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Posted by LinX on Nov-13-2009 01:08:

ex girlfriends. ex boyfriends

we've all been through this, all been hurt and healed. shit like that blah blah blah. but i just need some opinions from the ladies real quick. and guys if you've dated this type of woman yet.


so ive been going out this this girl for 3 months. not that long i know. she broke up with me last night. whatever. i mean im hurt but ill be aight. anyway long story short she was a manic depressive with high anxiety who was raped when she was 16... and yeah i only figured this out last week.. she just told me. soooo i need an opinion here guys/gals has anyone ever dated someone like that? because honestly it explains a lot to me now, her mood swings, her weed smoking habbits and just over all bug out moments ive been through with her. ive never dated a girl who had problems like this have any of you? and im bein serious . is it hard to maintain a relationship with that much extra stress, bagage, emotional problems cause for some weird fukked up feeling even though i was dumped (because she changed so dramatically in the last few weeks) which was the second time in my life not to sound cocky.. i still kinda feel like it was my fault WTF...


Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Nov-13-2009 01:10:

Long Island, eh? Never thought she'd move back east...


Posted by LinX on Nov-13-2009 01:12:

quote:
Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
Long Island, eh? Never thought she'd move back east...



you got a story, elaborate please


Posted by Sushipunk on Nov-13-2009 01:12:

quote:
Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
Long Island, eh? Never thought she'd move back east...


lol


Posted by LinX on Nov-13-2009 01:14:

quote:
Originally posted by winston
everyone has problems. welcome to the real world. stop dating sixteen year olds. wat?



she's 24 dude. and not everyone has problems like THAT.


Posted by wienerschnitzel on Nov-13-2009 01:15:

yeah i think it would be hard to date someone with alot of baggage but that's your choice. everyone has a story, some people may have it harder then others but you have to take ownership for your own life and if she chooses to deal with it recklessly then i don't think she's ready for anything serious. both my husband and i have had some pretty shitty things happen in our lives but at the end of the day you have to put your big girl panties on and work hard to have a decent life.


Posted by Silky Johnson on Nov-13-2009 01:17:

quote:
Originally posted by wienerschnitzel
put your big girl panties on.




lololol


Posted by winston on Nov-13-2009 01:17:

my bad, i didn't read enough, i just now read she was raped when she was sixteen. my bad, ok i'd do this, first of all if you really have feelings for her then you should help her get better. Let her know that you're there for her and all of that; but, if you don't want to get involved for whatever reasons, then don't, it just depends how much you love that person.


Posted by MSZ on Nov-13-2009 01:17:

u really got a kick out of your sig linx???? wow...


Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Nov-13-2009 01:20:

quote:
Originally posted by LinX
you got a story, elaborate please


All of their stories are the same. Oh, they've been raped, they were force-fed hard drugs, etc. etc. It's cold, but damaged goods aren't worth it. I mean, not if you're wanting a lasting and significant emotional attachment to somebody.

The tell-tale sign is when they give you their story after a "safe" period of time - say, 2 weeks. They know you're into them, they want you to be there for them (for whatever reason), so they lay down some really heavy shit to keep you around. I'll bet you took the bait, didn't you? Yeah, she made you care about her, but the moment you had some sympathy, she took it and ran. And then they don't know how to break up with you because you're everything they've ever wanted in a pincushion, so she fucking sleeps with your landlord/ cousin and takes off with your cat, but i'll find you, Jennifer, oh I'll FIND YOU I PROMISE, AND THEN IT WILL BE TIME TO PAY ME BACK FOR MY CAR THAT YOU WRECKED. BUT NOT EVEN THEN WILL WE BE EVEN. DO YOU LIKE PINK CHAMPAGNE YOU FUCKING CUNT? YEAH, I'LL BET YOU MISS IT, DON'T YOU? DON'T YOU?!??!


Posted by Schadenfreude on Nov-13-2009 01:21:

hi dad penis in mouth pics or die.


Posted by Silky Johnson on Nov-13-2009 01:23:

quote:
Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
All of their stories are the same. Oh, they've been raped, they were force-fed hard drugs, etc. etc. It's cold, but damaged goods aren't worth it. I mean, not if you're wanting a lasting and significant emotional attachment to somebody.

The tell-tale sign is when they give you their story after a "safe" period of time - say, 2 weeks. They know you're into them, they want you to be there for them (for whatever reason), so they lay down some really heavy shit to keep you around. I'll bet you took the bait, didn't you? Yeah, she made you care about her, but the moment you had some sympathy, she took it and ran. And then they don't know how to break up with you because you're everything they've ever wanted in a pincushion, so she fucking sleeps with your landlord/ cousin and takes off with your cat, but i'll find you, Jennifer, oh I'll FIND YOU I PROMISE, AND THEN IT WILL BE TIME TO PAY ME BACK FOR MY CAR THAT YOU WRECKED. BUT NOT EVEN THEN WILL WE BE EVEN. DO YOU LIKE PINK CHAMPAGNE YOU FUCKING CUNT? YEAH, I'LL BET YOU MISS IT, DON'T YOU? DON'T YOU?!??!






Did you have to use MY name??


Posted by Sushipunk on Nov-13-2009 01:24:

quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
Did you have to use MY name??


You stole Hal's cat?? Wtf Jenny, that's god damn low


Posted by Schadenfreude on Nov-13-2009 01:24:

my sister's name is jennifer as well, she isn't very smart either.


Posted by LinX on Nov-13-2009 01:24:

quote:
Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
All of their stories are the same. Oh, they've been raped, they were force-fed hard drugs, etc. etc. It's cold, but damaged goods aren't worth it. I mean, not if you're wanting a lasting and significant emotional attachment to somebody.

The tell-tale sign is when they give you their story after a "safe" period of time - say, 2 weeks. They know you're into them, they want you to be there for them (for whatever reason), so they lay down some really heavy shit to keep you around. I'll bet you took the bait, didn't you? Yeah, she made you care about her, but the moment you had some sympathy, she took it and ran. And then they don't know how to break up with you because you're everything they've ever wanted in a pincushion, so she fucking sleeps with your landlord/ cousin and takes off with your cat, but i'll find you, Jennifer, oh I'll FIND YOU I PROMISE, AND THEN IT WILL BE TIME TO PAY ME BACK FOR MY CAR THAT YOU WRECKED. BUT NOT EVEN THEN WILL WE BE EVEN. DO YOU LIKE PINK CHAMPAGNE YOU FUCKING CUNT? YEAH, I'LL BET YOU MISS IT, DON'T YOU? DON'T YOU?!??!



thats weird cause her name is jennifer lol... nah but yeah i guess i took the bait i told her i would help her out cause i cared but she just bugged out n said i cant save her from her problems..


Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Nov-13-2009 01:26:

quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
Did you have to use MY name??


I don't know, do you have to be a whore?

If the answer is yes, then I am sorry. How very insensitive of me.


Posted by Silky Johnson on Nov-13-2009 01:27:

quote:
Originally posted by Schadenfreude
my sister's name is jennifer as well, she isn't very smart either.




Runs in the family then, does it?


Posted by Silky Johnson on Nov-13-2009 01:27:

quote:
Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
I don't know, do you have to be a whore?

If the answer is yes, then I am sorry. How very insensitive of me.




You gotta problem with whores, you better take it up with your mother first.


Posted by Schadenfreude on Nov-13-2009 01:28:

it so doesn't bother her like at all.

too easy.


Posted by Silky Johnson on Nov-13-2009 01:28:

quote:
Originally posted by Schadenfreude
it so doesn't bother her like at all.

too easy.




Not enough to make a fake facebook page about it.


Posted by Schadenfreude on Nov-13-2009 01:29:

that was quick. f5 key must be wd 40


Posted by Silky Johnson on Nov-13-2009 01:30:

Yeah this computer is sweet. I paid for it with lottery winnings.


Posted by Schadenfreude on Nov-13-2009 01:30:

gotta run buffalo bills.(my new name for you) have a good one.


Posted by Silky Johnson on Nov-13-2009 01:31:

Ah, picking the tits up from work I bet. Let us know how much money she brings home for you.


Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Nov-13-2009 01:35:

quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
You gotta problem with whores, you better take it up with your mother first.


She- she just had lots of guy friends.

You shut your mouth.


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