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Posted by AustralianGQ on Jul-23-2008 02:15:

quote:
Originally posted by squirrelly
Theresa, what if it's an older guy? Are you really expecting someon in their thirties to have only been with 10 girls or less?

What I don't understand is why anyone is concerned about it in the first place. Who cares, it's in the past. They're with you now.

This is where insecurities stems from. Asking THAT question makes a girl feel inadequate if she's had less under her belt. Or she starts worrying about if she's 'as good' as all the the other girls. Numbers mean absolutely nothing. Someone (guy or girl) could have been with 50 girls/guys, and until they met the right person, didn't settle down. That doesn't make them any less of a good person.

If you're secure with yourself, you won't care about the number.

And personally I think it looks very immature and petty when you're asking those kinds of questions.



so u would get involved with a guy who has been with 50 girls or more? wow...u certainly are unlike most females then.

ur dumb. if a guy has been with that many girls. ur just another number to him and u have the intelligence to belive the bullshit thats coming out of his mouth and you actually think he wants u and not just in ur pants....get real.

how many ppl a person has been with, says alot about them...its important. some of us want someone with a sense of class and morals, dare i say, and that dont involve being with 50 ppl over a lifetime. and yea sure u could of dated alot of ppl and had badluck eachtime, but thats no excuse to sleeping with each person u date for a few weeks or monthes. shouldnt that be saved for when u two are serious and have feelings for eachother, or is that kind of attitude on relationships dead now?

Posted by tubularbills on Jul-23-2008 02:17:

quote:
Originally posted by idoru
Dude, don't you know how to count? Five dicks is a lot, man... A LOT!


maybe all at once ... sure.... but everything is good in moderation

Posted by UWM on Jul-23-2008 02:20:

quote:
Originally posted by AustralianGQ
ur dumb.


You have no right to say this to anyone.

Ever.

Posted by idoru on Jul-23-2008 02:20:

quote:
Originally posted by UWM
You have no right to say this to anyone.

Ever.


Posted by Axer on Jul-23-2008 02:22:

quote:
Originally posted by nefardec
it was more than making out and it was more than once


Nawww, I'm sure she didn't lie to me that very day, she was on her knees.

Posted by tubularbills on Jul-23-2008 02:22:

quote:
Originally posted by UWM
You have no right to say this to anyone.

Ever.


HA!

Posted by AustralianGQ on Jul-23-2008 02:22:

quote:
Originally posted by Beat Blog
lol



You missed the point: there are very few women who will fall outside of your little criteria for what consitutes a skank.

By your definition, pretty much every "normal" girl is a whore.




oh common...alot of girls may be skanky...but alot of girls out their, do not fit this ideal and have slept with less guys then i mentioned, which is a good thing...honestly do u wanna be with a girl who has slept around or is sexually permiscuous? i sure as hell dont, i want a girl with class and that doesnt inolve being 18 and being with more then 1 or 2 guys so far in her life(im 18 myself)

Posted by UWM on Jul-23-2008 02:23:

quote:
Originally posted by AustralianGQ
oh common...alot of girls may be skanky...but alot of girls out their, do not fit this ideal and have slept with less guys then i mentioned, which is a good thing...honestly do u wanna be with a girl who has slept around or is sexually permiscuous? i sure as hell dont, i want a girl with class and that doesnt inolve being 18 and being with more then 1 or 2 guys so far in her life(im 18 myself)


Class has nothing to do with the number of people you've slept with you clueless twat.

Perhaps you should consult a dictionary before waxing philosophical on your moral barometer.

Posted by idoru on Jul-23-2008 02:24:

quote:
Originally posted by AustralianGQ
oh common...alot of girls may be skanky...but alot of girls out their, do not fit this ideal and have slept with less guys then i mentioned, which is a good thing...honestly do u wanna be with a girl who has slept around or is sexually permiscuous? i sure as hell dont, i want a girl with class and that doesnt inolve being 18 and being with more then 1 or 2 guys so far in her life(im 18 myself)


There is a LOT more to "class" than how many people somebody has had sex with. Stop talking, please.

Posted by winston on Jul-23-2008 02:28:

24 pages and counting. life is good.

Posted by tubularbills on Jul-23-2008 02:35:

quote:
Originally posted by AustralianGQ
(im 18 myself)


LOLOLOLOLOL

Posted by Frenchie on Jul-23-2008 02:40:

18. You're, yes *you're*, a baby. You barely just crawled out of a pussy yourself, you don't know shit.

Posted by AustralianGQ on Jul-23-2008 02:40:

quote:
Originally posted by idoru
There is a LOT more to "class" than how many people somebody has had sex with. Stop talking, please.



yes i agree, their is alot more to being classy or not being classy then the ammount of ppl u have slept with, but thats one thing that really defines someone i think.

Posted by ali92 on Jul-23-2008 02:42:

Re: Is too much sexual experience a turnoff?

quote:
Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
I've encountered a number of people who are wary of dating someone who has had "too many" partners -- what constitutes "too many" can vary depending on age and the person doing the judging...

What do you think?
Is it also seen as a minus to have never kissed at age 23?

Posted by UWM on Jul-23-2008 02:55:

Re: Re: Is too much sexual experience a turnoff?

quote:
Originally posted by ali92
Is it also seen as a minus to have never kissed at age 23?


Surely this isn't a serious question.



(Yes, I'm serious, and don't call me Shirley)

Posted by nefardec on Jul-23-2008 03:07:

Re: Re: Is too much sexual experience a turnoff?

quote:
Originally posted by ali92
Is it also seen as a minus to have never kissed at age 23?



yes


get the fuck out and grow some balls

Posted by ali92 on Jul-23-2008 03:07:

Re: Re: Re: Is too much sexual experience a turnoff?

quote:
Originally posted by UWM
Surely this isn't a serious question.



(Yes, I'm serious, and don't call me Shirley)
It actually is. I really never experienced anything like that at all.

Posted by Frenchie on Jul-23-2008 03:09:

Re: Re: Re: Is too much sexual experience a turnoff?

quote:
Originally posted by nefardec
yes


get the fuck out and grow some balls and tea bag some whore with them


fixed

Posted by nefardec on Jul-23-2008 03:12:

an alternative to the balls and aforementioned t-baggage is:

start going to the gym and taking steroids, taking supplements, go to the tanning booth until you are orange, and then drive around blasting hardtrance in north jersey

Posted by barbina on Jul-23-2008 03:31:

I don't really believe in dating. Yes.. here it comes. I'm anti-relationship ATM, I've done them, enough of them, to know they're not my thing. Sex is sex. It doesn't have to be more than that. I don't get why people have such big hang ups about it. Maybe its just me, I'm out to have fun, do what I want, and not be tied down to anything/anyone in such a serious way.

But what would I know

Posted by UWM on Jul-23-2008 03:37:

You don't even have sex, thus your opinion on the matter is null and void.

Now if we were talking about our partners scissoring too often ...

Posted by l�cid on Jul-23-2008 03:53:

quote:
Originally posted by tubularbills
if they have notthing to hide, they won't have a problem telling all this info.

honesty is the best policy, even when its just getting to know someone.

obviously honesty is a good policy, and i wouldn't have a problem telling someone the truth if they were that curious about my past... but the point i was trying to make is how deep into someone's past do some of you need to dig before you can say "ok this person meets my moral standards, now i can fall fully in love with them!"

Posted by RandomGirl on Jul-23-2008 03:54:

quote:
Originally posted by Beat Blog
If it was me, I wouldn't tell you because I'd be worried that you'd judge me and end the relationship, as you admitted doing in the past about 4 pages back in the thread!

This is why most guys are probably reticent to proffer their number, not because they're embarrassed/ashamed about their sex history.


If you wouldn't tell me because you were afraid I would dump you, then would you really want to be with someone like me to begin with?

I am very reasonable... I wont dump a guy right away if he has had a high number of partners, but I will evaluate it with everything else.

quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
I don't draw the line. I said I like to know everything (within reason)...that's just how I am. I prefer a partner who doesn't have a problem with that, because I wouldn't have a problem with them asking the same of me.

Again it just goes back to common values, and relationship goals, etc. It's an important part of intimacy for me. *shrug*


+1

Posted by RandomGirl on Jul-23-2008 04:51:

quote:
Originally posted by l�cid
obviously honesty is a good policy, and i wouldn't have a problem telling someone the truth if they were that curious about my past... but the point i was trying to make is how deep into someone's past do some of you need to dig before you can say "ok this person meets my moral standards, now i can fall fully in love with them!"


If I ask someone if they have been in jail, and they reply "yea, I was thrown into the drunk tank when I was in college", I will probably laugh and be like... haha good times.

If they say "I beat someone nearly to death one time", I will likely re-evaluate my interest in them.

Maybe it's because I have trust issues, but I want to know about a persons history so that I can make an informed guess on how they will likely be in the future.

I have met my fair share of guys who seemed amazing on the surface, but when you found out about their history, turns out they weren't such great people after all. People can be very deceptive, and if they want you to think well of them, they may mislead you in order to do that.

If someone doesn't want to be open and honest with me from the beginning regarding their past, then it just makes me think that they have something to hide, and ultimately, I don't want to be with someone I don't think I can trust.

Posted by Axer on Jul-23-2008 05:08:

Is too much sexual benefits a turnoff?


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