How is that even relevant?

You need to know whether you'll require a scarf or dental floss to blindfold her before the forced anal.

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