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Posted by The Highroller on Sep-22-2010 17:16:

The Agenda: Emerging Adulthood | What is it about 20-somethings?

I stumbled upon this report/debate on TVO a few days ago, and thought it would be of interest to lots of people on this board considering many of us are in our 20s.

It's about a new phase in life that researchers are calling "emerging adulthood" which is between the teenage years and the adult years.

The report talks about the economic and social realities of people in their 20s today.

It's definitely worth the watch. Make sure to check out the videos on both tabs.


The Agenda: Emerging Adulthood | What is it about 20-somethings?


Posted by jester on Sep-22-2010 17:36:

Thanks for that.

If I was thinking the same way like my parents. I would have been married already 2-3 years and had a mortgage. For one, I have yet to meet someone that could keep me tied down willingly and I dislike the idea of having a kid. Two, even if I got a decent job. I truly do not want a mortgage for over 5 years.

As long as I have a stable income by 30. I will be quite happy, but for now. Business as usual.

I know one person. She just got engaged and she's like 20 or 21. Thing is, her fianc� is in his mid-20s or late 20s.


Posted by MissK on Sep-22-2010 17:40:

Evil1

Can't wait to watch this.

20's are a tough time.... growing up and realizing you can't party every weekend because you need to save for a house/car/future/invest etc. sux.


Posted by Jayx1 on Sep-22-2010 18:35:

quote:
Originally posted by MissK
Can't wait to watch this.

20's are a tough time.... growing up and realizing you can't party every weekend because you need to save for a house/car/future/invest etc. sux.



ive done all that and still partying every weekend into my 30s, go figure!


Posted by evil_cookie on Sep-22-2010 18:36:

The original article was published a couple of months ago. Interesting read at first, but nothing all-together revealing.

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/08/22/m...dulthood-t.html


Posted by ChemEnhanced on Sep-22-2010 18:36:

quote:
Originally posted by Jayx1
ive done all that and still partying every weekend into my 30s, go figure!


+1

Its not like partying really costs that much....I'd go out and spend less then $40 for a night...including cover.


Posted by Jayx1 on Sep-22-2010 18:38:

I like the european model of living. Pay your bills 5 days a week. Party all weekend whether u are 18 or 38.

People there ALWAYS find a way to go out which is why there are so many events, djs and festivals over there.


Posted by Jayx1 on Sep-22-2010 18:38:

quote:
Originally posted by ChemEnhanced
+1

Its not like partying really costs that much....I'd go out and spend less then $40 for a night...including cover.


exactly!

i dont know why torontonians feel the need to stay in so much!


Posted by Swamper on Sep-22-2010 18:42:

Dupe thread! I posted about this 5 YEARS ago! lol

Meet the Twixters - They're not kids anymore, but they're not adults either


Posted by Summerlover on Sep-22-2010 18:53:

quote:
Originally posted by ChemEnhanced
+1

Its not like partying really costs that much....I'd go out and spend less then $40 for a night...including cover.


Same with me. It's all about moderation when going out. Have a few drinks before you go out, find places with cheap or free cover, as long as you're with friends someone will either drive or you're splitting on a cab. It's very easy to go out and still save money!
Perhaps even easier as a girl as my drinks are usually paid for by someone else lol


Posted by feelgood on Sep-22-2010 19:25:

Good link. Steve Paikins agenda is a stellar show.


Posted by MissK on Sep-22-2010 19:35:

quote:
Originally posted by Jayx1
ive done all that and still partying every weekend into my 30s, go figure!


Not only does saving prevent me....My brain, my day job and life style cannot take the partying every weekend anymore.

To be honest with you, I can't envision me living my life the way I used to. I am so comfortable now and enjoy my couch and movie time. 8/10 times I would rather be doing that than be in the club.


Posted by geroin on Sep-22-2010 19:37:

quote:
Originally posted by feelgood
Steve Paikins agenda is a stellar show.


Posted by VDub on Sep-22-2010 19:52:

quote:
Originally posted by Jayx1
ive done all that and still partying every weekend into my 30s, go figure!


yup...


Posted by VDub on Sep-22-2010 19:54:

quote:
Originally posted by MissK
Not only does saving prevent me....My brain, my day job and life style cannot take the partying every weekend anymore.

To be honest with you, I can't envision me living my life the way I used to. I am so comfortable now and enjoy my couch and movie time. 8/10 times I would rather be doing that than be in the club.


A little lack of control Katie??


Posted by MissK on Sep-22-2010 20:13:

quote:
Originally posted by VDub
A little lack of control Katie??


LOL. Have you met me??!?!?!


I pre-party harder than you party!!!


Posted by gummybear on Sep-22-2010 21:43:

quote:
Originally posted by Jayx1
ive done all that and still partying every weekend into my 30s, go figure!


haha..me too!


MissK...I think you learn to party a little differently as you get older. You can still enjoy but everything in moderation and going crazy like you did in your twenties is usually not the best way to prolong your party life.. I'm usually out of a party by 4 or 5 the latest and that's stretching it. Back in the day if I looked at my watch and it said 5 am, I would be happy because it meant I still had at least 5 hours left to party..


Posted by ChemEnhanced on Sep-22-2010 21:54:

quote:
Originally posted by gummybear
haha..me too!


MissK...I think you learn to party a little differently as you get older. You can still enjoy but everything in moderation and going crazy like you did in your twenties is usually not the best way to prolong your party life.. I'm usually out of a party by 4 or 5 the latest and that's stretching it. Back in the day if I looked at my watch and it said 5 am, I would be happy because it meant I still had at least 5 hours left to party..


its so true...I'm pushing it to make it to 5 am now. In my twenties 5 am meant the party was just going to start getting good.


Posted by ChemEnhanced on Sep-22-2010 22:06:

I think the biggest problem is that young adults are scared to grow up. My generation was expected to be 4-5 years later in development then our parents simply because we went to university and most of them didn't go. Not much has changed since I was in my 20s but I find more and more people are staying at home longer or they are wandering through life without any direction.


Posted by Sentinal on Sep-22-2010 23:00:

To add to what Chem just said. I don't things have changed so much in the last 10 years, BUT, as tuition increases and with more and more people going to university, more people will be in serious debt, for longer periods of time. Coupled with mostly stagnent wages, the common sense approach to living would be to save as much as you can.


Posted by VDub on Sep-23-2010 02:38:

quote:
Originally posted by MissK
LOL. Have you met me??!?!?!


I pre-party harder than you party!!!


Exactly my point...


Posted by MissK on Sep-23-2010 19:16:

HappyHappy

quote:
Originally posted by VDub
Exactly my point...


O Rly???


Posted by Shaya007 on Sep-23-2010 19:28:

quote:
Originally posted by gummybear
haha..me too!


Back in the day if I looked at my watch and it said 5 am, I would be happy because it meant I still had at least 5 hours left to party..


hahahaha..

damn

so true


Posted by rabbitjoker on Sep-23-2010 20:52:

Behold, my arse.

GEEZERS!


Posted by slingshot on Sep-23-2010 21:06:

Party Hat

there's plenty of time for sleep when you're dead.


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