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It Always Gets Better Sooner Or Later, but..

What really sucks is the fact that someone can mislead you and make you believe that they love/care for you; and then one day just change their mind. Or so they say. What a shitty feeling to have knowing that you love someone who doesnt love you in return and couldnt care less about your feelings. I'm struggling to understand and cope without doing something drastic. And I was ok for a long time, but last week...it just finally hit me. Everything just kind of sucks in a way. There are good things going on besides this, but this just puts a damper on the rest. God must really love me to have kept me alive last night and allowed me to awake this morning after taking a handfull of pills. At the time, it was all I could think of to do to stop the pain. And I didnt care anymore. I just wanted to go away. I dont think I've ever come across anyone more cruel and heartless. Not even to make sure that I was alright during a late night phone call of crying. Begging. And even questioning myself thinking that I had done something terribly wrong. What was so bad about me? Am I a bad person? Did I do something to deserve this? Why why why...

Falling out of love wasnt what happened. Never being there in the first place was probably more like it, and lying about it. Truly one of the biggest assholes on this planet.

That's harsh. People just aren't worth it sometimes.

I know how it is...I was dumped by my gf about a month and a half ago for the same reason. She claims that she "didn't have the same feelings that I had for her". Yet, I think she did but just couldn't come to admit it. But then again I'm finding out that she may be a dike...

Ah what the hell, women drive me crazy. (no offense) Anyway, don't go doing anything stupid...it's going to hurt for awhile but it will go away eventually.

*EDIT* Oh yeah, might I add that I went with this girl previously and we went our own way for a year. Then we got back together, so I really thought that things were going to work out this time.

so sorry to hear that cheryl

what happened?

we haven't talked in a while, I was wondering where you were!?


please give me a call or send me a pm or something


we need to talk ...

btw want to come up to this new cool place in cleveland friday ? I'm inviting you and I hope you come! talk to you soon

Re: It Always Gets Better Sooner Or Later, but..

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Originally posted by LadyLuck13 What really sucks is the fact that someone can mislead you and make you believe that they love/care for you; and then one day just change their mind. Or so they say. What a shitty feeling to have knowing that you love someone who doesnt love you in return and couldnt care less about your feelings. I'm struggling to understand and cope without doing something drastic. And I was ok for a long time, but last week...it just finally hit me. Everything just kind of sucks in a way. There are good things going on besides this, but this just puts a damper on the rest. God must really love me to have kept me alive last night and allowed me to awake this morning after taking a handfull of pills. At the time, it was all I could think of to do to stop the pain. And I didnt care anymore. I just wanted to go away. I dont think I've ever come across anyone more cruel and heartless. Not even to make sure that I was alright during a late night phone call of crying. Begging. And even questioning myself thinking that I had done something terribly wrong. What was so bad about me? Am I a bad person? Did I do something to deserve this? Why why why... Falling out of love wasnt what happened. Never being there in the first place was probably more like it, and lying about it. Truly one of the biggest assholes on this planet.

Keep smiling mate. Its gets shitty sometimes and People were put here to fuck other people up. BUT............... NOTHING AND NO-ONE IS WORTH KILLING YOURSELF OVER. Life is our greatest gift- dont throw it away.

And God doesnt give a fuck about you or anyone or anything because it doesnt exist. You have to rely on yourself, your family and your friends - things you can see and touch - THAT ARE ACTUALLY THERE.

the hardest thing to do is watch the one you love .... love someone else

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Originally posted by TeKnoHe@d2025 I know how it is...I was dumped by my gf about a month and a half ago for the same reason. She claims that she "didn't have the same feelings that I had for her". Yet, I think she did but just couldn't come to admit it. *EDIT* Oh yeah, might I add that I went with this girl previously and we went our own way for a year. Then we got back together, so I really thought that things were going to work out this time.

I think that too, but in the end...I hope it comes back to him ten fold. I hate that I loved him. And still do.

John, call me when you get the chance...my cell is always on. Just leave me your number and I will call you back. I didnt write it down.

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Originally posted by RedLunatik the hardest thing to do is watch the one you love .... love someone else

Or even think about that person loving someone else. Just as heartbreaking.

you definetly hit the spot. i couldn't have put it in a better way.
i can relate to you with the fact that everything seems to be alright for the longest time after it's over. then one day it suddenly creeps over you and just whispers in your ear and painfully stabs you.
like someone said earlier no one is worth killing yourself for. not even as a sacrifice. it's all a mix of disappointment, sorrow, longing and love.
you can't completely remove yourself from the blame because i'm sure there were so many factors that could have lead to this ending. but just knowing and accepting the pain should be a reward.
i loathe undecisive people. how do you "change your mind"? its preposterous really. i don't know how much this person meant to you but i don't believe in the "time will heal" concept. at times in certain relationships, time will never heal and you'll just have to remain feeling hurt. i sure hope this isn't one of them for you.
i've let go and stopped wondering why. his hypocrisy makes me laugh at times, but of course i don't let him know i'm laughing. haven't you ever felt that you knew what he needed and wanted more than he did himself?
but perhaps all these thoughts and feelings are just what i have created to comfort myself.
whatever comforts you, find it and i hope you can surpass this.

- elena

p.s.: i think this is a post in a while that's been worth anything

if it makes you feel better I havent had a girlfriend in 20 years

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Originally posted by Orbax if it makes you feel better I havent had a girlfriend in 20 years

Trance keeping you busy too?

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Originally posted by Orbax if it makes you feel better I havent had a girlfriend in 20 years

Same. Hope you feel better Ladyluck. Why do people treat other people like crap? It REALLY REALLY annoys me. Undesicive people suck ass. Why can't you make up your mind? Or if you can't be fucking HONEST ABOUT IT. I'd rather know right off the bat (or at least the moment) you start to feel "different" than just string me along. People suck, trance rules end of story.

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Originally posted by Orbax if it makes you feel better I havent had a girlfriend in 20 years

how about starting something like a geek alliance for people who never had a girlfriend? i'd join


just remember, taking your life isn't the best way out.

two questions,

1. how old are you in you havent had a girl in 20 yrs?
2. do you want one for the sake of having one?

well he is probably 20 and sayin that he never had a girlfriend..

i had a friend who was in the same situation...here is my thoughts on this topic...first of all i am one of those people who belives that there everyone has a match outthere and although it is hard to find but it is ohhh sooo sweet..Second if a guy makes u unhappy or doesnt care then he is probably not worth ur love because if he really loved ya then a tear from u would make him feel so much pain and cannot stand ur sadness if not then he doesnt deserve ur care..finally taking ur life away or shuttin urself out of everything isnt worth it just live ur life normally cause maybe tommorow a guy will come by that sweeps u off ur feat and make u feel special and wonderful like u truly are and forget totally about what uve been through...so stick it out and waited it out and wish for the best and who knows?...well thats my 2 cents if i helped in even 1% then i am very happy....best of luck to ya

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But then again I'm finding out that she may be a dike...

LMFAO

that serves her right.. !!!

Dudette... no one is worth your life.. not even the one that u care so much about, time passes, but its in this time that we have to deal with the actions and the decisions we have chosen, thats the part of humanity, thats what makes us what we are, no one can change that, not even death...

I felt the same way that you did, and WE think that only death can solve this heartache, but in reality its time, once you get to mature, not only physically, but also mentally you will find out that some people are not as what we thought they were.. but indeed are two fold and thats something we have to deal with...

Take note, im not saying you're immature, just take time to think about your situation, analyze, and most importantly.. LEARN FROM IT!!!

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the hardest thing to do is watch the one you love .... love someone else

i got one for you... it hurts to love someone who doesn't give you the time of day, but it hurts more when you realize that someone u don't give the time of day loved you and gave it up because you loved another...

Trust me this person will feel this way, not now, not tomorrow, but in the future, and then my friend that will make it WAY too late, as you would have moved on to better and greater things...

Love hurts, but what hurts more is regret... do you regret him? honestly... you don't do you... because your positive feelings and emotions overcame the moments that you shared with each other...

Girl... once again.. take care of yourself, hang out with a bunch of friends.. not just one... because if its just one.. then you'll be talking about how miserable you are.. but if its with a group, the vibe will be positive, which is good in this time you are facing...

DJ Oracle... signing out...

If you want to talk more... don't be afraid to PM Me..

P.s... sorry about the long post... but i hope i helped, if it was only a little...

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Originally posted by LadyLuck13 I hate that I loved him. And still do.

Same here, I've done all that I possibably can to prove to her that we're right for each other. Everyone tells me that they would have given up ages ago, yet I still try. I don't know if I'm the stupid one for doing this or not.

u cant make anyone feel a certain way for you and peoples feelings often change. im sorry u r upset, but there are better ways to get through this. living your life and having a great time is what u should do. proving that u dont need him and are better off with out him is a great revenge.

um, what's the big deal about not having a "girl-friend" ... it doesn't make you a geek... going steady with someone is not for everyone... i prefer to keep friends and f-buddies.. one night stands are also preferable...really, with my living situation now and school+work+addictions a girl-friend is just unrealistic... it takes a lot of money, time, and effort to have a decent relationship... why sacrifice for a girl that you could consider a worthless ho in a few months when she sleeps with someone else? the less complication the better... fuck relationships...

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Originally posted by Damo um, what's the big deal about not having a "girl-friend" ... it doesn't make you a geek... going steady with someone is not for everyone... i prefer to keep friends and f-buddies.. one night stands are also preferable...really, with my living situation now and school+work+addictions a girl-friend is just unrealistic... it takes a lot of money, time, and effort to have a decent relationship... why sacrifice for a girl that you could consider a worthless ho in a few months when she sleeps with someone else? the less complication the better... fuck relationships...

does love exist?

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Originally posted by miss_e does love exist?

yes it does and your in love with me!

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Originally posted by kirbtastic yes it does and your in love with me!

kirb you take me higher than the highest wave in the sea...yet i dont even know your name

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Originally posted by miss_e kirb you take me higher than the highest wave in the sea...yet i dont even know your name

because my mysteriousness is what u love about me the most.

Thanks everyone. I've seen more caring from you guys who are strangers, than from someone who said they cared.

guys just say they love you so they can have sex.

its scientifically proven.

you just have to find the niciest, most honest guys. they are hard to find, but keep looking.

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