do u all have a problem with me??i dont feel welcome:(

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Posted by Mark on Jul-30-2001 03:35:

i have nothing against you and don't worry about people saying stuff about a lack of contribution. i don't see why every member is obligated to make any contribution. this is just a music forum, where people can communicate with others. if someone wants to give more to the community, then so be it. we shouldn't criticize the individuals that are giving less than the next guy because they don't have to. everyone just take it easy ok?

Posted by Phaze on Jul-30-2001 03:43:

hmmm....problems?? i got none...everything is fine with me...

Posted by Fraggle on Jul-30-2001 03:54:

ya Dj Martijn...'s cool, no problemos here

dun worry mate...some ppl r always looking for something to complain about or someone to abuse, so either dish it back or ignore it

Posted by Walter Mindz on Jul-30-2001 03:55:

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I have no problems with you at all, keep postin.. who cares what some ppl think... besides i think less peopple have a problem with you then you think, so it's not that bad. Just ignore those ppl and have fun.

Posted by Dj Martijn on Jul-30-2001 09:12:

ok then thanks peeps..i guess i am guilty of blowing my lid on occasions ill try in future 2 say nothing 2 those who annoy me..but i sure havent annoyed as many as yevat seems 2 think

Posted by Johnny Eckhardt on Jul-30-2001 09:30:

No problem here..at all.

Posted by trancaholic on Jul-30-2001 09:59:

Renegade: A very thoughtful and intelligent post, that I agree with. However, in the case of the people attacking Paul Wilson in that other thread, you should know that Paul had previously been told to relax by Swamper, and that when a lot of people post disapproving comments on the cop-behaviour a very clear message is sent, not only to Paul, but also to others that are having problems chilling.

btw. I have no problems with neither DJ Martijn, Paul Wilson or anyone else on the board. It takes some pretty low shooting to get to me...

Posted by cyberia on Jul-30-2001 10:55:

quote:
Originally posted by Dj Martijn

well i dont exactly have many ppl bein friendly 2 me on the forums..def not u jd ur sound but many others seem2

huh how's that possible,I was gone for three weeks

no but �I yhaven't got a problem with just with some thoughts of you

Posted by Dj Martijn on Jul-30-2001 11:41:

quote:
Originally posted by cyberia

no but �I yhaven't got a problem with just with some thoughts of you

which r......?

Posted by Renegade on Jul-30-2001 12:39:

quote:
Originally posted by trancaholic
Renegade: A very thoughtful and intelligent post, that I agree with. However, in the case of the people attacking Paul Wilson in that other thread, you should know that Paul had previously been told to relax by Swamper, and that when a lot of people post disapproving comments on the cop-behaviour a very clear message is sent, not only to Paul, but also to others that are having problems chilling.

Yeah I agree, Paul was in the wrong for doing what he did, and I said as much in my post. But if he (or anyone else for that matter) is being perceived as having done something wrong, then it's for Swamper or the mods to sort out, it shouldn't be the signal for everyone to jump in with their opinions and personal judgements. If everyone keeps on jumping in capriciously with antagonistic comments, like they do at the moment, an argument is likely to start up and the thing just snowballs.

Having said that, I do agree that people have a right to say what they think, and if they have any issues to take up with Paul then they should be free to do so privately. But I personally don't see the point in posting intentionally antagonistic messages in any thread, particularly when they are directed at a specific individual. That isn't likely to solve the problem at hand, it's more likely to incite the said individual to retaliate. This is not a good thing for the forum, because - as I said before - these things have the potential to snowball. It happened briefly on the HoM forum when the airing of quiet qualms with regards to the direction of the site degenerated into personal attacks and unnecessary conflict. I'm just trying to make sure that it doesn't happen here, where the damage may be more permenant.

Posted by Paul Wilson on Jul-30-2001 12:57:

quote:
Originally posted by Renegade

Yeah I agree, Paul was in the wrong for doing what he did, and I said as much in my post. But if he (or anyone else for that matter) is being perceived as having done something wrong, then it's for Swamper or the mods to sort out, it shouldn't be the signal for everyone to jump in with their opinions and personal judgements. If everyone keeps on jumping in capriciously with antagonistic comments, like they do at the moment, an argument is likely to start up and the thing just snowballs.

Having said that, I do agree that people have a right to say what they think, and if they have any issues to take up with Paul then they should be free to do so privately. But I personally don't see the point in posting intentionally antagonistic messages in any thread, particularly when they are directed at a specific individual. That isn't likely to solve the problem at hand, it's more likely to incite the said individual to retaliate. This is not a good thing for the forum, because - as I said before - these things have the potential to snowball. It happened briefly on the HoM forum when the airing of quiet qualms with regards to the direction of the site degenerated into personal attacks and unnecessary conflict. I'm just trying to make sure that it doesn't happen here, where the damage may be more permenant.

The reason why I posted that thread was because I had visitors at my house. It was my cousin, his girlfriend with their 6 year old son. While they were here I was browsing this site and I happened to open a thread with a Palivar sound file in it and it said "Yippie Kay Aye Mother******". It was extremely embaressing, and this was in front of a 6 year old child. I was extremely pissed off and just posted that thread in a rage.

Also, I was appalled by the jokes Palivar made about disable people. He used the word "spastic" which is a very offensive and ignorant word. I had a friend who had a brother with something wrong with his leg and ignorant fools called him a "spastic". I have other reasons for being offended by this, but I am not going to put any up here. If you want to know anymore PM me. I see what he said as just as bad as racism.

Also, I do not appreciate getting told to "calm down", especially by somebody younger then myself. To whoever does this: You don't know me, you can't tell my mood from from text I put up on a screen. I am 20 years old, I'm not a kid anymore so it isn't right to say this to me.

I know there are some people who have a problem with me, but I'm pretty sure at least 70% don't.

Posted by dj_cuba on Jul-30-2001 14:36:

Nope, i don't have a problem with you but i can understand why other people might as you do make irritating and annoying comments sometimes, and u seem to piss coup and yevat off alot too...

quote:
OMG NOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!don't any1 meet tavey he is a freak!!!!!lol!!!he has a big beard and he used 2 wear shoes that were 3 sizes 2 big i swear!!AAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

hmmmmmmm...................

Posted by goldenarmZ on Jul-30-2001 14:40:

quote:
Originally posted by DJ Martijn
do u all have a problem with me??i dont feel welcome

yes, you're a wanker.

(btw: that was a joke ) Seriously, I don't have any probs with you at all. I haven't notice anyone slagging you off either... madness...

Posted by tu_face on Jul-30-2001 14:42:

gawd.. this thread has brought up two issues now..

firstly, dj martijn.. although i thought u were a complete nob-head when u first came here, but that was because one of ur fist threads u made was goin on about my 'annoyin' sig.. but hey i got to know u a tad better now so everythin is cool just fuck it, ur here because u want to be, not because everyone else wants u to be, if u make ur comments, and they arnt spammy or insulting in nature then thats fine by me. that goes for everyone... whoever it was who said 'dont do a simcut' was right. dont leave just cuz a few ppl perhaps dont like u.

then theres palivar + pw. is that fool in jail yet??there were three threads about palivar. one was made by me.. i had sent him 2 pms tellin him to quit it but he still kept postin samples... in the thread i was quite straight forward & polite in asking him to stop it, but no.. its not only sometimes embarrassing (as paul said) but its just fuckin annoying. everytime u veiw a page with his post on u get the sound, so u get the sound when u open the thread (sometimes looped) then u get the sound when u go to the reply form, then u get the sound when u have posted... it gets tiresome, so i can understand why people have made threads about him, and thats also why ive left them open and not deleted them.

ive always said not to make threads about other ppl individually just to flame them.. its not nice. the problem is that some people on this forum seem to take it way too seriously and way too personally... don't.. no matter how good it is and how cool 90% of the ppl are.. its still just a forum it isnt real life..

peace

Posted by Astronaut on Jul-30-2001 20:08:

I have nothing to say,but.....no problem with you
And you're not goin "nowhere"!

Posted by Slylee on Jul-30-2001 20:16:

i don't have a problem with you but i know what you mean, don't take it personal...if someone has a problem with you and you can sense it, just ignore it. that is what i learned. who gives a shit. it's too petty to sweat it. it's just online ppl posting opinions and stuff, so it's inevitable that problems will rise out of this. but don't let anyone on here make you feel like you should leave...that is bs. unless it is your choice and you want to. you can stay as long as you want and post whatever...that's all i have to say about that.

Posted by Palivar on Jul-30-2001 21:44:

Peace and happiness to all.

Posted by Miss Proximus on Jul-31-2001 09:18:

quote:
Originally posted by tu_face
ive always said not to make threads about other ppl individually just to flame them.. its not nice. the problem is that some people on this forum seem to take it way too seriously and way too personally... don't.. no matter how good it is and how cool 90% of the ppl are.. its still just a forum it isnt real life..

peace

*bows down to da god*

Martijn...even if someone did have a problem with you....why care? it's not like you share the same house or smth!
And I think we all feel ignored every now and then, because there are so many people @ this forum and they have so many things to say...the might not always notice you posting something

Posted by Dj Lex on Jul-31-2001 13:16:

No probs with you d00d.

I have had the same situation as you d00d in the Holland forum, but I know it is not meant as you think. Just relax and post what you want.

Posted by Miss Proximus on Jul-31-2001 13:21:

I think u guys pissed Palivar off I keep hearing that sample that Paul W. detests so much hahahaaaaaaa

to be honest....I'm on his frequency

Posted by Paul Wilson on Jul-31-2001 14:05:

quote:
Originally posted by Palivar

Peace and happiness to all.

This pisses me off so bad, especially being looped. All this wanker comes here to do is piss people off and I can't stand it. I also hate having to turn off my speakers then turn them back up when I want to hear an MP3.

Posted by Miss Proximus on Jul-31-2001 15:34:

oh that poor paulie....common guys, let's join hands and cry for him

Posted by Paul Wilson on Jul-31-2001 15:39:

I HATE THAT FUCKING SAMPLE!

Posted by dj alonzo on Jul-31-2001 15:55:

Hehehehehehehehe

Posted by Yevat on Jul-31-2001 15:56:

quote:
Originally posted by Miss Proximus
oh that poor paulie....common guys, let's join hands and cry for him

jesus christ wilson!!!! how can u turn a thread like this around into ure fucking hated of poor palivar again!...omg.... stupid!... and Proxy, lets all pitch in and buy wilson some earplugs since he doesnt know how to use the ignore option for plaivar...

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