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Posted by bluE_Neon on Jul-26-2001 01:16:

hey Ksiezniczko masz kolegow i kolezanki tu poto ty jestes i nikt ciebie tu nie bedzie znizal

Posted by Mark on Jul-26-2001 01:17:

all i have to say is this...

quote:

If someone betrays you once, it is their fault
If someone betrays you twice, it is your fault

Posted by Cru54d3r on Jul-26-2001 01:20:

Basically we are not biased

Crusader

Posted by StereoPrincess on Jul-26-2001 01:20:

quote:
Originally posted by bluE_Neon
hey Ksiezniczko masz kolegow i kolezanki tu poto ty jestes i nikt ciebie tu nie bedzie znizal

thanks dude.

hey turboGS-R
that's a nice quote.

Posted by Cru54d3r on Jul-26-2001 01:21:

R U polish princess??

Crusader

Posted by StereoPrincess on Jul-26-2001 01:29:

quote:
Originally posted by Cru5ad3r
R U polish princess??

Crusader

i wish!!

then i would be treated like royalty!!

Posted by Cru54d3r on Jul-26-2001 01:31:

Soo (now its ur turn), how come u know polish??

Crusader

Posted by theeyesofdarkness on Jul-26-2001 01:33:

quote:
Originally posted by TurboGS-R
all i have to say is this...
If someone betrays you once, it is their fault
If someone betrays you twice, it is your fault

i agree 1000000000000000%

Posted by StereoPrincess on Jul-26-2001 01:33:

no no
i am polish but i thought you asked if i was a polish princess!!! hehehe.
yeah but i am polish

Posted by SmackdowN on Jul-26-2001 01:37:

I have been cheated on before and I think that it ruined me because now I have the player syndrome and I cheat on girlfriends with no remorse. I don't know what it is but I don't think that I can not cheat on someone no matter how I feel for them. /me will need to be seeking help soon, hehe I'm only 19 though.

Posted by cdn_trance_boy on Jul-26-2001 01:38:

Sweet quote

Nice quote Turbo sooo true.

Right to the point. Far too many people continue to get abused for longer then they should in relationships cause they hold on to good memories of times past, they refuse to see the reality of there relationship in the present.

Some times the right thing to do is the hardest thing to do.

Sorry to sound like such a cynic.

StereoPrincess I hope everthing works out for ya

Cheers

Posted by StereoPrincess on Jul-26-2001 01:38:

quote:
Originally posted by SmackdowN
I have been cheated on before and I think that it ruined me because now I have the player syndrome and I cheat on girlfriends with no remorse. I don't know what it is but I don't think that I can not cheat on someone no matter how I feel for them. /me will need to be seeking help soon, hehe I'm only 19 though.

Oh my god!! that actually happens?? what if it happens to me?? man, this sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by bluE_Neon on Jul-26-2001 01:42:

Re: Sweet quote

quote:
Originally posted by cdn_trance_boy
Nice quote Turbo sooo true.

Right to the point. Far too many people continue to get abused for longer then they should in relationships cause they hold on to good memories of times past, they refuse to see the reality of there relationship in the present.

Some times the right thing to do is the hardest thing to do.

Sorry to sound like such a cynic.

StereoPrincess I hope everthing works out for ya

Cheers

yup yup true dat man

Posted by j_spot on Jul-26-2001 01:43:

my take on cheating...when u r young, its inevitable. Hell..lets do a tally here

GF1 Cheated on her with GF2-Broke up w/her for GF2
GF2 Cheated on her with Fling1(I didnt know I did until I was told so) stayed together for 2.5 years, some of it long distance
GF3 Cheated on her with GF4-Broke up w/her for GF4
GF4 Cheated on her with a Fling2-Got dumped for some other guy
GF5 Didnt cheat on her..only lasted 1 month
GF6 Cheated on her with 3 different girls...multiple times. Got cheated on once, 4 days into it. Dated 3 times for a close to 2 years
GF7 didnt cheat on her, and technically havent broken up yet...smeh
GF8 Didnt cheat on her, but got cheated on

m still single

Most guys I know are the same. Screw the its genetics..I cant help myself, I need to procreate argument. Guys my age just cant stay in a serious relationship, if there is a half decent offer, and a chance to not get caught, tell me what guy is gonna say no. Sadly mosy guys will say yes.

Now Stere Princess I dont know your situation, but if he cheated on you, youve done nothing wrong. And if youve cheated on him, and now you feel guilty as hell..its all natural. Each and every time I cheated I feel HORRIBLE afterwards...like, Puking my guts out bad. But in every case cept one I came clean, and ended it, or patched things up and kept going.

Christ, what am I saying..I dunno..If u cheated on him, dont let him make u feel bad for the sake of it. Feel bad for yourself if u regret it. If u dont regret it..well thats another story. If he cheated on you, dont make him feel bad for the sake of it..he SHOULD feel bad as is.

hope that helps
AND PLZ dont abuse me for being the most unfaithfull guy out there

-edit-
DAMN I wrote this after the question are you polish princess?...now its like 10 posts later!!!!

Posted by SmackdowN on Jul-26-2001 01:48:

quote:
Originally posted by j_spot
my take on cheating...when u r young, its inevitable. Hell..lets do a tally here

GF1 Cheated on her with GF2-Broke up w/her for GF2
GF2 Cheated on her with Fling1(I didnt know I did until I was told so) stayed together for 2.5 years, some of it long distance
GF3 Cheated on her with GF4-Broke up w/her for GF4
GF4 Cheated on her with a Fling2-Got dumped for some other guy
GF5 Didnt cheat on her..only lasted 1 month
GF6 Cheated on her with 3 different girls...multiple times. Got cheated on once, 4 days into it. Dated 3 times for a close to 2 years
GF7 didnt cheat on her, and technically havent broken up yet...smeh
GF8 Didnt cheat on her, but got cheated on

haha that sounds exactly like my cycle :P. But on gf 3 it was cheat on her the day we started going out, cheat again numerous times, cheat on her with my last gf, then we finally broke up an I stayed with the last girl that I cheated on her with. HAHAH and I have recently gone through a partial break up and have already managed to cheat on her lol @ me. She still thinks all is good, the worst is like I said I feel no remorse.

Posted by bluE_Neon on Jul-26-2001 01:49:

quote:
Originally posted by j_spot

AND PLZ dont abuse me for being the most unfaithfull guy out there

hehehe dam u j_spot i was gonna say something about dat

Posted by j_spot on Jul-26-2001 01:50:

See..I DO feel bad, for a while @ least, then I realise that im 19 and that the relationship means nothing in the long run. Right now im still gettin some on the side from one of the 3 from girl #6. But she doesnt wanna date..beside, shes leaving for illinios on the 2nd

Posted by SmackdowN on Jul-26-2001 01:56:

HAHAHAH man j_spot we got a lot in common hahah, I'm gettin some right now on the side too right now til I move to las vegas in september heheheehhe I love it, no commitment, I don't think I ever want a relationship again. Been in 4 for the past 4 years, all went nowhere so I'm really starting to lose faith. This is the first time I've really been single on the dating scene since i was 15 and I am loving it.

Posted by cdn_trance_boy on Jul-26-2001 01:57:

Shit !!!

I've cheated and been cheated on.

It's not worth it. I'll go out and fool around and if over time somthing solid comes along with a girl she will have my undivided attention. I'm a little older then you guy's 27 and I was with my last women for 5 years. Never cheated on her or wanted too. (okay thats a lie I was married not blind).

Posted by Electric_Hybrid on Jul-26-2001 02:03:

I have only cheated once. That was for revenge on my gf who cheated on me. even though I hate her now I feel bad about what I did.
I was chated on twice. The second time was my longest rlationship ever, 2 years. She cheated on me 13 times and I didn't find out till our 2 year anniversary which also happned to be new years eve. Needless to say I dumped her on the spot.

Posted by SmackdowN on Jul-26-2001 02:05:

whoa thats rough. haha. I havent talked to the girl that cheated on me but the one I cheated on like 5 times and she knows still wants me back! wtf is wrong there?

Posted by Electric_Hybrid on Jul-26-2001 02:09:

quote:
Originally posted by StereoPrincess

Oh my god!! that actually happens?? what if it happens to me?? man, this sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!

No worries princess
What will be will be.
So don't spend your time worrying about something that may or may not happen. Just wait till you know to start worrying.

Posted by QuickStep on Jul-26-2001 03:23:

Cheating sucks big time! There's never a good excuse and it should never happen. It completely changes people for the wrong reasons. It takes the innocence of a relationship and turns it ugly.

I might understand what you are going through. My first girl friend, I was in love with completely, but after twoyears we went through a make-up/break-up stage and she cheated on me. I ended up cheating on her for revenge, and confessed. We forgave each other and stayed together for another four years, but it took our relationship of pure love and bliss and added guilt and untrust. We became best friends and ended our relationship, which i miss. She was my first love, so it was hard to let go. Just understand, once someone cheats in a relationship it will change each others look at the relationship, there no way around it.

Know that you will find another person that will make your days shine, and give you purpose again. If you plan on getiing back with your b/f, talk to each other and get personal. Get pass it with communication. Good Luck, and God bless.

Payce

Posted by LiquidX on Jul-26-2001 03:46:

Re: cheating....?????????

quote:
Originally posted by StereoPrincess
Has anyone of you cheated or have been cheated on?? What happened with the relationship?? Just going through some hard stuff and just wanna know. Is it possible for love to over come such hurt??

I've cheated on my ex ..... I can tell you that it hurt me so much though , of what I've done, I felt so dirty and stuff.. Once I thought, if she ever cheated on me , I would fell baaaaad , I mean , not even the word bad is big enough to explain how aweful i'd feel .. love can be the thing to hurt you the most !!!!!!

Posted by cdn_trance_boy on Jul-26-2001 15:10:

Hey Electric

Seeing your from Windsor. Your live in one of the hardest cities to stay faithfull in every weekend thousands of young hottie american girls come over too Canada to party in Windsor. All they want to do is get drunk party and maybe get a little kissy kissy from a boy. Man did they ever love canadian guy's . So props to ya if you can keep it in your pants living there I had a Hell of a time.

CHeers

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