Do u have Friends who don't appreciate u..??

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Posted by butterfly on Nov-21-2003 18:05:

you are a nice person. i think that is good. but you are being walked over. you need to learn to say no cause your friends are assholes. i would also recommend finding new friends but that isnt always simple so for now you should just learn to say no.

Posted by Vlad on Nov-21-2003 18:05:

Every single one that I have ever met except for one.

Ive been through 2 bunches of friends and both bunches of friends kinda made it known that I wasnt wanted around anymore. I dont know what I ever did to any of them - I guess thats how it usually is.

Posted by butterfly on Nov-21-2003 18:07:

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Originally posted by Vlad
Every single one that I have ever met except for one.

Ive been through 2 bunches of friends and both bunches of friends kinda made it known that I wasnt wanted around anymore. I dont know what I ever did to any of them - I guess thats how it usually is.

ask them. if they dont want you around there has to be a reason. maybe you can learn from it and become a better person.

Posted by niteshayde on Nov-21-2003 20:32:

friends that don't appreciate me? no...because i don't refer to those kind of people as my friends.

Posted by Sphynx on Nov-21-2003 20:45:

As i have got older I decided to surround myself with ppl who I like to be around, the others can go and FUCK themselves. I have no time 4 users and abusers!

For that reason I have only a handful of friends BUT I know that those ones will help me out whenever, whatever! And I the same with them.

Posted by St�phanie on Nov-21-2003 20:49:

ALWAYS stand up for yourself and ALWAYS think of yourself first because no one else will...its the truth

Posted by KarenLuvs2Party on Nov-22-2003 02:37:

Re: Re: Do u have Friends who don't appreciate u..??

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Originally posted by RachUCF1001
Im not friends with many girls for the simple fact that 9/10 of them are shady bitches/catty/out for themselves/follow the crowd... I could go on and on but you know what I mean!

I totally feel you on that! I tend to get along better with guys..but just recently.. a guy friend of mine of 3 years declared his feelings for me and I told him I didn't see him like that, and BAM! He just got upset and never wanted to speak to me ever!

Thanks for everyone's feedback. I AM just too nice. It's sad when your own BOSS says your too nice! I have always been like this my whole life. Hopefully I'll make some gradual changes. I'm just one of those people who feel totally horrible about themselves if they can't help a friend out.

But yeah, it'd be nice if I lived close to some of you people. Maybe there might be some So Cal people who might wanna hang!

Posted by smokeape on Nov-22-2003 03:15:

I'm a professional asshole. In my line of work in the military, it's kinda necessary because of all the testosterone and machismo. Calling someone nice in this environment is like...an insult. No wonder we have such a hard time dealing with compliments.

Posted by Dj-Gingi on Nov-23-2003 20:06:

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Originally posted by KarenLuvs2Party
I totally feel you on that! I tend to get along better with guys..but just recently.. a guy friend of mine of 3 years declared his feelings for me and I told him I didn't see him like that, and BAM! He just got upset and never wanted to speak to me ever!

Thanks for everyone's feedback. I AM just too nice. It's sad when your own BOSS says your too nice! I have always been like this my whole life. Hopefully I'll make some gradual changes. I'm just one of those people who feel totally horrible about themselves if they can't help a friend out.

But yeah, it'd be nice if I lived close to some of you people. Maybe there might be some So Cal people who might wanna hang!

dont make gradual changes
just always look at the positive things in ur life, and urself
ur a good person, and u shouldnt change that, good things will come to u dont worry, just try to make the best of it for now... i am also in this situation in life where im always calling up my friends and they never call me anymore, so i just stopped now and i dunno what to do because i have like 2 buddies to chill with, but im just telling u, dont change to satisfy ur friends, tell them up front whats there problem, i know ur probebly thinking u cant get rid of them because then u have to find new friends and its too late for that, thats the kind of situation im in, but i geuss were both stuck there, so anyways thats all i got to say,

peace

Posted by Chris Crossland on Nov-23-2003 20:13:

There is this one dude he is like my friend kinda i think he uses me to play Socom II bastard i cut him off

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