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Students...why do you study?
This is a question I often contemplate...'why the fuck am I doing this?'
During school, I was never really that smart. My GCSEs were average at best (GSCEs is the UK grading system when you leave compulsory education) and I dropped out of college - twice. After that I had major problems with anxiety and depression and was on many meds and had many therapists.
I remember telling my family I wanted to go to University on a foundation course that would lead to a degree...I was met with silence, then my dad saying 'We don't think its a good idea, you're not strong enough or smart enough to cope'.
I managed to convince them otherwise, however on my first day of term I spent most of the day in my bedroom throwing up into the sink because I was so scared of what I had gotten myself into.
My first 2 years were a nightmare - barely scraping by with enough points to pass. Then something changed last September, I suddenly became determined...I decided to go all out and apply myself and put as much effort into my work as physically possible, to prove my family wrong.
At the moment I am in line to acheive a 2:1 grade - which is a very good mark to get at degree, but I keep pushing myself to aim for a 1st (top level degree)...so much so that anything less is a fail in my eyes. I think its because I want to prove my family and my demons as wrong as possible, but in doing so I am making myself ill with stress and sleep deprivation.
So yeah, sorry about the rambling on...I really just needed to vent.
But I wondered, does anyone else have a reason why they study, or even just work as hard as they do?
education -> better job -> more money -> means to do what you want
i graduated 3 months ago
just an extra line on my cv, but my salary almost doubled
Because, believe it or not, I like to learn.
And I think the "better job" waiting for you at the end of your education is one of many incentives...
I studied hard because I appreciated the intellectual stimulation. Yes, college education is important in attaining means to make money and be successful later in life, but even with that in mind, I worked hard because I wanted to prove to myself that I could overcome the challenge of getting the best grades possible.
I saw school as a game of sorts...get an A and I win. Anything less and I lose. The jobs/careers/money that I would receive afterwards for winning that 'game' would be like a bonus.
I think its awesome that you are setting out to prove to those that you can do this, but you should really be doing this for yourself. Who cares what others think. This is your life, and if you'd rather scrape by in mediocrity, so be it. If not (which it sounds like you don't), work at it, get it done, and reap the benefits. But try not to stress out too much.
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| Originally posted by R.j. Because, believe it or not, I like to learn. |
Because it's my duty to put the talent god gave me to use.
money, bitches, and power
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| Originally posted by Enjoy education -> better job -> more money -> means to do what you want |
I'm currently studying medicine (gonna enter second year after summer). The thing is, I always was interested in this area. Also, many of the people on my mother's side (and family friends) are medics so I was in this kind of an environment from an early stage.
Also, I don't care as much about the money as I do about the social status it brings me (in the society I'm living in).
The thing is, always when i had hard times studying, got stuck or didn't understand other complex stuff, it's important to remember that you do this out of pleasure, and not to consider this a burden, especially when you're in a career which demands constant documentation about techniques and news, even after graduation.
EDIT: When it comes to motivators, me, a friend of mine and another guy which i don't know so well have the best grades. It is kind of a personal competition on that level too. Friendly, of course.
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| Originally posted by Chimney EDIT: When it comes to motivators, me, a friend of mine and another guy which i don't know so well have the best grades. It is kind of a personal competition on that level too. Friendly, of course. |
I wouldn't really say that I work "hard". I mean, I'm very focused and aim to do well (I'd say my best, but I definitely don't work that hard), but it's not like I struggle.
I study because I enjoy what I'm learning and want to be good at what I do. I want to go on to get my master's degree as well. My job entails life-long learning and continual upgrading, staying on top of current research, etc. So it would be a pretty poor career choice if I didn't enjoy "studying" to some extent.
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| Originally posted by jennypie I wouldn't really say that I work "hard". I mean, I'm very focused and aim to do well (I'd say my best, but I definitely don't work that hard), but it's not like I struggle. I study because I enjoy what I'm learning and want to be good at what I do. I want to go on to get my master's degree as well. My job entails life-long learning and continual upgrading, staying on top of current research, etc. So it would be a pretty poor career choice if I didn't enjoy "studying" to some extent. |
For fun. Duh. Also to waste my money in institutions that don't give a flying fuck about you. 
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| Originally posted by yukii For fun. Duh. Also to waste my money in institutions that don't give a flying fuck about you. |
Yes. Burn the institution, eat the employer, steal the money.
Because I desire to know.... and academic jobs are much more fun than doing actual work 
Because being #2 in your class just makes you the #1 loser.
so that when you get out of college you can get a shit, underpaid, slightly unrelated job, but not as bad as the jobs the people that didn't get a degree got
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| does anyone else have a reason why they study, or even just work as hard as they do? |
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| Originally posted by ******** Honestly I have so many ideas going through my head |
Money. Bitches. Power.
What's this pursuit of knowledge crap I keep hearing about? I'm just a pedant. The world loves pedants. That's why I study ivory tower shit that is absolutely useless to the 'real world,' son. F your bridges, health, and businesses.

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| Originally posted by Lira Because I desire to know.... |
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| Originally posted by Enjoy education -> better job -> more money -> means to do what you want |
no education (not necessarily in school!) -> lesser critical thinking ability -> less chance that you'll have your way with the world and more chance that it will have its way with you. There are other important aspects to empowering yourself and creating opportunities to do what you want in life, like the ability to take risks and act in spite of fear, the ability to communicate effectively, etc. But if you're not a sharp thinker and a lifelong learner, I don't think you'll get very far.
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| Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN They�re called voices William. |
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