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Posted by igottaknow on Sep-29-2004 23:29:

Real McCoy - Run Away.mp3


Posted by TheVrk on Sep-30-2004 01:00:

i just told'er


Posted by St�phanie on Sep-30-2004 01:54:

Satan (eek!)

I stoped returning calls hahahha
oops..!


Posted by Rodrico on Sep-30-2004 02:01:

I tend not to break up with girls anymore, I figure it this way, if you just stop returning phone calls and just go on with your life, its like suspending your relationship til things get exciting again. No excuses, no hurt feelings, just a nice ole seeya in a bit. How can you feel hurt, if you never break up? Thats how I like it.


Posted by plumeria on Sep-30-2004 03:18:

just be decisive about it.


Posted by {b.s.e.} on Sep-30-2004 03:31:

Tell her Jesus told you that you weren't supposed to be with her, and that he has greater plans in store for her. Be honest, and just tell her straight up that you've never been one to meddle in divine fate and must bow out.


Posted by totally_fly_ on Sep-30-2004 03:43:

I knew she cheated so I found another date for grad ahead of time and told her to go lie to someone else while she was getting ready for the big night. She said ok. Havn't heard from her since.


Posted by Trance Nutter on Sep-30-2004 05:35:

"No I won't pay"

"Bitch, go make me some cake!"

Seriously though, just "Look, you're a nice girl and all, but ahh, nah look, maybe we should go our own ways. I just don't see us going any further...."

I get broken up with more than I do the breakin up ("You're a nice guy and all, but lets just be friends", as a result I got so many friends I'd stick it to)........


Posted by nialsjd on Sep-30-2004 05:56:

donkey punch


Posted by D Dubya on Sep-30-2004 06:33:

I used to try and find the most creative ways to break up with girls (horrible things). That was fun back in early college, but the older I get the more I am serious now. I would just tell them straight up the problem and that would be that....

I have never been dumped. I have always been the dumper. Until just about a week ago. My fiance dumped me - so, what goes around comes around.


Posted by fitom tiel on Sep-30-2004 07:04:

i got dumped, LoCa style
it works, but,
ouch


Posted by tha_broad on Sep-30-2004 07:18:

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ lol LoCa style....

I got the "I have things I need to do with my life. It's time for us to move on" from one of my exes.


Posted by DJ_Bod on Sep-30-2004 11:34:

quote:
Originally posted by N|te-L|fe
mutual decision...

It juste wasnt working anymore

I must agree thats pretty rare


+1


Posted by colonelcrisp on Sep-30-2004 14:00:

"im a secret agent and im being sent on a top secret assignment in uzbekistan for the next 10 years. i really wanted to make this work but i probably wont come home alive"


or my personal favorite

"that was nice, you should get goin..."


Posted by Mr. Pink on Sep-30-2004 14:02:

Rasta

"suzy, im sorry but hairy tits just aren't my thing anymore."


Posted by torontotrance on Sep-30-2004 14:07:

I just said it was over, I can't take your angry crap anymore.


Posted by Slylee on Sep-30-2004 14:52:

anyone ever try saying you just don't want to be with them any more? lol if you use lame excuses, they'll just keep bugging you and wondering what went wrong, instead of realizing, "ok, they just don't like me any more". it's quicker, but harder to do.


Posted by nettwerk on Sep-30-2004 15:02:

If you don't wanna see her again: "You're a bitch", "your VGN stinks", etc.
If you do: Uhm... *blank* I'm out of ideas.

And yes, my relationships haven't been that good...


Posted by jonze on Sep-30-2004 15:12:

quote:
Originally posted by torontotrance
I just said it was over, I can't take your angry crap anymore.


how do you break up with yourself? j/k
thats pretty straight forward though, but if the girl has anger problems you better run away afterwards or you might get a lamp thrown at your head.

whatever you do, dont try that lets be friends stuff because theres always some weirdness with that.


Posted by Slylee on Sep-30-2004 15:27:

quote:
Originally posted by jonze234

whatever you do, dont try that lets be friends stuff because theres always some weirdness with that.



i know, seriously, why do people continue to try this method? NEWS FLASH! feelings are still involved (at least for one of you...the one getting dumped) and there are going to be jealousy issues and confusion. I just don�t see a point in trying to remain friends right after a break up. Or at ALL for that matter. The only time I see it as being ok, is like if you go on a date or two with someone, and there is absolutely no sexual chemistry whatsoever, and you can honestly see that person as more of a friend, so you guys nip it in the bud right away. that happened to me once. a girlfriend tried to hook me up with her best friend and so we went out a couple of times, and it was the weirdest thing...he was like drop dead gorgeous (I�m going by what about 90% of females would say about him) but he just didn�t do it for me. We had instant plutonic chemistry though, and I felt very comfortable around him, like a brother sort of. I didn�t get butterflies or anything thinking about him, and I think it was the same for him. anyway, we became pretty good friends but that�s it.

the end.


Posted by Gremsey on Sep-30-2004 15:29:

Bbbiach!, I can't break up easy and quietly..
As a rule all passes silently and easy.. it looks so.. outside
but I'm always burning.. inside!

Usually - in a result - situation when it is required to make a step from me, to do something - to call, to talk.. but I do not do this step. Thus letting know that is the end.

such is life


Posted by Gremsey on Sep-30-2004 15:42:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
i know, seriously, why do people continue to try this method? NEWS FLASH! feelings are still involved (at least for one of you...the one getting dumped) and there are going to be jealousy issues and confusion. I just don�t see a point in trying to remain friends right after a break up. Or at ALL for that matter. The only time I see it as being ok, is like if you go on a date or two with someone, and there is absolutely no sexual chemistry whatsoever, and you can honestly see that person as more of a friend, so you guys nip it in the bud right away. that happened to me once. a girlfriend tried to hook me up with her best friend and so we went out a couple of times, and it was the weirdest thing...he was like drop dead gorgeous (I�m going by what about 90% of females would say about him) but he just didn�t do it for me. We had instant plutonic chemistry though, and I felt very comfortable around him, like a brother sort of. I didn�t get butterflies or anything thinking about him, and I think it was the same for him. anyway, we became pretty good friends but that�s it.

the end.


Love do not stain friendship. It is impossible to create a small kitchen garden on the cooled down fiery lava of feelings.
The end is the end.


Posted by NiteMer on Sep-30-2004 15:49:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
i know, seriously, why do people continue to try this method? NEWS FLASH! feelings are still involved (at least for one of you...the one getting dumped) and there are going to be jealousy issues and confusion. I just don�t see a point in trying to remain friends right after a break up. Or at ALL for that matter. The only time I see it as being ok, is like if you go on a date or two with someone, and there is absolutely no sexual chemistry whatsoever, and you can honestly see that person as more of a friend, so you guys nip it in the bud right away. that happened to me once. a girlfriend tried to hook me up with her best friend and so we went out a couple of times, and it was the weirdest thing...he was like drop dead gorgeous (I�m going by what about 90% of females would say about him) but he just didn�t do it for me. We had instant plutonic chemistry though, and I felt very comfortable around him, like a brother sort of. I didn�t get butterflies or anything thinking about him, and I think it was the same for him. anyway, we became pretty good friends but that�s it.

the end.


I agree to some extent. However, I have been able to be friends with one or two girls that I had a dating/fucking relationship with. It is awkward right afterwards and I recommend not talking or seeing each other for a while, but given some time, you can be friends. You just have to be straightforward about where you stand. Friends with benefits is a horrible idea though. I've learned that. The girl always seems to want more. Why can't they just want the dick?


Posted by igottaknow on Sep-30-2004 16:01:

quote:
Originally posted by Nite-Mer
Why can't they just want the dick?

one of life's mysteries will never know the answer to


Posted by butterfly on Sep-30-2004 16:01:

quote:
Originally posted by Nite-Mer
Friends with benefits is a horrible idea though. I've learned that. The girl always seems to want more. Why can't they just want the dick?

it's not always the girl who wants more.

and i agree that being friends with an ex isnt good. actually my bf seems to have maintained friendships with 2 or 3 exes but i know i never could. i guess it is based on the individual.


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