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Originally posted by MERiDiAN5i2 penetration is the physical aspect. sex is more about emotion than physics to women. women tend to get off more on power and control than physics... atleast the vast majority of (american) women. nothing excites a girl like the feeling of having control over a powerful (to her) man.

*sigh*

Yes, just suck up to women and make sure they know they're in control... then you're guaranteed to get results.

Re: Are females attracted to the male body/face?

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Originally posted by teknoking Obviously any guy wants to screw a hot girl... but do the girls care who theyre screwing? or is it just the feeling of penetration that matters to them??

IF that were true we'd all be screwing the homeless bums and crackadicts on Yonge!

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Originally posted by DigiNut *sigh* Yes, just suck up to women and make sure they know they're in control... then you're guaranteed to get results.

I agree partly with this, but in my experience it is best to not totally suck up to a girl. Alot of girls like a guy who doesn't show that he really likes them. I know alot of girls that like guys who treat them like shit and girls who drop guys once they start treating them very well....

hmmm.. that'd be fine with me. a hot chick can tie me up and bang me silly any day (as long as it's the right chick.. and i controll the rest of my time... completely and totally)

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Originally posted by MERiDiAN5i2 penetration is the physical aspect. sex is more about emotion than physics to women. women tend to get off more on power and control than physics... atleast the vast majority of (american) women. nothing excites a girl like the feeling of having control over a powerful (to her) man.

A lot of people I'm friends with like it when the man is in control so I think it works both ways!

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Originally posted by teknoking Obviously any guy wants to screw a hot girl... but do the girls care who theyre screwing? or is it just the feeling of penetration that matters to them??

It depends on how shallow you are. It also depends on if we just want to fuck or have more then that.

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Originally posted by DigiNut Oh, and I should add, being a "nice smart boy" isn't the type of personality that's going to do that. Hate to burst anyone's bubble there.

well i'm gonna bust your bubble by letting you know that the only kind of female a guy is going to attract by playing the whole asshole/hard to get role is an insecure and shallow girl (great for one night stands and things of that nature). real women want a man with brains and a big heart who will be good to them without turning into a doormat. it's all about doing things in moderation to attract the opposite sex. eventually (and hopefully), women grow out of the asshole attraction. i'm guilty of it too....but only when i was in high school and shortly thereafter. moral of my story is that real women like "nice guys" and they don't always finish last...at least not with me.

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Originally posted by Slylee the only kind of female a guy is going to attract by playing the whole asshole/hard to get role is an insecure and shallow girl (great for one night stands and things of that nature).

FUCKIN EH!!!!!!!!!

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Originally posted by Slylee ...who will be good to them without turning into a doormat.

That's the key! I never said being an asshole was a good thing, it's especially bad when someone tries to fake it. Being a doormat, on the other hand, is a lot worse.

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it's all about doing things in moderation to attract the opposite sex.

You said it - moderation!

I think we all know what I mean by the "nice smart boy" personality. "I study hard, I get good grades, I'm intelligent, I'm humble, I don't womanize, I always compliment, I don't push sex, blah blah blah..." come on now girls, you know that's gonna be a huge turnoff.

Anyway guys, just make sure you get the correct "translation" when women say they like nice guys - they don't want to be treated like crap, obviously, but they don't want to be idolized either. Don't be an asshole, but don't be a doormat. Just treat 'em like you'd treat anyone else you respect.

And take care of yourselves... seriously, women and men, there's no excuse for being lazy, fat, and smelly. Don't kid yourselves, looks - and the way you present yourself - do matter, bigtime.

But in the end are the games really worth it? Aren't we all just lookin for someone to spend the rest of our lives with? I kindda gave up on 1 night stands cause they don't lead anywhere and even though I'm only 23 I'm getting pretty antsy about finding someone who'll love me even when I don't shave my legs or my pits. So I guess it all depends on what you're looking for in life.

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Originally posted by Mrs.Spice But in the end are the games really worth it? Aren't we all just lookin for someone to spend the rest of our lives with? I kindda gave up on 1 night stands cause they don't lead anywhere and even though I'm only 23 I'm getting pretty antsy about finding someone who'll love me even when I don't shave my legs or my pits. So I guess it all depends on what you're looking for in life.

i find female body hair sexy...ive been looking for u

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Originally posted by Mrs.Spice But in the end are the games really worth it? Aren't we all just lookin for someone to spend the rest of our lives with? I kindda gave up on 1 night stands cause they don't lead anywhere and even though I'm only 23 I'm getting pretty antsy about finding someone who'll love me even when I don't shave my legs or my pits. So I guess it all depends on what you're looking for in life.

Well, women's attitudes do change when they get older. What were you like when you were say, 21? 18? Around 25 is usually the age when women and men alike are more willing to "settle down", but sometimes it takes 'til 30 or later. And maybe some of you think I can't know this because I'm only 20, but I've spent most of my life around older people, including but not limited to my 3 siblings all over 10 years older, so I know what happens.

As a general rule, the games are supposed to stop when the relationship gets steady... i.e. when both people move past that "infatuation" stage. That takes at least a few months, then you're in that comfort zone. Before then, though, it is a game whether you like it or not, and choosing not to play is as good as standing in the corner and watching the other team (i.e. the other guys) win.

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Originally posted by Mrs.Spice But in the end are the games really worth it? Aren't we all just lookin for someone to spend the rest of our lives with? I kindda gave up on 1 night stands cause they don't lead anywhere and even though I'm only 23 I'm getting pretty antsy about finding someone who'll love me even when I don't shave my legs or my pits. So I guess it all depends on what you're looking for in life.

i know this might sound shallow, but getting to that comfort zone where u think it's ok if u don't shave your legs or pits and start to "let yourself go", is the reason for the high divorce rate. it's important to keep things alive no matter how long you've been together in my opinion. of course, it should be ok to have morning breath and let your man see you without your "face" on, but the key word is "moderation". i am really big on being comfortable with a guy, but i mean more mentally comfortable than physically.

i also think it's important to maintain a healthy connection to that person as well. i'm a big fan of married couples who go on vacation (from each other) like once a year. i knew a few women who still go on a cruise every summer with their girlfriends from college even though they are married. their husbands also take a trip with the guys to go golfing or whatever older married men do (the ones who don't screw their secretaries). i think that's awesome. it gives you a chance to wind down and actually miss each other.

i don't really consier all of that "games". playing games would be like trying to make someone jealous or lying about shit to make yourself look cool. we're talking about loving yourself before you love someone else and how that can be an obvious thing and make you more attractive.

I say under 30 is when things are more about physical looks for alot of people. Ive seen alot of people who dont really care about looks and focus more on personality and someone who they could be serious to settle down with.

At my age im more about looks and ect. No lie it does feel good when you have an attractive girlfriend and im sure its the same the other way around with the girls out there. Its more of a mental thing than anything. Personality has to go a long with looks IMO. Like stated above there are those girls that like guys more when treated like an asshole but then again, once someone else comes along that is nice and has better looks (to them) there gone. Thats why you have to always treat a girl good and girls visa versa, if your going to be an asshole be an asshole when they act up .

JaY

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Originally posted by Slylee i know this might sound shallow, but getting to that comfort zone where u think it's ok if u don't shave your legs or pits and start to "let yourself go", is the reason for the high divorce rate. it's important to keep things alive no matter how long you've been together in my opinion. of course, it should be ok to have morning breath and let your man see you without your "face" on, but the key word is "moderation". i am really big on being comfortable with a guy, but i mean more mentally comfortable than physically. i also think it's important to maintain a healthy connection to that person as well. i'm a big fan of married couples who go on vacation (from each other) like once a year. i knew a few women who still go on a cruise every summer with their girlfriends from college even though they are married. their husbands also take a trip with the guys to go golfing or whatever older married men do (the ones who don't screw their secretaries). i think that's awesome. it gives you a chance to wind down and actually miss each other. i don't really consier all of that "games". playing games would be like trying to make someone jealous or lying about shit to make yourself look cool. we're talking about loving yourself before you love someone else and how that can be an obvious thing and make you more attractive.

I disagree. If a man really loves his wife then he'll find her sexy all the time, including those couples times a month when she doesn't shave. And how come you're trying to endorse this whole take a trip away from ----- thing? I was with my fiance for 3 years before he passed on and we couldn't get enough of each other. It totally depends on the people who r involved in the situation. Why would you want time away from your wife I don't get it!

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Originally posted by Mrs.Spice I disagree. If a man really loves his wife then he'll find her sexy all the time, including those couples times a month when she doesn't shave. And how come you're trying to endorse this whole take a trip away from ----- thing? I was with my fiance for 3 years before he passed on and we couldn't get enough of each other. It totally depends on the people who r involved in the situation. Why would you want time away from your wife I don't get it!

I'm with Slylee on this one. Relationships require maintaining, and some of that involves not letting yourself go, and continuing to put an effort into your appearance for your partner.

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Originally posted by astroboy I'm with Slylee on this one. Relationships require maintaining, and some of that involves not letting yourself go, and continuing to put an effort into your appearance for your partner.

what does not shaving (i'm talking about a little non visible stubble) for a few days a month have to do with letting yourself go? I always worse sexy clothes and makeup for my fiance, not all the time, but a lot of the time ya I did. I think it's all about balance. Do you really want some girl being prim and perfect all the time? If she's perfect all the time then you'll never appreciate the times she loooks really hot.

looks have some part in it too!! a major part i think ...if he has looks+personality+a great body= OMFGHI2U FROM ME!!!!!! and buttsekz lol but if he only has looks then umm i dunno maybe

Oh and whats up with guys who get comfortable really fast and fart and belch? That's a big pet peeve of mine. You guys can't tell me that you all look perfect and cleanshaven for your gfs 24/7 (I'm talking about serious relationships here ie living together).

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Originally posted by Swamper I'm one ugly dude but, my personality saves me.

Same here lol

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Originally posted by Mrs.Spice Oh and whats up with guys who get comfortable really fast and fart and belch? That's a big pet peeve of mine. You guys can't tell me that you all look perfect and cleanshaven for your gfs 24/7 (I'm talking about serious relationships here ie living together).

you just made a perfect example of what i was talking about...lol


and i know i didn't specify, but the whole vacation thingy was pertaining to older couples who have been together for years and have kids...etc. (the women i said i knew that did that are actually friends of my mom's).

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Originally posted by Mrs.Spice what does not shaving (i'm talking about a little non visible stubble) for a few days a month have to do with letting yourself go? I always worse sexy clothes and makeup for my fiance, not all the time, but a lot of the time ya I did. I think it's all about balance. Do you really want some girl being prim and perfect all the time? If she's perfect all the time then you'll never appreciate the times she loooks really hot.

Yeah i was being more general, not leg-shaving specifically. Heck, I'm so oblivious I probably wouldn't notice if a girl didn't shave for a week...

whats up with guys doing this? whats up with guys doing that?


dumb ****s...we do what we want when we want..all u can do abt it is make us a sandwhich suck our nuts and not talk to much

Personallity......is bs Im nice, funny, have gr8 persoanallity but it dont help at all cuz im a lil chuba, bit ugly too. lol(im not disgusting tho)If u dont look good to begin with. Its hard as hell to find anyone.

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy whats up with guys doing this? whats up with guys doing that? dumb ****s...we do what we want when we want..all u can do abt it is make us a sandwhich suck our nuts and not talk to much

I'm sure the women are leaping at you eh?

-Actually Clinton and Ahnult have the same attitude, and look where they are lol!

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