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Originally posted by jennypie I used to be so absolute in my judgment of cheaters...I used to think it was unforgivable, under any circumstance. But clearly that's ridiculous. They're still fags though.

I think people deserve a second chance, depending on the surrounding circumstances, but if it does happen, it really is time to sit down with your partner and evaluate the relationship for what it's worth: where the relationship broke down and where you go from here on in.

Still fags though.

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Originally posted by elFreak or is a korean girl scared of penis. believe it or not there are still virgins later in life. Not many...but still.

So need to add "thrust issues" right after "trust issues" to my list?

not me, i only believe in forgiveness until you get that last hate fuck.

i figure, if i don't do it they shouldn't. Fuck ups never happen in ones.

LoL...god, such bitter logic.

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Originally posted by elFreak not me, i only believe in forgiveness until you get that last hate fuck. i figure, if i don't do it they shouldn't. Fuck ups never happen in ones.

But you can fuck her where their 2's come from.

sounds like someone was abused in the childhood

i'm not talking about making out here.

and edit: i'm a catch lol

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Originally posted by Axer abused in the childhood

LoL...there's a couple jokes in here somewhere.

i'm not that religious lol

for those of you who are saying you ask someone how many sexual partners they've had, do you also ask them to divulge the details of their drug and/or alcohol usage, or whether they've gotten in trouble with the law? where you do you draw the line on how deep to dig into someone's past to find out what kind of person they are (or should i say, what kind of person they used to be)?

Straight sex, drugs, music and experienced women working it on the top

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Originally posted by squirrelly Who said anything about being "afraid to reveal" a number? Being comfortable with your own / your partners sexuality has nothing to do with knowing how many partners they have had. The number of people they slept with should not affect your feelings for the person at all. Chances are you were attracted to the person sexually first, personality later. So what does that say about you? How many partners you have is no indicator whatsoever about someone's commitment levels. Enjoying safe sexual activities and having a relationship are two different things. Being in the business I am, I find out a lot about personal lives. You'd be surprised how many people were very sexually active, and did not hold very many relationships because the women they met did not hold the qualities they wanted to start a relationship. So they were in their 30s, had many partners, but say only 1 or 2 serious relationships (maybe a few little ones lasting a few months but that doesn't count), but then met the right person, fell head over heels in love, and became the most wonderful, committed men. Honestly I think you're mindset is still very young if you're insisting on knowing about past sexual/relationship history. Those kind of things do not matter as much as the compatability with the person and your lifestyles once you become a little more mature relationship-wise.

Well said.

My best friend picked up around 60 women in 2005. At the start of 2006 he met a chick who he really liked and has been seeing her ever since and has not even thought about cheating on her.

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Originally posted by Theresa I just wonder if the people who aren't comfortable telling their number are insecure. Are they afraid to be judged? Are they ashamed of their own sexual history? Seems immature to me that someone would be so secretive of something like that. If you are comfortable with your own actions and your sexuality, your number shouldn't be something to keep under wraps.

If it was me, I wouldn't tell you because I'd be worried that you'd judge me and end the relationship, as you admitted doing in the past about 4 pages back in the thread!

This is why most guys are probably reticent to proffer their number, not because they're embarrassed/ashamed about their sex history.

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Originally posted by Beat Blog Well said. My best friend picked up around 60 women in 2005. At the start of 2006 he met a chick who he really liked and has been seeing her ever since and has not even thought about cheating on her.

More than one a week...for a year? I'd say I'd be ify about the fidelity claim too.

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Originally posted by l�cid for those of you who are saying you ask someone how many sexual partners they've had, do you also ask them to divulge the details of their drug and/or alcohol usage, or whether they've gotten in trouble with the law? where you do you draw the line on how deep to dig into someone's past to find out what kind of person they are (or should i say, what kind of person they used to be)?

I don't draw the line. I said I like to know everything (within reason)...that's just how I am. I prefer a partner who doesn't have a problem with that, because I wouldn't have a problem with them asking the same of me.

Again it just goes back to common values, and relationship goals, etc. It's an important part of intimacy for me. *shrug*

i'm pretty sure that most relationship experts (doctors) would say that it's actually healthy to have a few secrets (healthy ones of course...and if you can't use your own discretion about what's a healthy secret or not, then you're retarded). i'm not saying it works for everyone, but i'm one of those people it would work for. i used to be one of those who would dig dig dig until i knew everything about the person and lay all my cards out, but i dunno..as i get older i'm comfortable not knowing every little fucking detail of my SO's life/relationships/sexual history, etc...

if i like them, i like them. i like them for how they treat me, how they presently carry themselves, how they make decisions TODAY, what their goals in life are, how they treat people (again, today). i'm not saying i avoid all conversations that talk about the past...i've had guys i was dating casually mention an "ex" and i listened to the story and thought, "hmm" and just sort of took it in and maybe analyzed it a bit relating to their personality and that's about it. i've also casually shared a few stories involving an ex and i've also answered any questions about breakups or whatever. if they wanna know, i'll tell them. but i've never had a guy straight up say, "how many people have you slept with". if i ever do though, i will just tell him. i still wouldn't ask the same question of him though.

That's real !

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Originally posted by jennypie I especially know what I want in a mate....and it isn't someone who fails at relationships and/or sleeps around

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Originally posted by jennypie he eventually ended up banging a few broads...

I'm confused.

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Originally posted by l�cid for those of you who are saying you ask someone how many sexual partners they've had, do you also ask them to divulge the details of their drug and/or alcohol usage, or whether they've gotten in trouble with the law? where you do you draw the line on how deep to dig into someone's past to find out what kind of person they are (or should i say, what kind of person they used to be)?

if they have notthing to hide, they won't have a problem telling all this info.

honesty is the best policy, even when its just getting to know someone.

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Originally posted by Beat Blog Good luck fucking butt ugly women for the rest of your life. Don't you think that a good-looking 30 year old chick will have banged more than five guys in her life, or a hot 19 year old more than two? Having one night stands for three months in between relationships doesn't mean someone lacks the desire for one. Your naivety is amusing.

perhaps not, but it makes here a skank for sleeping with so many guys.

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Originally posted by AustralianGQ perhaps not, but it makes here a skank for sleeping with so many guys.

A 30 year old woman who has slept with 5 men is a skank?

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Originally posted by Axer My ex-girlfriend once cheated on me while I was doing my rehab, but then she confessed that she was really depressed and went to a friends house and he made a move on her and she couldn't stop it and it was noting more than making out. So, I took her back just because she was honest about it. Some might bluff and it's not that hard to tell when they are bluffing.

it was more than making out and it was more than once

5 guys? At 30? Skank?

WHAT?

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Originally posted by UWM A 30 year old woman who has slept with 5 men is a skank?

lol

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Originally posted by AustralianGQ perhaps not, but it makes here a skank for sleeping with so many guys.

You missed the point: there are very few women who will fall outside of your little criteria for what consitutes a skank.

By your definition, pretty much every "normal" girl is a whore.

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Originally posted by UWM A 30 year old woman who has slept with 5 men is a skank?

Dude, don't you know how to count? Five dicks is a lot, man... A LOT!

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