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Comix you no be mean to us!!

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Originally posted by Slylee just start doin drugs a lot and you'll forget everything. hehe jk i would just start bein a player...but only to girls who don't really care (hoes)...don't go breakin any good girls' hearts. just start clubbin and stuff and pickin up chicks and start remembering what being single is like again (and don't forget to use protection...lol). but i guess it all depends. if u were with her for a long time and if ur sad u did it...then i dunno. u might wanna re-think what u did. but if you're only sad cuz u feel bad that u broke her heart, then that's not a reason to go back. that'll go away with some time. but if u guys were arguin all the time (kinda like raekwon's situation) then ur prolly better off single...also avoid any songs or any kind of things that will remind u of her, even if it means not talking to any mutual friends u guys had. i don't mean like just stop talking to them forever...but just like try not to hang with them cuz u know they'll be like asking questions and u'll always have to hear what's going on with her.

did i just die? cause i think i just heard a woman speaking intelligently!

good advice slyee!

Slylee is not a regular woman... she's special

sex related relationships rule, luv is smth for when i get older

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Originally posted by Gekhous sex related relationships rule, luv is smth for when i get older

Hehehehehe

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Originally posted by Palivar Comix you no be mean to us!!

WHAT?? did i miss something, i don't get it! lol

but hey bro, breaking up is ok sometimes.
but i had this girl, we went out for a while, broke up like 2 times, we had this thing going on for like almost 2 years,and i was playing games, telling her i didnt want her anymore, and she would run after me, but one day she found another guy, and she didnt care about me anymore, and i still love that girl to death man. always think about her(i know i'm a guy and shouldnt be saying this stuff, but i never knew how much i liked her), so i know that when it comes to going out with a girl, i don't take things for granted anymore 'cause if she is special, you wont ever know until you lose them.

Hard Stuff !!!!

Sly you crack me up!! I used to think that all my friends were losers when they would break up with their g/f and be all fucked up..I just I had never dated anyone that I really cared about..All I did was play around..anyways now I understand...The last relationship I was in lasted 5 years and we lived together for 4...I loved her but in the end I broke up with her cause....I still can't put my finger on it but it just was meant to be ......I still think about her all the time and I still talk to her...sometimes I wish I didn't have to but I do since we have a son together.. (he's amazing)..so we've been apart for over a year now and I I've just started going out on date's again ...... It's been cool cause I tell them I don't want a relationship, I just want to go out and have fun...all kinds *winks* and the ladies have been very responsive..*smile's*....it took me awhile to get over her but it's all good now...it just takes time...

Wow, I woulda never thought you were that old cdn_trance_boy! I guess it's the 'boy' that does it, I know the feeling.. heh heh Anyhow, Zing bud, you'll get over it! If it wasn't meant to be, it wasn't meant to be! Everything happens for a reason I think, and this is just another one of life's many learning experiences! In the meantime, just do things that you enjoy doing (that are not related to her in any way) and keep yourself busy, you'll forget about her eventually! But remember, there are LOTS of chicks out there, all you have to do is walk outside and choose one ! But life goes on, and so will you!

-Boy

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Originally posted by CoMiX cant belive someone's askin for help with their romantic life on these forums gayest shit ever

Actually I'd have to agree with him. When the net becomes your life and you start linking it to your personal life, you're getting out of touch with reality.

Hahaha

That's funny ............

Well when I listen to trance I feel like a boy......and at times I still act like one

Eugene hey it's all good sometimes people just got to blow off some steam to people who they don't know personally...ie.. a shrink ....this is kind of the same thing only cheaper by posting we let them know we listen, by sharing stories, and offering advice no matter how warped it is at times...hehe .

Re: Hahaha

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Originally posted by cdn_trance_boy That's funny ............ this is kind of the same thing only cheaper by posting we let them know we listen, by sharing stories, and offering advice no matter how warped it is at times...hehe .

True.
But when you start actually saying "LOL" to your real-life friends, when you start looking for those smilies when you have a conversation with someone, -- you know something's wrong

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Originally posted by TyBy7996 WHAT?? did i miss something, i don't get it! lol but hey bro, breaking up is ok sometimes. but i had this girl, we went out for a while, broke up like 2 times, we had this thing going on for like almost 2 years,and i was playing games, telling her i didnt want her anymore, and she would run after me, but one day she found another guy, and she didnt care about me anymore, and i still love that girl to death man. always think about her(i know i'm a guy and shouldnt be saying this stuff, but i never knew how much i liked her), so i know that when it comes to going out with a girl, i don't take things for granted anymore 'cause if she is special, you wont ever know until you lose them.

Oh shit man,thats sad. Im sorry

hey but for real I was kinda in the same situation but i never gave up on him so we are back together today and going strong for like almost 3 years now. so if you like this girl don't let her go but you got to let her know cause i know how it is not to feel loved.

cyaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

hehe finally a girl who aint a playa hata..all the girls i know are playa hata's lol

Donno what to say

i'm happy

I kinda agree with Eugene in that the a public forum isn't really the best place to talk about crap like this, so I'll be quick:

1) For a guy: A relationship involves giving up your social life for sex.

For a girl: A relationship involves giving up your body to feel loved and secure.

2) There is no perfect relationship: the definition of "love" is anyone of the opposite sex who you actually don't mind talking to between having sex.

3) There is always an imbalance of power: one person (usually the man) is always more in love than the other person.

4) If it wasn't for sex would we ever get married or have these kinda relationships? I think not. We'd just shack up with our best mates wouldn't we.

5) This is the most important part - the relatioship is always on the girls terms. Go ahead guys, try and demand some terms. See how far it gets you.

Okay, maybe I'm being a bit pesimistic here, but I'm just so bored of the whole bloody thing at the moment. I've only been in three real relationships in my life, and while I enjoyed the physical side (obviously ) I couldn't stand the rest of it. The obligation and all that toss. That's why I didn't let them run longer than 4 months, and I kinda wondered afterwards why I bothered at all.

Relationships? Bah!

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Originally posted by Renegade 4) If it wasn't for sex would we ever get married or have these kinda relationships? I think not. We'd just shack up with our best mates wouldn't we.

so how do you explain the fact that married couples are having less and less sex as their marriage develops (?)

how bout this for an expanation Miss Prox

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5) This is the most important part - the relatioship is always on the girls terms. Go ahead guys, try and demand some terms. See how far it gets you.

u girls just set us guys up!!! ITS A WORLDWIDE CONSPIRACY (spelling check??) AGAINST MEN!!!

Re: Re: Hahaha

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Originally posted by Eugene True. But when you start actually saying "LOL" to your real-life friends, when you start looking for those smilies when you have a conversation with someone, -- you know something's wrong

If that EVER happens to anyone, they should stop using these forums, or at least get some serious help! But I think that there's nothing wrong with bringin your problems to these forums (as long as it's in the chillout area), especially if you have nobody else to turn to, talking about it is healthy, and if we can help another TA in need, why not?! Besides I think these forums are different from others, In a way we're all like family! Well at least that's how I feel!

Im Happy !!!!!!!

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Originally posted by Miss Proximus so how do you explain the fact that married couples are having less and less sex as their marriage develops (?)

Who told you this bullshit?
*sigh* first, in one of these threads, they say 43 is "old", now they start saying married couples have less and less sex...

Don't spread misleading information

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Originally posted by Miss Proximus so how do you explain the fact that married couples are having less and less sex as their marriage develops (?)

Married couples also often become less and less content with each other as the marriage develops and the sex dries up. It's no coincidence.

Relationships are great learning experiences but everything happens for a reason. The best advice I can give you is to LEARN: what u want & what u don't want for future partners.


Getting drunk & doin a lot of drugs & fucking random ppl is self- destructive & not safe. Hate to sound like a parent but that's not a healthy way to move on.

fack! i broke up w/ my chick last month too....been giving me hell. i tried to forget about her but her dumb chicken head ass keeps trying to talk to me, which in turn won't let me get over her proper. in essence, a good girl is hard to find, and great ones are hard to keep *that makes no sense at all so dont fackin flame me

damn i kinda forgot about this thread.... hahaha Banged lots of chix!!!! see breaking up is good eventually!!
But hey you wont realize what u have till u lose it right?
So if ur not aware how much a person appreciates you ...u better find out and feel da same way or else u'll loose em.
Peace out!
enjoy

i had to get back to this thread cuz another dude brought it up on his thread, i tell u theres nothing better than getting over breaking up. Just go have some fun, get laid few times and it'll be over. At least gradually it will.Even if its special , blablablabala......
just try to find whats best for u, or else u get urself desprit for nothing.
Peace

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