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Originally posted by speedracer_mec ok she never actually dumped me she just said..she didnt know if she felt real love or friendship love she seemed confused... she called me today after the mess was calm i asked 2 questions. do u want to stay with me? do u want to resolve our problems? she said yes.... wut do i do? im goin over there tonite 90 mile drive... imma jam out to oakenfold sets pre2000 to make me feel better my best friend told me to handle it like this... tell her, "im not ur dad...i cant tell u wut to do or who to talk to..if u wanna work things out..its up to u."..."talk to him i dont care".... then he said for me to do this," call her less and less....and she will get whooped on me" place my firm stance....otherwise step out.. wut do i do!????

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Originally posted by INDY seriously, i think this is another patrick thread!!!!i think it is a bunch of crap...but if it's not, i can't even read the replies this idiot is saying... you are retarded...!!!!! i bet you anthing, she will say something sweet and nice and you will take her back....i see it coming from a weak individual like you...gEEsh...

omfg..didn't i tell you what this idiot would do???? drive 90 miles after his gf "supposedly" dumped him, now he thinks that she didn't coz she said soo and pluz she gave him herpes hahaha now he is going to back to her...i'am telling you , this guy is a puppet...guys like you deserves it...you ask for it. anyways.....i smell a bunch of crap here..I STILL THINK THIS IS ANOTHER PATRICK THREAD...IN THE LONG RUN HE WILL JUST SAY ...OOOOOOOO I GOTCHA..WATCH

Mec, you've committed 3 cardinal sins here:

1) You got the LJBF (Let's Just Be Friends) speech - yes, you got it, no matter how she sugar-coated it - and you didn't walk away.

2) You not only took her call after the LJBF, but told her you wanted to "work things out."

3) You made plans to drive 90 miles to see her, on less than 1 day's notice!

These things make you look completely and utterly desperate and whipped. When a girl gives you the LJBF, you give her the heave-ho. When you've just "broken up", you don't immediately start trying to get back together. And when you make plans to go see her, you definitely don't make it look like you're available 24/7 and never have other plans!!!

Incidentally, there's no such thing as "friendship love", buddy, anyone who says they "love you as a friend" doesn't know what the fuck love is. Listen carefully and clearly, she wants to dangle you by a thread while she fucks around with her ex boyfriend.

If you haven't left yet, though, never fear. You can still save yourself.

When you get to her place, you walk right in that door, take a seat, and tell her that you cannot continue to have a relationship with her if she's not over her ex yet. You tell her that you did not want to have this discussion over the phone, because that would be immature (which serves two purposes, it gives you a perfect excuse for driving all the way down there and makes her feel like the childish little shit that she is). You tell her that you appreciate her honesty about her ex boyfriend, but you're not going to play any games, and that if she hasn't moved on yet, then she's not ready for a relationship with you, and therefore you can no longer see each other.

Then no matter what happens, you walk out that door and go home. If she shows total apathy, you're better off anyway. If she freaks, then not to worry, she'll call you later on if/when she's worked out her priorities and realizes what sacrifices she has to make (i.e. not being a lying cheating bitch).

There is no other way. Hopefully you haven't already left yet. If you have, and you're catering to her every whim down there, then I'm sorry to say you're fucked and that this relationship will only lead you into more misery and STD's.

Good luck!

kick her in the head

you burry that lil cockaroach!!! all u got in this life is ur word and ur balls dont breakem for nobody!!!

Well she did leave you with a gift to remember her by.

The one that keeps on giving.

Sorry, that was a little harsh. But you need to just walk away and take yer valtrex. She sounds like she is up to no good to me.

MrS

weren't u the same guy asking whether u should let your girl go to the club w/ friends or not??????????????????????????????

man ur a sucker...i feel like a bigger sucker reading this too in some ways..wont say how...FUCK BITCHES FUCK BITCHES FUCK EM...they dont want to be treated like queens they want to be treated like the hoes they are...u go out there and u pimp that shit...slap her in the face a few times, pull her hai,r drive thru red lights and ull be alright

facial is the answer

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Originally posted by Shook1 weren't u the same guy asking whether u should let your girl go to the club w/ friends or not??????????????????????????????

let me play devil's advicate...

You're moving 90 miles away to attend college. You'll visit her couple a times a month on the weekends... So she's needs to deal with this situation for 4 yrs and hope by the time you graduate you haven't meet another girl and will come back home sweep her off her feet and marry her.

who's foolin who?

Drive there.

Then dump her.

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Originally posted by Swamper Drive there. Then dump her.

That's what I said!!

See, the pope knows his shizzit...

i say u drive there and act like ur gonna kill her..throw her in the trunk and then drive off in the middle of nowhere let her go and drive off...honk the horn saying "Ill give u a hint NOrth is that way" and point south

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy man ur a sucker...i feel like a bigger sucker reading this too in some ways..wont say how...FUCK BITCHES FUCK BITCHES FUCK EM...they dont want to be treated like queens they want to be treated like the hoes they are...u go out there and u pimp that shit...slap her in the face a few times, pull her hai,r drive thru red lights and ull be alright

Agreed 100%

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Originally posted by Swamper Drive there. Then dump her.

i think he'll cave if he tries to do that. be shouldnt take to her anymore anyway. sounds pretted whipped to me.

ok i drove over there and im bak


the next morning


i got there and this is wut happened..

i walked up to her apt. and told her to sit down...i told her wut exactly is going on here...she said she still talks to her ex...but nothing else.

i told her," im not ur dad and cant make u do shit"...i came here to pick up my vcr and shirts and let u move on....she broke down into tears. And then i walked out and left downstairs...she came down and called me bak and told me she will completely shut things off with her ex for the sake of us and our relationshIP.

HE HASNT BONED HER CUZ HE KNOWS SHE GOTS herpes. but just the fact she was talkin to him caused me to settle things...

so then she says this and im like wutever....and then we watched the red sox win and then went to go have sex all night

and the end..

so should i believe her in wut she said she is gooin to do...because how she acted when i was there/?

also my best friend said..to slowly call her less and less..so she can be on my leash...and come crawling to me


i know i know....yall think immm tha puppet...but i think its for a goood cause...cuz immma switch tha tables on her..

hah, your friend gives very very good advice, i was gonna post something earlier saying follow your friends advice instead of some of the dumb advice floating on these boards but was too lazy to, good thing you listened to your friend

i think you got a much better result then you would have gotten say if you confronted her or something like that, like some ppl were suggesting, listen to you friend next time too cause he knows his game.

koool

did you try the facial solution?

still think you should leaver her.

where do u thinkshe got the herpes? ill tell ya ,from her ex..so why dont u htink shes still fuckin him? shes fuckin bangnin the shit out of her right now saying that ur a crappy lay...if i were u id drive back down there make a quick stop find a dirty prostitute fuck her catch another disease then fuck ur gf... then shell fuck him and hes screwed too!! and u can go to him and say "i really enjoyed the herpes so i returned the favor by giving u aids." and laugh and walk away

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy where do u thinkshe got the herpes? ill tell ya ,from her ex..so why dont u htink shes still fuckin him? shes fuckin bangnin the shit out of her right now saying that ur a crappy lay...if i were u id drive back down there make a quick stop find a dirty prostitute fuck her catch another disease then fuck ur gf... then shell fuck him and hes screwed too!! and u can go to him and say "i really enjoyed the herpes so i returned the favor by giving u aids." and laugh and walk away

that is pretty fucked up dude. i doubt she knows where she got it. i dont really understand much about herpes but i am not sure if it is usually detected in tests on men. not really sure... but regardless it could be from her ex or from this guy or from some other guy. we really dont know enough about their situation to be making judgements like that.

but heres the beauty of my plan...he'll be so pissed off he'll try and do the same thing back to him like "he wants to play dirty we'll play dirty" and then he'll go looking for a new disease...then fuck his gf..now u cant go fuck ur gf anymore....or else u lose...ull be winning 2-3 they have 3 diseases and u have 2!!! i cant believe i thought of this ill be back im gonna get mes a hooker!

oh mna then u bring ur gf on the jerry springer show..tell her its a marrisge proposal episode.. but its really a my girlfriend was once a man episode...(make sure all her friends are watching it)oh man !! this is gold!! take notes !

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy but heres the beauty of my plan...he'll be so pissed off he'll try and do the same thing back to him like "he wants to play dirty we'll play dirty" and then he'll go looking for a new disease...then fuck his gf..now u cant go fuck ur gf anymore....or else u lose...ull be winning 2-3 they have 3 diseases and u have 2!!! i cant believe i thought of this ill be back im gonna get mes a hooker!

hahahaha that's a good one!!!
that will learn them!!!

next time as soon as you start to worry about it also after you had good talks then just drop your relation cause in a good relation are no doubts. and then ur just waisting time on it

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