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One of the elements of my upbringing that has had the most effect on me is my stereotype of the way a man should behave. There are few things I find more repulsive than a man who cannot control his emotions under ordinary circumstances... I's bad enough when women lose control but when men do it I just find it so contradictory of my definition of a man that its disgusting. Hence when I am confronted by a man getting angry over something trivial I usually respond at best by smiling politely and responding in a very calm tone... this makes the person yelling feel stupid and they will usually calm themselves and continue.

My mother is absolutely psychotic when it comes to yelling...
About 3 or 4 times a month she loses it on me for nothing (last time was because i wanted to go on holiday which i was paying for, but it can be about school or laundry, music, you name it) and screams for about 6 hours straight for maybe 2 or 3 days. I'm not joking, she will pick on every single aspect of my life and every little fuck up i've had and just blow it up into some huge thing and keep going on and on about it.
She'll yell for about 30 mins, take a 5 min break to think of what she wants to say next, starts yelling again for 30 mins, and so on and so forth. Joy.
And you can't escape her either. I've tried going to my room and closing the door, but she'll stand outside my door and yell or (if i haven't thought of locking the door) she'll come in there and yell at me while i'm lying on my bed reading or something.
She even follows me if i'm walking out of the house to refrain from saying something i would eventually regret (which unfortunately i end up saying anyways).
Sometimes i'll be on msn with my bf and the conversation is something like:

Him: Hey what's up?
Me: Oh not much, my mom's being a b**** and yelling at me again
Him: Oh...
[insert about 2 hrs of conversation here]
Him: She still yelling?
Me: Yup...



Parents!!!

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pussy

leave your asshole comments out of the thread.

some people have REALLY fucked up parents

I know what you mean, my dad freaks out over stupid things, like for example if someone finishes the orange juice in the fridge and doesn't replace it, so there's not a cool one... I know that's annoying, but its hardly worth yelling over.

you should all sue your parents for assault hehehe. that'll do the trick. then take the money you win and move out on your own...

It's Canada, you can't sue anyone for any amount of money as happens sometimes in the states. Our courts have much different and stupid laws and it takes forever to get cases settled by the courts.

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Originally posted by torontotrance It's Canada, you can't sue anyone for any amount of money as happens sometimes in the states. Our courts have much different and stupid laws and it takes forever to get cases settled by the courts.

ah yes...i forgot that we all leave in different countries for a moment hehehe...

Seriously some lawsuits take 10 yrs to settle in Canada.....the cost usually outweighs the benefits. Unless you are a part of the native groups suing the federal gov't for backpayments = 30-150Billion and that has been in the courts for at least a decade.

haha uve never been to my house even when theyre speaking to me theyre yelling..."ERIC WHAT THE FUCK HOW ARE YOU!?!??!?!?!?!?!"

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy haha uve never been to my house even when theyre speaking to me theyre yelling..."ERIC WHAT THE FUCK HOW ARE YOU!?!??!?!?!?!?!"

lol

whats interesting is that all our parents got this from their parents but they don�t realize it or refuse to admit it... its kinda retarded how the cycle goes around and around...chances are some of you are going to do the same to your kids unless you can see yourself doing it and consciously make the decision to stop

life sucks like that, but its good that you can change it

i dont blame them i was a problem child and before me they had my brother who never really broke them in...now he's a neuroscientist and im a construction worker...like fuck can u blame em? but they should have seen it from the age of 2 when i used to roll my tricycle down the driveway on to the street in front of cars....

yes, me actually....

my mom... holey shit. She yells about every thing it's so stuped. and she dose not know what she is talking about. we allways get in to fights about how i can't listen to music in the house and doumb shit and it gets alomost violent.
My mom dose this and i wont to know if its normal. whenever she gets thursty she has a beer, nothing els. is this normal?

PS Sorry for my bad spelling. i am in spechal ED and cant spell to save my life

lol, my family is italian, we yell about everything, simple dinner conversations can be heard by everybody on the block but i luv em all, never abusive yellin or hittin, but always loud.

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Originally posted by cammie lol, my family is italian, we yell about everything, simple dinner conversations can be heard by everybody on the block but i luv em all, never abusive yellin or hittin, but always loud.

thats awsome!

yelling for us cubans in something normal...more like talking loud...

Italian families kick ass....I'm italian...we're always yelling...Its crazy! There's always drama...someone's always one of us kids in trouble....and You don't get yelled at by just your parents...your aunt will call then your uncle then your cousin...then your aunt agian. I swear if someone does something wrong...we all know about it in like 10 minutes...and we all live in different places. We just need to get rid of my step dad...I can't handle his yelling...but the rest of the yelling is just funny as shit

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