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Posted by Tordan on Apr-20-2006 05:04:

quote:
Originally posted by El Kay Dee
oh wait..u dont do pills...yea sorry...my bad...


hahaha

waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa



Posted by LKD on Apr-20-2006 05:05:

quote:
Originally posted by Tordan
i'm not going to explain myself because you obviously won't get it.


i cant believe i actually thought i wanted to meet Mr. "im such an angel" some time ago after reading his posts in this thread...


Posted by Misanthrope on Apr-20-2006 05:06:

this thread just got


Posted by kabelicious on Apr-20-2006 05:08:

quote:
Originally posted by rabbitjoker
People are getting confused by the words rather than focusing on their meaning.

The intent of the message is noble and deserves consideration.

Remain focused on the intent and meaning.


+1

Use drugs wisely - don't let drugs use you.


Posted by Irishaddict on Apr-20-2006 05:09:

quote:
Originally posted by geroin
i personally think very low of people that do drugs and that will never change. I repeat, if you have to do drugs at a club you are not a real tranceaddict.


By the same argument I guess the Beatles didn't really like rock'n'roll.


Posted by cyper on Apr-20-2006 05:13:

See, i've had nothing but good experiences with drugs, and with people who use drugs.

As for clubbing. I find people who drink alcohol alot more irresponsible and dangerous then I do people who pop E.
In fact I perfer dancing and partying with a bunch of e-tards then with alcoholics.

Now sure, I dont agree that drug use is good. Because its not.
But neither is alcohol or smoking(which kill MANY more people a year then drugs). The only difference is that those are legal and accepted in our society.
But in my view those things are much more dangerous and hazardous to our society then drug use ever will be.

So I guess in the end, the only real party people are the ones who do it sober the entire night. And if you can party just as hard as the drug users, then you have my respect.


Posted by geroin on Apr-20-2006 05:15:

quote:
Originally posted by El Kay Dee
lol...wow 3 years later u think of mentioning something thats most likely a misunderstanding. i ALWAYS apologize if i interrupt someones experience at a club and have actually been thanked (yea kinda odd) for doing so, so take a chill pill already



oh wait..u dont do pills...yea sorry...my bad...


hahaha

waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa


......
im a chilled, i told you what my impression is of you because i have never seen you again after that incident. Btw you looked like you were either drunk or on something because sober people would not act like people around them dont exist.


Posted by geroin on Apr-20-2006 05:16:

quote:
Originally posted by Irishaddict
By the same argument I guess the Beatles didn't really like rock'n'roll.


Beatles did E?


Posted by Irishaddict on Apr-20-2006 05:25:

quote:
Originally posted by geroin
Beatles did E?


That'd be hard since the drug never gained popularity until the late 1970s.

You totally missed the point.


Posted by geroin on Apr-20-2006 05:33:

quote:
Originally posted by Irishaddict
That'd be hard since the drug never gained popularity until the late 1970s.

You totally missed the point.


i know, i was being sarcastic...


Posted by tatgirl on Apr-20-2006 05:57:

Wow. I had no idea this thread would get this big, or such a positive response from that many people.

What I'm gonna say here is not 'in defense' of my actions, but merely explain a bit further as to why this was started to begin with.

Am I going to apologize for starting this thread? No. It has obviously proven to be a topic thats on a lot of peoples minds, based on the rapid amount of replies (even if you dont count the off-topic posts). Other threads have been started before that touched to this subject already ("know your limits"), yet it obviously didn't have the impact that this thread has. Never did I name any names, then or now. Some people who I wasn't even talking about are getting defensive, and others who are defensive obviously have a reason to be. People I wasn't even thinking about are contacting me personally to say they're going to re-evaluate their priorities. If just ONE person comes away with them taking a good look at themselves, or gives someone the courage to talk to one of their friends about this taboo subject, then this thread has served its purpose.

Don't think for a minute that I haven't had discussions w/some of these people expressing my concerns. What have I gotten in return? Often lies to my face regarding their continued usage. Are there more people yet to talk to? Of course. But if they're just gonna 'justify' their G use to me as they have to others, I dont need to waste me time.

My concerns are NOT just in reference to this past weekends events, nor any one person's house either. I could name at least 3 houses that have fallen into the 'drug den' category at some point. If people are able to figure out who some of these people and places are, that's not my fault. If things weren't done in public to begin with, it wouldn't be public knowledge. Is this a public issue? Yes, drug abuse is a public issue. Am I talking about one person's drug abuse? No- there are too many people to list, nor would I list them by name either. I am also surrounded by abusers in my personal life (not just people on TA) and the cumulation of the two worlds is making me reach my breaking point.

Do I have every right to voice my thoughts? Yes, I do. Does that mean I think they are bad people? Not at all. If I didn't love or care about them, I wouldn't mention it to begin with. Am I being hypocritical cuz I didn't mention the evils of E/pot/alcohol/cigarettes/heroin/crack/food as well? No. The point is just like Jon said- there's a fine line between party and abuse, whatever your poison. Obviously, some poisons shouldn't be touched to begin with. I only mentioned those 3 drugs in particular, because it is those drugs that are becoming a PROBLEM for many people here, and have some pretty high risks at stake if abused. Again, I'm not here to preach against any and all drug use. Its the ABUSE that has become a problem, and people messing with drugs they have no business touching.

Again, to get back on topic, if just one person comes away with something positive out of this, it will be worth any enemies I'm gonna make for speaking my mind.

Party safely. Don't become a statistic.


Posted by nusty on Apr-20-2006 06:11:

again Nat, well put and well needed. I have a lot of respect for those willing to go out of their way to get people to think and reflect for a bit. We can all use more of it. And we can all benifit from others watching out for us additionally.

one of my favorite sayings is 'Everything in moderation, even exessiveness'.
we can all decide where our lines are, but we should choose them intelligently.


Posted by VERTiG0 on Apr-20-2006 06:17:

quote:
Originally posted by tatgirl
Party safely. Don't become a statistic.


Yeah. Some may say "oh that'll never happen to me." Well, somebody has to be that statistic.


Posted by geroin on Apr-20-2006 06:20:

quote:
Originally posted by VERTiG0
Yeah. Some may say "oh that'll never happen to me." Well, somebody has to be that statistic.


it was nice to meet you at decadence btw
i dont know if you remember me, i was the guy who was completely sober at 9am dancing my ass off
yes people like me do exist.


Posted by dallastar on Apr-20-2006 06:32:

Re: TOTA has a crisis on its hands

quote:
Keep it up, kids- just a few months more and you too will have a hole burned thru your septum requiring plastic surgery to fix it, and a bad habit you cant kick.

BEFORE

AFTER



Daniella Westbrooke - used to much and look what happened to her for example. these are not icons anyone wants to become. or is it? i should hope not

well put Nat and we all still wuv u!


Posted by E.inc on Apr-20-2006 07:27:

Ghost Smilie

quote:
Originally posted by tatgirl
Wow. I had no idea this thread would get this big, or such a positive response from that many people.

What I'm gonna say here is not 'in defense' of my actions, but merely explain a bit further as to why this was started to begin with.

Am I going to apologize for starting this thread? No. It has obviously proven to be a topic thats on a lot of peoples minds, based on the rapid amount of replies (even if you dont count the off-topic posts). Other threads have been started before that touched to this subject already ("know your limits"), yet it obviously didn't have the impact that this thread has. Never did I name any names, then or now. Some people who I wasn't even talking about are getting defensive, and others who are defensive obviously have a reason to be. People I wasn't even thinking about are contacting me personally to say they're going to re-evaluate their priorities. If just ONE person comes away with them taking a good look at themselves, or gives someone the courage to talk to one of their friends about this taboo subject, then this thread has served its purpose.

Don't think for a minute that I haven't had discussions w/some of these people expressing my concerns. What have I gotten in return? Often lies to my face regarding their continued usage. Are there more people yet to talk to? Of course. But if they're just gonna 'justify' their G use to me as they have to others, I dont need to waste me time.

My concerns are NOT just in reference to this past weekends events, nor any one person's house either. I could name at least 3 houses that have fallen into the 'drug den' category at some point. If people are able to figure out who some of these people and places are, that's not my fault. If things weren't done in public to begin with, it wouldn't be public knowledge. Is this a public issue? Yes, drug abuse is a public issue. Am I talking about one person's drug abuse? No- there are too many people to list, nor would I list them by name either. I am also surrounded by abusers in my personal life (not just people on TA) and the cumulation of the two worlds is making me reach my breaking point.

Do I have every right to voice my thoughts? Yes, I do. Does that mean I think they are bad people? Not at all. If I didn't love or care about them, I wouldn't mention it to begin with. Am I being hypocritical cuz I didn't mention the evils of E/pot/alcohol/cigarettes/heroin/crack/food as well? No. The point is just like Jon said- there's a fine line between party and abuse, whatever your poison. Obviously, some poisons shouldn't be touched to begin with. I only mentioned those 3 drugs in particular, because it is those drugs that are becoming a PROBLEM for many people here, and have some pretty high risks at stake if abused. Again, I'm not here to preach against any and all drug use. Its the ABUSE that has become a problem, and people messing with drugs they have no business touching.

Again, to get back on topic, if just one person comes away with something positive out of this, it will be worth any enemies I'm gonna make for speaking my mind.

Party safely. Don't become a statistic.



WELL SAID!


Posted by VERTiG0 on Apr-20-2006 11:59:

Re: Re: TOTA has a crisis on its hands

quote:
Originally posted by dallastar
BEFORE

AFTER



Daniella Westbrooke - used to much and look what happened to her for example.



Jesus fuck!


Posted by sufee_b on Apr-20-2006 12:30:

quote:
Originally posted by El Kay Dee
wow...couldnt get away from reading the whole thing and yes ur right. we all are or have at some point been there and not only are the dangers prtaining to health but also to our social well being.

i hope this thread is read by almost all(if not everyone) instead of the stupid threads that TA is 95% made of


ahh...it all makes sense now..I've wondered why the TOTA forum was made up of so many stupid idiotic threads and always get bashed by MTLers..I thought it was a bunch of 6 yr. olds making them..but it's the drugs..it all makes sense now.


Posted by spitty on Apr-20-2006 12:57:

quote:
Originally posted by geroin
it was nice to meet you at decadence btw
i dont know if you remember me, i was the guy who was completely sober at 9am dancing my ass off
yes people like me do exist.



yes, its possible. i've done it many a times (with me ACTUALLY dancing at 9am) but i don't always choose to do it sober. just like you don't always choose to not drink that night. i'm sure you're nto an alcoholic, and i won't look down on you for drinking, even if it is kinda gross.


Posted by Beach420 on Apr-20-2006 13:15:

quote:
Originally posted by spitty
yes, its possible. i've done it many a times (with me ACTUALLY dancing at 9am) but i don't always choose to do it sober. just like you don't always choose to not drink that night. i'm sure you're nto an alcoholic, and i won't look down on you for drinking, even if it is kinda gross.


and at 9am ur still dancing like its the begining of the night


Posted by LKD on Apr-20-2006 13:29:

quote:
Originally posted by geroin
......
im a chilled, i told you what my impression is of you because i have never seen you again after that incident. Btw you looked like you were either drunk or on something because sober people would not act like people around them dont exist.


keep ur impressions to urself. if uve already judged me without knowing me, it shows quite a good side of u. one that stereotypes, assumes and basically is oblivious of the world around because of the myths stuck in ur head.

lol i hope i behave the same way around u again cos u dont deserve any better


Posted by zokissima on Apr-20-2006 13:32:

wow, this thread has just exploded.


Posted by Skipper on Apr-20-2006 13:34:

quote:
Originally posted by Pettiscool
why should people censor themselves if their joking about something?

i sure never have or never will at the risk of somebody judgeing me.


also where do you guys get your information from???

its called sources , try and use them when you make wild speculations about anything


That's fine - if you don't care about people associating you with whatever the joke is about, post away. Just don't discount the perception of you that you are creating by such posts.


Posted by LKD on Apr-20-2006 13:36:

quote:
Originally posted by zokissima
wow, this thread has just exploded.


i already called the fire dept. should be here in a few minutes


Posted by thesauce23 on Apr-20-2006 13:41:

quote:
Originally posted by Vivid Boy
and ur not gonna change unless YOU want too. aint nobody gonna change ur mind or change ur habits but YOU.


+ 11.333333.... Exactly! I've always believed in Mind Over Matter. It is much easier to quit doing things than one thinks it is. Self Control- the most powerful thing in the world! If its hard for someone, they are either weak-minded or just lack self control. Not a judgement, but my perogative.


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