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| Originally posted by smallSHEEP Could use you like some kind of foot stool. Except of course you'd talk a lot and shit everywhere. |
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| Originally posted by jdat At first I thought you said " Except of course you talk a lot of shit everywhere " Anuventrade pwn3d |

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| Originally posted by anuneventrade Oh dear, whatever shall I do John? ![]() omggggggggggg work needs to go by faster. |
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| Originally posted by KilldaDJ its kinda working but its a shame i dont get to fuck her as so often. |
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| Originally posted by nchs09 count to 1000 then back to 0, that sould pass time |
Right well i don't know where everyone came up with the fact that they don't work long term but i must be a living contradiction to that statement then since i've been in a long distance relationship for over a year now. My boyfriend lives in Canada and i live in Ireland.
I don't see how or why it wouldnt work unless you weren't willing to work on it yourself.
Both my boyfriend and I work on our relationship and it works quite well. Obviously it's not the same as being in the same country but we both make an effort to see each other as often as possible.
All it takes is a little dedication ffs 
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| Originally posted by LoCa My boyfriend lives in Canada and i live in Ireland. |
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| Originally posted by LoCa Right well i don't know where everyone came up with the fact that they don't work long term but i must be a living contradiction to that statement then since i've been in a long distance relationship for over a year now. My boyfriend lives in Canada and i live in Ireland. I don't see how or why it wouldnt work unless you weren't willing to work on it yourself. Both my boyfriend and I work on our relationship and it works quite well. Obviously it's not the same as being in the same country but we both make an effort to see each other as often as possible. All it takes is a little dedication ffs |

But I honestly never believed in the relationship one bit ( that was for various personal reasons tough ).
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| Originally posted by whiskers how did you guys meet? |

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| Originally posted by jdat I personaly had a relationship online with this chica from china for 3 years but after spending 6 months discussing politics and stuff and always argueing ( like the fact that Taiwan is it's own country and does NOT belong to Mainland China and she's get so pissed off ) ..... She actually ended up cheating on me even sending me pics of her with the bastard when she announced it to me But I honestly never believed in the relationship one bit ( that was for various personal reasons tough ). |

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| Originally posted by whiskers how did you guys meet? |
been in long distance relationship due to college (girlfriend is in college and im not) for the past nearly 3 years. Its a bit tough at times but next year we are buying a house and settling down so it can work.
LOT of dedication and there were some tough times, mostly because she got emotional not knowing when we were going to be together and all that good stuff.
Now that we know pretty much when we will be together it makes it easier on us both.
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| Originally posted by LoCa well its a bit of a long story... we were in HS together in gr 10 cuz i lived in canada for 2 yrs... then i left, we lost contact, and eventually in nov 2002 he found me again. So i went back to see him and the rest is history |
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| Originally posted by jdat Some of us said it could work and others said it couldn't ![]() I personaly had a relationship online with this chica from china for 3 years but after spending 6 months discussing politics and stuff and always argueing ( like the fact that Taiwan is it's own country and does NOT belong to Mainland China and she's get so pissed off ) ..... She actually ended up cheating on me even sending me pics of her with the bastard when she announced it to me But I honestly never believed in the relationship one bit ( that was for various personal reasons tough ). |
yes i can see how that could cause disillusionment
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| Originally posted by whiskers romantic |
Loca that's a lovely story! I wish you the best
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| Originally posted by whiskers john.... omg... the truth comes out.... ![]() did you meet her on the net too? have you seen her IRL? |
long distance can work. if you REALLY want it to...
i'm now in a long distance relationship and I know I fully trust my sweetie and he trusts me too. I guess it helps that we talk to each other constantly and that we've been such good friends for a while that we really know each other...
The biggest challenge is trust and dedication... if you have 100% of both, it WILL work 
john, IRL = in real life
how can you have an internet girlfriend and not know that???
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| Originally posted by anuneventrade You have a girlfriend and you want me to move in with you?! Bastard! You broke my heart! ![]() *edit* Besides, I'm 4'5", 260 lbs, and have acne. Sure you want me to move in? |
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| Originally posted by anuneventrade On intarweb relationships.... Echo of Silence, Whiskers, Emil, Boomer187, fuct4less, PhloTron, Photo_bot_2k1, and Mebot and I are all going to get married in Vegas! And we're going to live in booom boooom booooomers house!Long distance can work if eventually you're planning on getting closer. |
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| Originally posted by getfoul Hey now, i was involved in this too |
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| Originally posted by whiskers john, IRL = in real life how can you have an internet girlfriend and not know that??? |
I ain't down with the lingo yet I've only had access since 94

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| Originally posted by whiskers so was montie... and tuan too |
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| Originally posted by jdat and me ? |
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| Originally posted by jdat oh piss off Drew ! I'm a n00b on the internet I ain't down with the lingo yet I've only had access since 94 when are we meeting IRL? ![]() |

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