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Posted by *HaRRy* on May-27-2003 17:29:

Re: Re: Deep thought of the night

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Originally posted by Dumonde Trancer
dont be daft.

generally when you start cheating on someone is when you realise that you dont love them anymore and you should break up.

Posted by TiestoFanMatt on May-27-2003 19:48:

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Originally posted by partyprincess
Almost none of you guys that posted have any idea of what love is. If you love someone then you really don't WANT to cheat on them. You don't view other members of the opposite sex the same way that you used to. You don't look at a girl or guy on the street and go, wow she's hot, or damn he's so cute. You just view them all as people and not pay a lot of attention to them, kind of the way that most guys don't pay attention to other guys or visa versa. If you've been in love then you know what I'm talking about. It's not about restraining yourself from cheating if you're in love, its about never even thinking about it. So many marriages are going under these days because of misconceptions regarding the definition of love. My 2 cents...

So ur saying that if u love someone then if im walking down the street i wont look at girls and go "omg she is fucking hot???" im sorry but i find that hard to believe. I love my girlfriend, but if i see a HOT women walking down the street (incl milf women hehe) then i will check her out. I can look but dont touch. So either ur saying i dont love my girlfriend, or this is just something girls do, or simply ur the only one who feels this way

Another thing about cheating on someone. Just because u dont love someone, doesnt mean u will cheat on them. Even if i didnt love my g/f i wudnt cheat on them just because of the principles that i hold myself, but then thats just me, i know plenty of people who would, not tell their g/f and not feel an ounce of guilt!

Posted by davinox on May-27-2003 21:06:

Re: Deep thought of the night

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Originally posted by Orbax
Can you love someone and still cheat on them?

haha, very interesting question. yes you can, but its still not right.

Posted by Slylee on May-27-2003 22:47:

i know exactly what partyprincess is talking about. ever since i've been with my bf, i don't view the opposite sex the way i used to. i don't know why or how, but they just don't appeal to me because i'm in love with my boyfriend and no one compares to him. if i see a "cute" guy, i don't look at him and think, "damn he's hot" or try to make eye contact like i used to when i was single...my mind just doesn't work like that any more. my bf said he feels the same way. when we are walking together and i see an attractive girl, i assume he's going to look but he doesn't. it makes me feel good.

Posted by Orbax on May-28-2003 04:52:

not to get philosophical, but would you not say that the absence of desire (ie, not looking at a hotpants be it male or female) would be making us less human? (no im not drunk). I love women, seriously. They are such odd little creatures, with weird ass logic, and they make no sense. Getting to know women better has just made me look around, and ill stare at a girl walking down the street and try to imagine what she is thinking

or ill see a girl upbraiding a b/friend and smile at the logic she is using. women are friggin great, and I dont think that loving one should cancel out any appreciation of form or thought of others.

i dunno, what do you think?

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