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For the guys who are getting old and are still SINGLE..do you WORRY?

well this is for the guys who are getting a bit older...i mean mid 20s and up....


lateley i have been getting scared thinking that i MIGHT not get married....well me and my friend are both feeling this...

i started thinking about my ex-ex-girlfriend who wanted to marry me...but i was too busy partying and hanging out will friends going clubbing and shit...

She was the best girl for me, NOW that i am looking back...i just NEVER realized it...

Wanna see how much of a moron i am...i will tell u a bit about her...

She was 5'6 112 pounds , straight blonde hair, bright green eyes and a beautiful tan because of her Italian skin...i mean a hottie...she was the type of girl who would stay with you "EVEN" if you LOST both your arms and legs, couldnt talk and drooled all over yourself all day and she had to bath and feed you nonstop...she would NO JOKE stay with you....

she would do anything for me....when i was hungry, she made me what ever i wanted to eat..no matter what time it was day or night....she would scratch my back, tickle my feet give me a massage and even scratch my balls anytime i asked....sometimes i would wake up to her sitting on my but giving me a back massage to wake me up with a glass of juice...

There is not enough space on the internet to explain to you HOW MUCH she did for me....she was that good....and 1 day she will make some guy VERY happy as his wife...but it wont be me anymore...

She wanted to marry me..we where together for 5 1/2 years and we where planning on it...but i just couldnt resist going out with my friends every night and cruising in my car....

what a fucking moron i am...but i NEVER realizzed how much she meant to me till i lost her for good...and it is for good because i have tryed to get her back...but its a lost cause...i lost my chance at a girl who was 1 in a million...she is very special to me...i jus wish she beleived me when i tell her...well now we dont even talk..she basically hates me because i screwed her over...and i dotn blame her...

but now i am getting OLDER and am getting nervous that i wont find anyone like her again...i look and date but nothing compares...basically i aam curious as to how many other guys in there 20s are TIRED of fucking around and are ready NOW to settle down with a girl and maybe marry her...but you just cant find it now that your older...its alot harder...

cus i can tell u i am sure as shit getting fucking scared that i might of lost out on the girl i was supposed to marry...who knows maybe this is my payback for being a dick to her for so many years after she treated me like gold...oh well...sorry for rambling...

oh ya...1 more thing....

she told me OVER AND OVER AND OVER again when we where breaking up

she said:

"YOU WILL NEVER FIDN ANOTHER GIRL LIKE ME THAT WILL LOVE YOU LIKE ME...NEVER"..

well she was right...SO FAR.....its been a couple years

what the.... i'd just like to say that i NEVER plan on getting married... for any reason... if i get really close to someone then i might live with em for a bit... but marirage in this day and age is unrealistic... you're setting yourself up for needless hardships...

Awwwwwww man...

Feel better, "Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all..." I have NEVEr, repeat NEVER had anyt kind of relationship, or even casual fling for that matter, sucks ass. I'm just waiting, living life until that girl comes along...that's all I can really do. And I keep thinking of a really good quotation my cousin told me once "Don't think of yourself as any less of a man for not being with a girl" (physically or even relationshipwise). Just keep going...it'll happen.

dang, tiesto, thats hard bro. I am somewhat depressed at what you just wrote

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Originally posted by Damo what the.... i'd just like to say that i NEVER plan on getting married... for any reason... if i get really close to someone then i might live with em for a bit... but marirage in this day and age is unrealistic... you're setting yourself up for needless hardships...

i dont agree.....i have plenty of friends who are married and have very loving relationships...

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Originally posted by Orbax dang, tiesto, thats hard bro. I am somewhat depressed at what you just wrote

LoL......

i jus emailed her said i was sorry for not beleiving her when she said i would never find another girl like her...i cant wait to see if she replys

was the subject of your message "IM SO FUCKING STUPID, TAKE ME BACK PLEEEEEEEEEEASE" lol! just kidding. Im still looking for someone special too. There are just so many demmed idiots out there. sigh. If only beer bottles had wider mouths, Id never need a woman...and if you cant tell your dick wont fit in a beer bottles mouth without trying, I mourn you

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Originally posted by tiesto14 i dont agree.....i have plenty of friends who are married and have very loving relationships...

of course.... but just wait till the honey moon's over.... it horrifies me to think of putting so much time into a relationship for how many years and then all of a sudden you divorce and the girl you've been with all that time goes and fucks other men....the divorce rates these day are ludicrous...

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Originally posted by Damo of course.... but just wait till the honey moon's over.... it horrifies me to think of putting so much time into a relationship for how many years and then all of a sudden you divorce and the girl you've been with all that time goes and fucks other men....the divorce rates these day are ludicrous...

seems liek u may have been hurt before...i could be wrong but seems like your scared of relationships....

i heard a funny thing once about divorce rates...this guys says:

"60% of marriages in the U.S. end in divorce ...but hey thats better then the other 40% that end in death"

LOL i always thought that was funny

i haven't been hurt really at all.... i know i seem defensive but i have witnessed a lot of bullshit in marriages from my own parents and other families around me to realize that marriage isn't the way for me to go.... it just doesn't suit me.... i don't think it really suits any human when you think about it...love fades faster then you'd think... then you're stuck in pure monotonous, a dead end job, no ambition, no fun save for your few hours of respite from your needy family,and the only way out is a bullet to your dome....

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Originally posted by tiesto14 i dont agree.....i have plenty of friends who are married and have very loving relationships...

But are their relationships really that loving *because* they are married?

I probably am very cynical when it comes to marriage. To me it's an institution of society that's designed to keep the man around while the kids grow up. I, for one, can't really see myself desiring somebody my entire life. Love in a platonic way, yes, but desire, no.

But, I do understand where you're comming from, tiesto14. If you are not in a relationship you are sending a message that you reject the way of life of the majority (those who are in a relationship). You will have to answer questions like "Shouldn't you be getting a girlfriend?" ("come on over to our side"), constantly being reminded that you are not like others. However, hard as that may be, I still think it beats spending 80% of your spare time with someone you find less than fascinating...

marriage is just a symbol of your relationship. like any other relationship, you can always put it behind you if it gets bad unless you've had children. then you have to see that person for the rest of your life.

tiesto14, things will turn around eventually. it's good to know that some men acknowledge how badly they fuck up sometimes. it gives me hope that i will find one who i want to be in a relationship with.

marriage hmm.. most of'em end up in divorces..
my parents are getting divorced too..

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Originally posted by tiesto14 seems liek u may have been hurt before...i could be wrong but seems like your scared of relationships.... i heard a funny thing once about divorce rates...this guys says: "60% of marriages in the U.S. end in divorce ...but hey thats better then the other 40% that end in death" LOL i always thought that was funny

yea, but what they failed to say is that those 60% married because they were scared of growing old single... so whats better, to marry some broad you've known for a couple a weeks because you're aproaching 30 and you're scared of living out the rest of your life without someone, or to keep on waiting and hope a right woman comes along your way?! its fucked up

you guys seem to be confusing love with the desire to fuck.

you guys should not be worrying if you are in your mid twenties.
when you are in your late 30s and alone, then i would worry.

There's always Trance and pr0n if you end up alone though.

j/k

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i wont find anyone like her again...

Any chance to get her back ?

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Originally posted by butterfly marriage is just a symbol of your relationship. like any other relationship, you can always put it behind you if it gets bad unless you've had children. then you have to see that person for the rest of your life.

see i dont agree...i feel that marriage is sacred...and u cant just put it behind u....i know its EXREMELEY hard to be with someone FOREVER and remain good friends aswell as lovers....its very hard...i guess i am jus dreaming of a life with a women that i will grow to love more and more each and everyday....i really do have dreams abotu that...look at my SIG..."I SLEEP TO DREAM"

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Originally posted by butterfly tiesto14, things will turn around eventually. it's good to know that some men acknowledge how badly they fuck up sometimes. it gives me hope that i will find one who i want to be in a relationship with.

well we are close...i am in NYC your in Jersey...LOL......we are both looking and we both love trance....LoL....lets give it a shot

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Originally posted by Trancevision Any chance to get her back ?

honestly...if i busted my ass and prooved to her that i am NOW worthy of her love....which i so desire..then i guess after that i might have a slight chance..but doubtful...VERY doubtful

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Originally posted by Swamper There's always Trance and pr0n if you end up alone though. j/k

LOL..LOL>...whats "pr0n"?

I merely pity those who cannot truly love. I have friends that I love and have loved for 15 years, and it isnt sexual in the least bit. Love is merely always wanting the best for that person even if you have to sacrifice. It isnt a burning in your gonads where the only way to quench the fire is in the juices of the other (ha that vivid enough for you?). Its a selfless relationship where their needs come before yours, and when you have two people doing the best thing for eachother, thats love. It takes, trust, respect, lots of other stuff, but thats basically what it boils down to.

Hmmm......currently i'm not single.....or am i....(Mystery!). My dad puts it this way, when the right one comes along, you will know. I was like how..trust me you will know. Till then, just wait!. My dad normally does not say things that are brillant but for once i agree with him!.

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Originally posted by tiesto14 see i dont agree...i feel that marriage is sacred...and u cant just put it behind u....i know its EXREMELEY hard to be with someone FOREVER and remain good friends aswell as lovers....its very hard...i guess i am jus dreaming of a life with a women that i will grow to love more and more each and everyday....i really do have dreams abotu that...look at my SIG..."I SLEEP TO DREAM"

I am not saying that marriage isn't sacred but I really think you can have a relationship of that level without being married. But as you know, many people get married who are abviously not as committed as that.

have patience, you'll find the right one.

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well we are close...i am in NYC your in Jersey...LOL......we are both looking and we both love trance....LoL....lets give it a shot

yeah maybe we'll meet up at PVD or something.

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