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And that brings us back to: Its better to not even get into the subject. They were perfectly happy until these detail. Ignorance is bliss.

Unless you believe honesty is the foundation of a relationship. Numbers aside, I like to know everything there is to know about people...especially my partners. I don't keep secrets, and I don't like secrets being kept from me.

but it's not a secret if u just don't care or feel it's important.

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Originally posted by Slylee but it's not a secret if u just don't care or feel it's important.

Zing.

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Originally posted by Slylee but it's not a secret if u just don't care or feel it's important.

Yes, and to me it is. I'm only speaking on my behalf here.

Interesting thread.

I know a couple, they're both 29 and the girl was a virgin when she met him -- they met last year and they're now married.

I argue why was she still a virgin at 29 and what's to say she won't get curious years down the line seeing how she's only 'been' with one guy? I'm pretty sure all women who have only been with 1 guy get this way ...eventually.

My buddy disagrees and says she'd be more likely to stray if she was sexually active in the past and/or the cheating/promiscuous type.

I think ANYONE would get curious. One definitely has to sew their oats a little.

i broke off a perfectly good relationship with a guy i was madly in love with for that reason alone. i hope one day he realizes i did him a favor.

I prefer girls with some experience over virgins, but I also prefer them over girls with a lot or too much experience.
Experience has taught me to leave the past in the past, but I can't say it wouldn't bother me if I found out my girlfriend has had quite a number of guys before me.

When my bf and I had our 2 year split (my decision), I kept telling him he needed it. For the longest time he kept insisting he didn't and wanted me back, etc. But of course, he eventually ended up banging a few broads...and I know he's glad for the experiences he had.

My ex-girlfriend once cheated on me while I was doing my rehab, but then she confessed that she was really depressed and went to a friends house and he made a move on her and she couldn't stop it and it was noting more than making out. So, I took her back just because she was honest about it.

Some might bluff and it's not that hard to tell when they are bluffing.

Depends on how much is too much and how many people in a short period.

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Originally posted by Axer My ex-girlfriend once cheated on me while I was doing my rehab, but then she confessed that she was really depressed and went to a friends house and he made a move on her and she couldn't stop it and it was noting more than making out. So, I took her back just because she was honest about it. Some might bluff and it's not that hard to tell when they are bluffing.

Yeah, cheaters are fags...but I think one who comes forward right away and is big enough to admit they made a mistake is worthy of forgiveness...well, depending on the relationship. But it's just the respectful thing to do, whether or not you're deeply emotionally invested in the person or not. Lying about it is plain selfish and cowardly.

we did more than make out.

This mean seem a touch unsubtle but surely (and i mean this in a factual sence not in an abusive way) a 29 year old virgin is either:

• Is ugly.
  
• Has no libido.
  
• Has been abused/is wrong in the head.
  
• Has serious trust issues.
  
• Has serious thrust* issues.
  

or is a korean girl scared of penis.

believe it or not there are still virgins later in life. Not many...but still.

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Originally posted by jennypie Yeah, cheaters are fags...but I think one who comes forward right away and is big enough to admit they made a mistake is worthy of forgiveness...well, depending on the relationship. But it's just the respectful thing to do, whether or not you're deeply emotionally invested in the person or not. Lying about it is plain selfish and cowardly.

LOL @ cheaters are fags

Well, she was a big part of me during my goodtimes, badtimes and still held me tight druing rockbottom until it started falling apart beyond my powers. I still have a lot of love and respect for her. We are still good friends and quite happy to see each other moving on with our lives in different directions. Definitely brushed me off with some of her good qualities. I miss getting high and go crazy with her on the bed.

Lying is selfish and cowardly alright and if someone lies once then then have to lie again to cover up the previous lie. That's what I know.

It not always about sex and kinky funny stories, it's also about how indifferent and wonderful people you come across life and what you learned and experienced with them and about remembering how their tongue taste and how their hair smelt and the perfumes they wore and maybe more than that.

And sometime about banging the person next to you when it's hot! Life is short. LOL

@ serious Axer post.

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Originally posted by jennypie Yeah, cheaters are fags...

To put it politely.

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Originally posted by jennypie @ serious Axer post.

I have a darkside.

I used to be so absolute in my judgment of cheaters...I used to think it was unforgivable, under any circumstance. But clearly that's ridiculous.

They're still fags though.

you know who else is a fag?

bas.

Well duh.

i just like saying it.

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