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Everyone knows he's suggesting suicide.
DON'T DO IT! We're here for you man.
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| Originally posted by You aint Ninja Everyone knows he's suggesting suicide. DON'T DO IT! We're here for you man. |
well send him a letter 
he he
Anyway, if you have the guts to call him and you're just asking whether it's appropriate then def go for it. Even if he finds that a little aggresive you've got much more to gain than lose. You can also tell youre friends that you're intersted in that kid and that they (if they're closer to him than you i guess) hint him that you would respond positively to a call from him.
That's how I got hooked up with my g/f. I went to my bud to see a movie and she was there and we talked a bit but i didn't really have the nerve to ask her out. The next day I got a call from my bud saying that I really really should call her, and I did. Thank god I did!!!
We now just look back on that whole thing and laugh all about it...
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| Originally posted by Echo of Silence orbax = intelligent |
Prepare to be boarded.
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| Originally posted by MrSquirrel life would be so much easier for guys like myself if the ladies would be more forward. Of course, that would be assuming there is a single woman on earth who would have anything to do with me |
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| Originally posted by MrSquirrel Don't encourage him I must say life would be so much easier for guys like myself if the ladies would be more forward. Of course, that would be assuming there is a single woman on earth who would have anything to do with me MrS |
being quite shy myself,there's only one thing i can say : CALL CALL CALL CALL CALL CALL HIM !!! ASAP !!!!!!!
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| Originally posted by igottaknow I saw a hot lookin squirrel the other day, want her digits? |
The the girl:
Yeah. Do it. Now. All the reasons are good to do it, and since he's shy, I force you to call cause he aint gonna do it (im a shy guy, too.). Call that guy right away, no question to be asked. Call him now, and stop looking at this screen RIGHT NOW. By the way, your guy's number is 1-819-751-4419, if you forgot. 
To the others: send a letter? Are you refering to that guy asking for advice about sending or not a letter, the one with McDonalds stuff and comparing her to shit (IIRC (if i recall correctly))? Yeah, funny shit 
PS. Before someone flame me like "Wtf, writing your phone # on the net, are you fucking dumb???!", that number is a KFC restaurant.
make sure the guy isnt with another girl
GIVE HIM A CALL DO IT NOW. You DO NOT realize how much a guy would appreciate having that happen to him
I think the best way to show a guy you're interested in him, without being too forward, is to track him down and give him a blowjob
take the initiative. some guys are too shy (like i used to be) and for one reason or another just are reluctant to approach a girl they know is a sure thing, and in the end, everyone gets frustrated, and it all goes nowhere. so if you want him, go for him....but pace yourself too good luck - you two sound like a sure thing that is just waiting to happen~!
>JM<
K here it is.
In some ways I am a pimp
in other ways * an hyst a drunk man
basicallyy after first contact *me grabbing her boobs and her liking it* it is up to her. i have made it PHYSICALLY clear that I like you, if I Didnt like you, no cuddling/boob grabbage would have ocurred. So call my ass
MEN ARE MORE INSECURE THAN WOMEN when it comes to RELATIONSHIPS
we may think our bodies are GODS
but we dont think youd want to DATE US
men are WEAK
so are women
so lets all help each other instead of this pennant race of a game
Werd 
i've always had to make the first move, if you know the other person has interest in you, it's not a big deal. you gotta do what you gotta do D:
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| Originally posted by Aya Brea i've always had to make the first move, if you know the other person has interest in you, it's not a big deal. you gotta do what you gotta do D: |
I love how women talk about the "first move" as if they'll take charge after the guy makes the first move... but really what happens is that the girl waits for the guy to make the first move, the second move, the 3rd move... the 10th move... then when they're ABSOLUTELY POSITIVE that there is NO CHANCE WHATSOEVER of getting rejected, they'll make a move.
Well here's a newflash, you take that attitude and you'll end up dating nothing but assholes, so quit being a pussy (pardon my French) and get crackin'!
(wow, can't believe I'm this coherent when totally drunk)
just doooooooooooooooooooooo iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit
sometimes you just gotta seize life by the balls
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| Originally posted by Nosmo I think the best way to show a guy you're interested in him, without being too forward, is to track him down and give him a blowjob |
Re: girls making the first moves?
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| Originally posted by politicsofdancin ok..seems like this forum is well known for some advice..so here it goes: frankly, i'am a girl that follows the normal standards...girl waits for the guy to make the first move. here is the situation, my friends (which are a couple) are trying to set me up with this kid..i know him from high school. i don't really know him that well since he was a grade ahead of me. so anyways, this labor day, we all went out to our beach house down the shore. this kid and i clicked instantly...it was a really great night...nothing out of the ordinary happened (eg hooked up or anything). we basically were at each other's side the whole night at the club..we danced, had great conversations and even cuddled...i was very impressed that he respected me as a woman and didn't pushed me to hook up with him. anyways, that was that..now weeks later, my friends that are trying to hook me up with him are still trying..we had several attempted plans to hang out but never works out for some reason  something usually comes up and we end up not hanging out (the four of us) sooo...here i'am, sitting waiting!!!!!!! i'am contemplating if i should just be impulsive and ask my friend for his number and call him??? or just wait until the four of us will make up our damm minds and finally hang out again??????? i don't know what to do..and ooo, this kid is shy..my friends say so and i got the impression aswell...so maybe i should grab my imaginary balls and call him to hang out????? I NEED SOME ADVICE PRONTO!!!! yaya indy |
though i know what it feels like not wanting to come on too strongly and i myself am a chickenshit when it comes to guys, i really think that hed appreciate you asking him out. as everyone pointed out to me, its better to grab that window of oppurtunity and take the risk before the window closes and ull be feeling regret and self pity. good luck!!!
i think girls asking a guy out is damn sexy. you gotta feel good when ever someone asks you out. i've dated a lot of girls that have asked me out first...but that happens all the time when your a greek adonis hehehe
btw,
i want to know if you've called him yet politics...please post and let us know the outcome...
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| Originally posted by montie sometimes you just gotta seize life by the balls |
My 2 cents
Let me say this: girls making the first move. although thought to be somewhat different, awkward, whatever....it would make life a lot easier for us shy guys.....
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