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edit: This is just too embarrassing to let the ages take a part of.
Firstly: Damn! How much are you posting the last days??
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well I know this "problem"...you chat with a friend(femal) and you talk about the past weeks/months/years and you talk about things you made together and then she says somethin like...wow at that time I had a crush on you...
ok...1. it's easy to say something about the past...and it's even easier to say it over I-net...so don't think too much about it...
2. she has a boyfriend? now thats hard....(i killed myself 2 or 3 times when I heard that somebody had a crush on me 
)...try to forget it(for now)...and see what time brings you, nothings forever...
But keep in touch with her...
I know this is easy to say but to do it is very very hard: Don't think to much about it!!!
thats my opinon...good luck!
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| Originally posted by Dj Tilo Firstly: Damn! How much are you posting the last days?? to the Topic: well I know this "problem"...you chat with a friend(femal) and you talk about the past weeks/months/years and you talk about things you made together and then she says somethin like...wow at that time I had a crush on you... ok...1. it's easy to say something about the past...and it's even easier to say it over I-net...so don't think too much about it... 2. she has a boyfriend? now thats hard....(i killed myself 2 or 3 times when I heard that somebody had a crush on me )...try to forget it(for now)...and see what time brings you, nothings forever...But keep in touch with her... I know this is easy to say but to do it is very very hard: Don't think to much about it!!! thats my opinon...good luck! |
i agree, since its over the internet, i wouldnt take it very seriously
even when i went out with my bf it just didnt feel right to have serious talks over icq. partially b/c we all act differently on the internet, no matter what so we are not always 100% sincere or 100% serious, you know what i mean?
now a question for you endre, is she your online friend or a rl friend? (knowing that would help evaluate your situation better)
via internet chattin is very easy and sometimes you say things....in real life you would never say it to a girl. well, ask her if she wants to meet you or ask her if you could call her.
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| Originally posted by apri_peel i agree, since its over the internet, i wouldnt take it very seriously even when i went out with my bf it just didnt feel right to have serious talks over icq. partially b/c we all act differently on the internet, no matter what so we are not always 100% sincere or 100% serious, you know what i mean? now a question for you endre, is she your online friend or a rl friend? (knowing that would help evaluate your situation better) |
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| Originally posted by Stiffmaster via internet chattin is very easy and sometimes you say things....in real life you would never say it to a girl. well, ask her if she wants to meet you or ask her if you could call her. |
just do what you've been doing before.
or just ignore her and piss her off for fun
ffs
just tell her you want to shag her, plain and simple
greetz
Technaut
She is fucking with your head.
tell her:
sorry, this is not proper you have a boyfriend.
if you are serious about liking me, then dump your boyfriend and come on over so we can talk face to face.
trust me m8, girls do that all the time just to drive us crazy, and the internet only makes it harder. they like to give you a stiffy and walk away. it's only proved by the pathetic net-kiss, and then leaving.
if she was serious, she'd have stayed to talk with you at the very least.
She might just be pulling ur leg (she might need attention)
just do what Technaut said and u will c if she is serious or not, if she is serious them.....
she only gave u a net kiss, what about the HUGS LOL
she is being a tease...that is not to say that she didn't mean what she wrote to you however. but the whole part about talking about her bf and then telling u she had a crush on you is childish. she brought up the bf to get a rise out of you and then left u with your mind going a million different directions...i would just act very aloof with her from now on and see what happens. if she starts to really show interest (and still w/ the other guy) u should bring up the fact that she has a boyfriend and that it appears she is playing games...put her on the spot and see what she says.
and i completely disagree with you people saying that everyone acts TOTALLY different on the internet. i dont...i mean yes, im sure lots of us on here aren't as outspoken and funny in person (as i have read a lot of TA's are shy in real life), but i think it's just easier to say things on the internet than in rl. that doesn't mean we wouldn't say those same things in rl...just maybe in a different way or after lots of hesitation...
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| Originally posted by Slylee she is being a tease...that is not to say that she didn't mean what she wrote to you however. but the whole part about talking about her bf and then telling u she had a crush on you is childish. she brought up the bf to get a rise out of you and then left u with your mind going a million different directions...i would just act very aloof with her from now on and see what happens. if she starts to really show interest (and still w/ the other guy) u should bring up the fact that she has a boyfriend and that it appears she is playing games...put her on the spot and see what she says. and i completely disagree with you people saying that everyone acts TOTALLY different on the internet. i dont...i mean yes, im sure lots of us on here aren't as outspoken and funny in person (as i have read a lot of TA's are shy in real life), but i think it's just easier to say things on the internet than in rl. that doesn't mean we wouldn't say those same things in rl...just maybe in a different way or after lots of hesitation... |
i say u just have a fling with her...the hell with her bf....keep her as a boobie friend...
and i dunno why ppl think im shy in rl...most ppl that have met me only talked to me for the whole 5 mins...i think im the same on the internet well im the same with my friends....i dunno bah well...then again ive met a few ppl from here and they had a totally different perspective of me before meeting me
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| Originally posted by Vivid Boy i say u just have a fling with her...the hell with her bf....keep her as a boobie friend... and i dunno why ppl think im shy in rl...most ppl that have met me only talked to me for the whole 5 mins...i think im the same on the internet well im the same with my friends....i dunno bah well...then again ive met a few ppl from here and they had a totally different perspective of me before meeting me |
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lMIlk: just do what you've been doing before. or just ignore her and piss her off for fun |
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Technaut: ffs just tell her you want to shag her, plain and simple greetz Technaut |
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JohnSmith: She is fucking with your head. tell her: sorry, this is not proper you have a boyfriend. if you are serious about liking me, then dump your boyfriend and come on over so we can talk face to face. trust me m8, girls do that all the time just to drive us crazy, and the internet only makes it harder. they like to give you a stiffy and walk away. it's only proved by the pathetic net-kiss, and then leaving. if she was serious, she'd have stayed to talk with you at the very least. |
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Mail Man: She might just be pulling ur leg (she might need attention) just do what Technaut said and u will c if she is serious or not, if she is serious them..... she only gave u a net kiss, what about the HUGS LOL |
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Slylee: she is being a tease...that is not to say that she didn't mean what she wrote to you however. but the whole part about talking about her bf and then telling u she had a crush on you is childish. she brought up the bf to get a rise out of you and then left u with your mind going a million different directions...i would just act very aloof with her from now on and see what happens. if she starts to really show interest (and still w/ the other guy) u should bring up the fact that she has a boyfriend and that it appears she is playing games...put her on the spot and see what she says. |
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Vivid Boy i say u just have a fling with her...the hell with her bf....keep her as a boobie friend... |
If you don't know when a girl likes you, you got problems.
If you are a teenager, then it's no big deal.
Hopefully you won't be a wanker your whole life.
P.S. - Next time ask her if she wants to be your fuck buddy.
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| Originally posted by Tranzlucent If you don't know when a girl likes you, you got problems. If you are a teenager, then it's no big deal. Hopefully you won't be a wanker your whole life. P.S. - Next time ask her if she wants to be your fuck buddy. |
Personally Endre , i think she sound like a dick tease , these kinda girls can be ok in nightclubs etc, but once you start seeing them , there gonna be flirting with other lads on MSN and thats gonna piss you off, My g/f is on the Net all day at college and at night, and she has over 100 lads on her MSN contact list, personally i dont mind , because its over the net. I use to go on the chat rooms and chat to girls but no i can't be arsed as i have all i want. If you put yourself in HER b/f shoes how would you feel if someone was chatting erotic talk on MSN. Girls are terrible for flirting , they love it, why do you think girls put all that make up on and , they take hours to get ready, its so lads notice them , its like a female self EGO thing , this gives girls a good feeling , chatting with other lads makes them feel powerfull.
Personally , i dont think this girl is the one for you. You say she is a real friend then , i tihnk it should stay like that.
Regards Rozzer.
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| Originally posted by DJ RozzeR Personally Endre , i think she sound like a dick tease , these kinda girls can be ok in nightclubs etc, but once you start seeing them , there gonna be flirting with other lads on MSN and thats gonna piss you off, My g/f is on the Net all day at college and at night, and she has over 100 lads on her MSN contact list, personally i dont mind , because its over the net. I use to go on the chat rooms and chat to girls but no i can't be arsed as i have all i want. If you put yourself in HER b/f shoes how would you feel if someone was chatting erotic talk on MSN. Girls are terrible for flirting , they love it, why do you think girls put all that make up on and , they take hours to get ready, its so lads notice them , its like a female self EGO thing , this gives girls a good feeling , chatting with other lads makes them feel powerfull. Personally , i dont think this girl is the one for you. You say she is a real friend then , i tihnk it should stay like that. Regards Rozzer. |
Sorry, but people do act differently on the net.
Remember that there are pretty much no consequences for anti-social behaviour, so people often act the way they always wanted to but never could....
This is probably where there seem to be so many perverts and sickos on the net.
As for the problem at hand, I'd seriously recommend talking to her in RL, not over the net. Net chats don't count
Re: Girl
she's fucking with you
why does she need to fuck your mind like this when she already has a bf?
she's not worth your time, sure something may happen if you pursue it, but in the end all the emotional shit you'll go through as she plays mind games on you is not worth it
Pork
Best thing you can do is just play it cool and keep in touch.
If you act more like her 'friend' than someone who wants to get into her pants (which she's probably expecting) you'll get a lot further.
If you really like her, find out more about her through conversation.
Be there for her when she needs it. Get involved in her life.
Believe me, I can't count the number of times this has worked for me.
If it doesn't work out (which it hasn't for me a few times; I'll be honest) at least you had practice for the one you really want (and that's what landed me my beautiful wife).
Of course this all depends on how serious you really are about a relationship or not.
I always took my relationships seriously, but that's just me.
Best of luck 
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| Originally posted by Fir3start3r Best thing you can do is just play it cool and keep in touch. If you act more like her 'friend' than someone who wants to get into her pants (which she's probably expecting) you'll get a lot further. If you really like her, find out more about her through conversation. Be there for her when she needs it. Get involved in her life. Believe me, I can't count the number of times this has worked for me. If it doesn't work out (which it hasn't for me a few times; I'll be honest) at least you had practice for the one you really want (and that's what landed me my beautiful wife). Of course this all depends on how serious you really are about a relationship or not. I always took my relationships seriously, but that's just me. Best of luck |
thank you for this post, it should remember all of us to keep eyes and ears open about the girls from which we believe that they like just our friendship...
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