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ok after doing some thinking myself I wanna ask a little question to all you folks out there...


do you think it's possible to fall in love with someone over the net that you haven't met yet?


I've been thinking a lot of this myself and yes, I believe you can...although you might get just as disapointed when you met ht person in real life later and vice versa

no. lust maybe. infatuation maybe. not love.

only my opinion, but that's what you asked for.

that doesn't mean you shouldn't use it though, to pick just who you'd like to meet. but, be careful throwing that word love around, it's pretty powerful, trust me i know.

Re: netlove?

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Originally posted by Vizay ok after doing some thinking myself I wanna ask a little question to all you folks out there... do you think it's possible to fall in love with someone over the net that you haven't met yet? I've been thinking a lot of this myself and yes, I believe you can...although you might get just as disapointed when you met ht person in real life later and vice versa

there was some weener on here that was going to america to see some lass he met on the net, don't know whether he did it or not, but I noticed he posted a while back that he'd shag anything that moves
I don't think u can fall in love with someone on the internet no, if u know them already, and see them fairly often maybe....but not just on the net, thats just demented

I think if you can fall in love with somebody over a computer it's absolutely pathetic.

No way mate, the net is only a mindgame, yes it can be love, but it's not THE love, it's something what replaces real love.
Real love can only arise when 2 people have real contact with eachother, its the physical contact and the feeling when u'r with the other person that make u fall in love, the combination of being attracted by someone physically and mentally.
Internet is only mentally so u can be very dissapointed when u meet the person in real life (trust me, I experienced this)

well ok not maybe love...love is to strong

but i mean, let's say that the person your'e talking 2 is not lying, shouldn't it be possible then...after all it's almost always the inside you fall in love with and not the looks (at least in my case, looks is just a bonus)

not love...youre in love with the internet if anything. what little of a relationship can be based over the net, you could get from almost any random stranger provided there was fact time.

oh, and does anyone think there should be a new forum called: 'Ask Swamper' where people make threads about burgeoning relationship issues where Swamper and other appointed mods can answer in a frank, yet caring manner?!?! thats a great idea|

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Originally posted by biznology not love...youre in love with the internet if anything. what little of a relationship can be based over the net, you could get from almost any random stranger provided there was fact time.

well I'm not talking about a relationship over the net...I'm talking about the first step or whatever you might call it .....simply the part where you FALL in love

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oh, and does anyone think there should be a new forum called: 'Ask Swamper' where people make threads about burgeoning relationship issues where Swamper and other appointed mods can answer in a frank, yet caring manner?!?! thats a great idea|

ohh and I'm actually not asking because of personal reasons, just thought it would be a good topic to discuss about since most of us here come in contact with both the net and the women

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Originally posted by uwmadtrance I think if you can fall in love with somebody over a computer it's absolutely pathetic.

I love you and your herpes

Never doubt the power of love

I don't think I'd fall for someone I haven't actually met, but it doesn't mean someone else won't be able to have this... er... unique... experience There are people who got married this way, aren't there? I've seen something like that on TV.

Well, if they're happy with their choice, I'm not going to judge them

Well In my case. I met a girl at skewl and never really got to know her t0o well before I had moved away. After that we talked constantly over the net and such and built a very strong relationship. After we graduated we started see'n each other and after a period of time we fell in love and still are. I think it can build ur relationship up but not ever having contact with the person before that aint love.

grr pushed wrong button srry about that

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Originally posted by Az I love you and your herpes

Ohh Az darling

humans are humans..via computer or whatever and with pics..and communication..who says love can be held back?

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Originally posted by JohnSmith no. lust maybe. infatuation maybe. not love. only my opinion, but that's what you asked for. that doesn't mean you shouldn't use it though, to pick just who you'd like to meet. but, be careful throwing that word love around, it's pretty powerful, trust me i know.

Yea. Thats basically how I feel. While you can have similar dialouge online, I don't think it means anythign till you meet the person.

i dont care what other people have said but
its happened to a lot of people i know

but i think it depends on what type of internet love connection program thier using

tranceaddict forums........
i dunno

but its been done other places

everyting is allowed in love & war

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Originally posted by EliPsE Well In my case. I met a girl at skewl and never really got to know her t0o well before I had moved away. After that we talked constantly over the net and such and built a very strong relationship. After we graduated we started see'n each other and after a period of time we fell in love and still are. I think it can build ur relationship up but not ever having contact with the person before that aint love.

i agree. i meet a lot of ppl online but IM isn't enough to really get to know someone.

Over then net, the way you act/speak etc may not be a true depiction of your true self. For that reason I think that LOVE over the net is truely impossible... As people have already said, I feel the net can build a relationship (speaking from experience ) but can't find "true" love...

On the other hand, you could claim that the net rips away the physical side to a relationship and breaks it down to simply to the mental part... Making it a relationship not distorted by looks

I still apt for the first though, people who claim otherwise may be being a little too indulgent.

>>>there was some weener on here that was going to america to see some lass he met on the net, don't know whether he did it or not, but I noticed he posted a while back that he'd shag anything that moves <<<

Thank you "Az". DO you ever think before you type? That "weener" you are talking about is me. You ever consider that you could insult someones feeling when you type like that? Oh wait no you don't!!! Also where is this fucking post that i'd shag any girl that moves??? Ummmmm comparing im a virgin and waiting for the "right" one, yea i always shag anything that moves!!! GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT!!!!

I'm sorry if i outraged if im wrong but i think you are talking about me!

I aint met her yet, but it is more of a phone relationship now. Im seeing her in feb.

Sorry Vizay, didn't mean to move the subject across there. It's tricky to find but you may meet the right person you never know, you only live once right!!!

Matt

p.s. sorry i lose it it's just i hardly post here and when i ask for an opinion on a matter and i get insulted, you can actually see why i dont post "all" that much.

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Originally posted by TiestoFanMatt >>>there was some weener on here that was going to america to see some lass he met on the net, don't know whether he did it or not, but I noticed he posted a while back that he'd shag anything that moves <<< Thank you "Az". DO you ever think before you type? That "weener" you are talking about is me. You ever consider that you could insult someones feeling when you type like that? Oh wait no you don't!!! Also where is this fucking post that i'd shag any girl that moves??? Ummmmm comparing im a virgin and waiting for the "right" one, yea i always shag anything that moves!!! GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT!!!! I'm sorry if i outraged if im wrong but i think you are talking about me! I aint met her yet, but it is more of a phone relationship now. Im seeing her in feb. Sorry Vizay, didn't mean to move the subject across there. It's tricky to find but you may meet the right person you never know, you only live once right!!! Matt p.s. sorry i lose it it's just i hardly post here and when i ask for an opinion on a matter and i get insulted, you can actually see why i dont post "all" that much.

dood
u obviously have never spoken to me, so u don't understand i was joking, as i am 90% of the time
so ur telling me u didn't say u'd shag anyhing that moves in another thread as well
jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeze calm down

Lol i just did a search of threads iv posted in...all like 10 of them and no i didnt say anything. It's just i felt insulted by what you said, even if you are joking. I didnt mean to like "lose" it so im sorry i did that but still just be careful yea.

lol u said 90% of the time....this could have been the 10th percent?

Matt

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Originally posted by TiestoFanMatt Lol i just did a search of threads iv posted in...all like 10 of them and no i didnt say anything. It's just i felt insulted by what you said, even if you are joking. I didnt mean to like "lose" it so im sorry i did that but still just be careful yea. lol u said 90% of the time....this could have been the 10th percent? Matt

heh sorry, I was joking, just looking for a cheap laugh at your expense
waaaa i can't find that thread either, could have sworn u said it, did u delete it

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Originally posted by Az waaaa i can't find that thread either, could have sworn u said it, did u delete it

You actually need to look for a doctor, mate - such thread never existed

hehe, do you mind telling us what happened, Matt? Sounded like a cool story

I don't have anything against meeting someone on the net...I mean seriously, why restrict yourself to only socializing in real life? Love/friendship can be found anywhere, not just in a bar/party/school/work But, you should hold yourself back a little, cause developing a true deep love and then having a relationship over the net will be painful in the end.

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