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Posted by UglyDave on Oct-20-2003 21:15:

quote:
Originally posted by DigiNut Wait too long and you'll get on her just friends list.


i'd love to burn all those just friends lists!!


Posted by DigiNut on Oct-20-2003 22:17:

quote:
Originally posted by UglyDave
i'd love to burn all those just friends lists!!

No need to burn 'em if you never get on 'em.

Seriously, you ask her out now, you know instantly whether or not she's interested. You wait 3 months, she's likely to lose any interest she originally had.

I think even the ladies will tell you that there's only so much of your "personality" she can see that's going to make her more attracted to you. The gibberish that comes out of your mouth (no offense, but guys do talk gibberish to girls they're interested in) doesn't have much bearing on it... it's more the way you carry yourself, the way you look at her, the way you smile, etc... and she'll see those things almost instantly, so there's no use in making them stale by waiting it out.

Go ahead and ask a girl (one you're comfortable talking to) what interests her in a guy. I guarantee you you'll get a few that say "the eyes", "the way he dresses", "the way he walks", etc... believe me Dave, she knows you, she's studied you and already made her decision! Time to find out what that decision was!


Posted by LKD on Oct-21-2003 00:25:

quote:
Originally posted by UglyDave
Mornin Mel! hope you had a good weekend!

Her name's also Melissa


my sister's name is Melissa as well


Posted by LKD on Oct-21-2003 00:26:

quote:
Originally posted by wienerschnitzel
ask her if she wants to practice mouth to mouth recesitation at your house after school.


reminds me of the time i tried that and then dropped the class i was in cos of the concequences


Posted by bassaholix on Oct-21-2003 03:45:

The politix of ur little problem is easy...

UR NOT PUTTING ANY INPUT!

Lets talk ok... have you got her?

NO

have you got anything to lose?

NO

U catching on...?

LOL just walk up to her and say 'Hi'

If you're shy as fuck then wats the use on living... ?

You need to (goes to anyone else out there) GET UR ASS UP AND SAY THIS IS THE DAY!!!

LOL i dun't mean to preach but things don't get done unless you do sumthing!

my 2c


Posted by Photo_bot_2k1 on Oct-21-2003 04:56:

i cant beleive this thread went three whole pages with no one saying
PICS OR STFU


Posted by LKD on Oct-21-2003 11:37:

quote:
Originally posted by Photo_bot_2k1
i cant beleive this thread went three whole pages with no one saying
PICS OR STFU


i thought i read someone post with it thats why i didnt say nothin


Posted by butterfly on Oct-21-2003 12:23:

hey dave did you see her again yet?


Posted by UglyDave on Oct-21-2003 13:32:

quote:
Originally posted by bassaholix
The politix of ur little problem is easy...

UR NOT PUTTING ANY INPUT!

Lets talk ok... have you got her?

NO

have you got anything to lose?

NO

U catching on...?

LOL just walk up to her and say 'Hi'

If you're shy as fuck then wats the use on living... ?

You need to (goes to anyone else out there) GET UR ASS UP AND SAY THIS IS THE DAY!!!

LOL i dun't mean to preach but things don't get done unless you do sumthing!

my 2c


chill out dude, i havn't even seen her since this thread started!


Posted by UglyDave on Oct-21-2003 13:35:

quote:
Originally posted by butterfly
hey dave did you see her again yet?


not yet mel, but i'm supposed to be in a class later!


Posted by butterfly on Oct-21-2003 13:40:

quote:
Originally posted by UglyDave
not yet mel, but i'm supposed to be in a class later!


good good. i think you should make it a goal to have a conversation with her today and see if she wants to get coffee or something or to study together. something outside of class you know?


Posted by igottaknow on Oct-21-2003 13:42:

Why don't you write her a letter?


Posted by INDY on Oct-21-2003 13:44:

quote:
Originally posted by igottaknow
Why don't you write her a letter?



LMFAO ...please do..


Posted by UglyDave on Oct-21-2003 13:51:

quote:
Originally posted by politicsofdancin
LMFAO ...please do..


done!












not

who knows.. she might think it's romantic!


Posted by INDY on Oct-21-2003 13:54:

quote:
Originally posted by UglyDave
done!













not

who knows.. she might think it's romantic!


OO c'mon..you poo!!!! and when your write that letter...your pretend name would be partrick ok????? GOO !!!!


Posted by butterfly on Oct-21-2003 13:58:

quote:
Originally posted by UglyDave
done!

not

who knows.. she might think it's romantic!


oh please dont... if there is anything we have learned from TA, it's never write a letter to someone you want. and furthermore dont post about it.

i try to keep all my psychotic relationship issues to emails and pms rather than letters.


Posted by DigiNut on Oct-21-2003 14:25:

quote:
Originally posted by butterfly
i try to keep all my psychotic relationship issues to emails and pms rather than letters.

Okay, now you're just teasing.

Post 'em!


Posted by butterfly on Oct-21-2003 14:32:

quote:
Originally posted by DigiNut
Okay, now you're just teasing.

Post 'em!


i cant.... some of them are entertaining but they are irrelevant since the one issue is long since resolved and the other one, as much as i hate the guy, we agreed that we wouldnt tell others things we had confided in private. i just hope he told his new gf how he likes to fantasize about other women when he masterbates (i.e. her when he was with me and me when he was with her) what a winner.


Posted by DigiNut on Oct-21-2003 14:37:

quote:
Originally posted by butterfly
i just hope he told his new gf how he likes to fantasize about other women when he masterbates (i.e. her when he was with me and me when he was with her) what a winner.


That's hilarious! Tell us more!


Posted by butterfly on Oct-21-2003 14:40:

quote:
Originally posted by DigiNut

That's hilarious! Tell us more!


atually i posted a thread on it months ago. i was very insulted that he told me that when we dates a girl he never fantasizes about her when he masterbates. and i was really pissed that it was this other girl that he left me for that he had been thinking about and then he told me that he thought about me now that he was dating her. it was so fucked up. in one conversation he started talking about our sex life and how good it was one night when he was waiting for her to come home. i was pissed, obviously, and stopped talking to him for a while...


Posted by DigiNut on Oct-21-2003 14:42:

quote:
Originally posted by butterfly
atually i posted a thread on it months ago. i was very insulted that he told me that when we dates a girl he never fantasizes about her when he masterbates. and i was really pissed that it was this other girl that he left me for that he had been thinking about and then he told me that he thought about me now that he was dating her. it was so fucked up. in one conversation he started talking about our sex life and how good it was one night when he was waiting for her to come home. i was pissed, obviously, and stopped talking to him for a while...

k this isn't a slant on you but where do you find guys like this? The DeVry institute?


Posted by butterfly on Oct-21-2003 14:43:

quote:
Originally posted by DigiNut
k this isn't a slant on you but where do you find guys like this? The DeVry institute?


yeah i dunno. frankly, i now realize i am far better off without that asshole.
and in answer to your question, he is an accountant from long island.


Posted by igottaknow on Oct-21-2003 14:44:

quote:
Originally posted by butterfly
i try to keep all my psychotic relationship issues to emails and pms rather than letters.

omg me2


Posted by DigiNut on Oct-21-2003 14:58:

quote:
Originally posted by butterfly
and in answer to your question, he is an accountant from long island.

Well, the accountant part explains a little... (j/k)

Anyway, back to the topic: seems that even those of us most passionate about having balls can pull the occasional boner. There's this very cute girl in my night class (not the hottest in there, mind you, but she's got that innocent look about her), and we wrote an exam yesterday; she handed hers in like 30 seconds after I did (which is a coincidence in itself since it's a 3 hour exam and I left after 2), and took off just ahead of me (I was taking my time walking out of there, guess she was in a hurry, ha ha), and I didn't say anything. About halfway to my car I realize, DAMMIT, that was her! I stopped kicking myself after a few minutes, but yeesh, there ain't any clearer sign than what she gave me...

Exams do weird things to ya, folks. I think my brain was still off in la-la land and I was basically sleepwalking out the door until the rain hit me outside.

So ya, we all do stupid things! But just as I will be chatting her up next time I see her (which is a week from now), none of you guys (especially you Dave) should wait longer than you need to!


Posted by butterfly on Oct-21-2003 15:02:

quote:
Originally posted by DigiNut
Well, the accountant part explains a little... (j/k)

Anyway, back to the topic: seems that even those of us most passionate about having balls can pull the occasional boner. There's this very cute girl in my night class (not the hottest in there, mind you, but she's got that innocent look about her), and we wrote an exam yesterday; she handed hers in like 30 seconds after I did (which is a coincidence in itself since it's a 3 hour exam and I left after 2), and took off just ahead of me (I was taking my time walking out of there, guess she was in a hurry, ha ha), and I didn't say anything. About halfway to my car I realize, DAMMIT, that was her! I stopped kicking myself after a few minutes, but yeesh, there ain't any clearer sign than what she gave me...

Exams do weird things to ya, folks. I think my brain was still off in la-la land and I was basically sleepwalking out the door until the rain hit me outside.

So ya, we all do stupid things! But just as I will be chatting her up next time I see her (which is a week from now), none of you guys (especially you Dave) should wait longer than you need to!


yeah that is quite a missed opportunity there.


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