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Originally posted by Yevat HAHAHAAH!!! my abuse rubs off on ppl! YES!!! I AM A VIRUS!!

haha ROFL. that is a good one

haha! you are so obviously in puberty!!! I sound like an old tarte right now..but all I can say is: wait two more years and it'll all be blown over!

and don't say you hate yer parents cuz you should be glad you still have them lad! there are a lot of teenagers your age who are a lot less ortunate! remember that next time!

and even if you think you know better...it is mostly your parents that know....they've been your age too, and over the years they learned what is right for ya...

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Originally posted by Dj Martijn ok part 3:- MY MUM HAS JUST EATEN BOTH PACKETS OF GIANT MINI EGGS WITHOUT TELLIN ME WITHOUT ASKIN AND IT'S JUST OK IS IT!?!!?!DIE U FAT OVERWEIGHT UNFIT BITCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I H8 U!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!GO SUCK UR IRONING AND NO IM NOT COMNG OFF THE INTERNET!!!!!!!!!!!!

lol!!
aahh i so remember this well...and theres no easy way to take it except to bitch and complain...but remembering that they are your parents and no matter what goes on...their always going to have the last say...but its how you deal with it that makes all the difference. remember that if you make their life easier...no matter how demeaning they make you feel...they will make your life easier by letting you leave...lol and i must admit..that punishment that your mother gave you was wrong...and you didnt say something that deserved that kind of punishment...but then again...she did hand that punishment down when she was angry...and people are angry, they dont look to the reprucussions of their actions as if they would if they wernt angry. i think if that does happen again...just take it for a day or two...or however long it takes for her to cool down. then talk to her...dont be mean, dont put her down because thats only going to piss her off. and at 16, and living under their roof, its their rules, no matter what you say, or how you dont like them. you have to make due with what you are given. and some people are given an easy time with their parents...and others, like yourself, have to walk apon eggshells everytime you say something...remember that, and watch what you say, even when you are angry, because even though they or her will hand down ubsene punishments...i still believe that you will have a chance if you at first just take it for what it is...no arguments...then go back a day later and talk it over calmly. this will show your parents that not only can you are growning up, and that you can have a calm serious conversation even though you are mad...but it helps them see that your maturing...even if you want to rip her a new asshole. so in all..just take it for what its worth...only let it bother you when your alone...or talkin with friends...and this will help your relationship...cuz she is treating you like a young child...and that just doesnt happen outta no where...and im not saying you act like one...im just saying that she sees you as one. you have to prove to her that your not...and these kind of things will most likely decrease as time and your proving your maturity continues. i hope this helps...and i hope things go alright for you lol its not easy being a kid...nor is it easy being a parent...lol i know this...

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Originally posted by Miss Proximus haha! you are so obviously in puberty!!!

how dare u suggst such a thing..i started puerty about 4 years ago and finished along time ago 2!!!i u met my mum u might understand then!

well, bean the TA shrink has the right of it.....You told your mom to "sod off" which is the first mistake you made in my opinion. I learnt my lesson that no matter how mad u get never tell your parents off. That just leads to what u go next..the slap in da head. You're mom should never had come out and say "get up you baby" but then parents do what parents want. You do need to show them you're mature, react in a calm way and they'll do the same. Anger builds upon itself and feeds off it. If you're angry and u say shit to your mom, she gets angry which gets u more angry..and so on...so next time, just walk away or react calmly. If your mom gets mad that you're walking away, say "I don't want to get into an argument with you...wait till we both calm down" that'll show her that you're mature enough to control your emotions. Thats what parents like to see.

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Originally posted by Dj Martijn how dare u suggst such a thing..i started puerty about 4 years ago and finished along time ago 2!!!i u met my mum u might understand then!

I find that hard to believe. At 12?? Most guys still think that girls are yucky at that age. Puberty doesn't mean only your voice changing. With parents, you just gotta suck it up. That's how it always is. Wait till you move out and that's where everything gets better.

I've moved out about 2 years ago..and even though I enjoy the freedom..I miss the part that my parents used to take care of everything (payments and stuff)..because I have a lot of problems with my landlord and my schoola and..in fact.. all the govermental institutes: they lose my letters, my applications..all o' dat! Makes me wish my parents could take care of it again!

When I said that everything gets better when you move out, I meant that everything gets better with your parents because then you realize how different it is when you gotta take care of your shit.

true princess...and it's also then that you start to really respect them for what they've taught you and what they've done for you

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Originally posted by Miss Proximus true princess...and it's also then that you start to really respect them for what they've taught you and what they've done for you

very true. the worst part is when you move back in for any reason and the old feeling return. Especially when they expect you to be home at nine and not go out. But I'm only back for the summer. Going back to school after.

yeah..tottally agree with you ladies! I was like 23 before I start to appreciate all that my parents did for me...Now...5 years later I have to utmost respect for them, and know that they did do everything they could do to steer me in the right direction. I just wish I listened to em more between the ages of 17-23, but now I am making up for it!

exactly total....the older you get the wiser you become to understanding why your parents did what they did. I was 15 and took the easy route and took off, been on my own since...but, i missed out on alot of shit cuz i had to mature fast and take on responsibility...

ya tru quotes peeps...if u move out things change...life gets easier in a way...start working by ur own, paying bills and shit..ur totally on ur own...i wanted 2 dat dis year but fuck it..im not going 2,if i wud i wud have 2 work full time and skool at once..its possible but i guess my skool grades wudn't be dat good and shit ...so DJ Martijn stay at ur home, obey dem lol ...u know wat i mean...hey i had da same situation as u...i sad FUCK OFF something like dat in my language, close 2 it and my mom felt really sorry and so did i when i realized it ...i know parents tend 2 piss u off in ne way, but ya as Phaze said u gotta show dem ur maturity...when they start bitching and shit, just ignore dem lol and say i dont have time 4 dis...hehehe well dats wat i do ...but hey it works and i dont speak with dem until my mom doesnt calm dow

From a 3rd person view, you knew that you'r Jehovas witness, and u know whats gona happen if you said anything wrong. besides, parents REALLY hate it when you swear at THEM! and plus u live in their house and eat their food (which most likely you dont pay anything for) but I'd say they are right, BUT you shouldnt of been grounded, just a slap or whatever they prefer would be sufficient

You wouldn't believe all the names I called my parents..I was a really difficult adolescent...really difficult...I used to really hate my mom, and the times I went to stay with my dad (I actually lived with my mom, but I went to my dad's one weekend in 2 weeks)..me and him would get into a fight! Once we had had a fight and my dad went to get some groceries and I just took my bike and hurried back to my mom haha! Imagine that! Ofcourse she made me go back and apologize haha
And you now..me and my mom still aren't really close..but it grows now..but I went on holiday (skiing) with ma b/f and ma parents..and after a week I got so annoyed by my mom...and then if we're apart again..I start to really miss her..it's really strange how this works...feelings and emotions... But I wouldn't wanna miss them..ever!

No matter what your age you should always respect your rents. Although getting grounded at the age of 16 sucks big time.

Sorry man!

Steve

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