How many ppl do you need to sleep with?

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Posted by CAKE on Dec-02-2008 19:01:

How many ppl do you need to sleep with?

Before your labeled a slut ?

discuss

Posted by Ozmozis on Dec-02-2008 19:04:

I swear there is a smilar post not just too long ago lol

I'm going to say 1, thats because I'm waiting for marriage...

Posted by ChemEnhanced on Dec-02-2008 19:06:

It should be how many one night stands before you are considered a slut....in that case 10 or more.

Posted by Spam on Dec-02-2008 19:09:

quote:
Originally posted by �Zm�zis
I swear there is a smilar post not just too long ago lol

I'm going to say 1, thats because I'm waiting for marriage...

Holy shit, I'm not the only one in TOTA?!

FUCK there goes my special status!

Posted by Sasha on Dec-02-2008 19:13:

Posted by chinamon on Dec-02-2008 19:14:

i think there is more to it than just the number.
if you are sleeping with these people because you are in a legitimate relationship with them then you are not a slut. if you are just sleeping around (regardless of numbers) then you are a slut.

Posted by jsibilin on Dec-02-2008 19:15:

I think the poll needs clarification

like you could easily sleep with 20-30 ppl in a life time and still not be considered a slut

but if you slept with 20-30 in the last year..then your a slut

...peter ...what is the reason behind this thread?

Posted by Dr. DAS on Dec-02-2008 19:16:

quote:
Originally posted by ChemEnhanced
It should be how many one night stands before you are considered a slut....in that case 10 or more.

So if you've been sexually active for 10 years, then a single one-nighter every year would make you a slut? Come on.

Tough question to answer...a time-frame would help.

Posted by CAKE on Dec-02-2008 19:16:

quote:
Originally posted by chinamon
i think there is more to it than just the number.
if you are sleeping with these people because you are in a legitimate relationship with them then you are not a slut. if you are just sleeping around (regardless of numbers) then you are a slut.

I don't think i'd be able to be with a girl who has been with more ppl then me .... i guess its that double standards rule

Posted by jchung52 on Dec-02-2008 19:17:

quote:
Originally posted by jsibilin

...peter ...what is the reason behind this thread?

he's angry at someone... or hes wondering if he should be labelled as one

Posted by Ozmozis on Dec-02-2008 19:17:

quote:
Originally posted by Spam
Holy shit, I'm not the only one in TOTA?!

FUCK there goes my special status!

Posted by Ozmozis on Dec-02-2008 19:18:

quote:
Originally posted by jchung52
he's angry at someone... or hes wondering if he should be labelled as one

I'm going to have to go with 'he's angry at someone'...

Did she tell you 5 orginally and then the number changed to 15 a month later in a different conversation? lol

cause that's happen to me...

Posted by Intangible on Dec-02-2008 19:21:

If you are in a committed relationship with a person it should matter if they have slept with more or less people. What matters is that they are with you. The past is called the past for a reason.

*in an ideal world*

Posted by CAKE on Dec-02-2008 19:28:

quote:
Originally posted by jsibilin
...peter ...what is the reason behind this thread?

No real reason bored, thought it be funny to see whatg ppl think and to see how many ppl would conside me a slut.... this has nothing to do with what your thinking off i swear

Posted by Dr. DAS on Dec-02-2008 19:29:

quote:
Originally posted by Djsketchbag
I don't think i'd be able to be with a girl who has been with more ppl then me .... i guess its that double standards rule

Don't ask questions you don't want answers to.

Posted by CAKE on Dec-02-2008 19:30:

quote:
Originally posted by �Zm�zis
I'm going to have to go with 'he's angry at someone'...

Did she tell you 5 orginally and then the number changed to 15 a month later in a different conversation? lol

cause that's happen to me...

LoL no i have a new policy with girls .... don't ask don't tell

Posted by CAKE on Dec-02-2008 19:31:

Posted by Ozmozis on Dec-02-2008 19:38:

quote:
Originally posted by Djsketchbag
LoL no i have a new policy with girls .... don't ask don't tell

that'a boy!

Posted by drgoodvibe on Dec-02-2008 19:57:

If you take sex as being casual with no emotions and you're just satisfying the "id" in you.. then yes you are a slut.. male or female.

Posted by dEsidEL on Dec-02-2008 20:01:

+1 .. I've come across a lot of people who are not satisfied being with someone unless they themselves have had an equal or greater number of sexual partners

Posted by Spin Laden on Dec-02-2008 20:06:

quote:
Originally posted by Intangible
If you are in a committed relationship with a person it should matter if they have slept with more or less people. What matters is that they are with you. The past is called the past for a reason.

*in an ideal world*

quite often the past is important though as it contains nuggets about someone's present (and sometimes future) behaviour, state of mind, relationship 'health', etc. You don't necessarily need to know numbers, but moreso why he/she did it, how he/she felt about it and how he/she feel about him/herself now. We're not even getting into the STD aspect...

- Dr Philth.

Posted by The Highroller on Dec-02-2008 20:06:

The word "slut" has a negative connotation. I don't believe a girl who has sex just to have fun deserves to be called such a word. Everyone, male or female has sex every once in a while just for kicks.

I would call a girl a slut based on her morals, standards and reasons for having sex.

quote:
Originally posted by Intangible
If you are in a committed relationship with a person it should matter if they have slept with more or less people. What matters is that they are with you. The past is called the past for a reason.

*in an ideal world*

I don't believe this at all. If you don't look at and/or disregard the persons past completely, you are setting yourself up for a lot of hurt. It's pretty much assuming that the person is going to change just because they are with you.

Posted by jchung52 on Dec-02-2008 20:07:

quote:
Originally posted by Spin Laden
quite often the past is important though as it contains nuggets about someone's present (and sometimes future) behaviour. You don't necessarily need to know numbers, but moreso why he/she did it, how he/she felt about it and how he/she feel about him/herself now. We're not even getting into the STD aspect...

- Dr Philth.

or the kid factor................

Posted by Spin Laden on Dec-02-2008 20:08:

quote:
Originally posted by jchung52
or the kid factor................

Posted by cammaxwell on Dec-02-2008 20:09:

They say a guy always multiplies his number by three when asked...

.....and that a girl will typically divide by three.

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