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Originally posted by ShadoWolf isn't that based on a song? REEL BIG FISH LYRICS "She Has A Girlfriend Now" she has a girlfriend now she has a girlfriend now she has a girlfriend now, she said "guys don't do no more for me" "you never loved me, like i wanted you to" "i loved you baby, what do you want me to do?" she said she found someone who's gonna hold her hand she said she found someone who's gonna understand she don't need nobody to be her man she don't need nobody to be her man i never thought it would end like this just because i've got no tits i'll shave my legs, i'll wear a bra i'll even cut my &%#!$ off for you... she has a girlfriend now.

hahahahahahahahaha

REEL BIG FISH PWNAGE BAYB!111 w00t!111oneeleventeentrillion

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Originally posted by Gordy ok at first it sounded like this was going to be cool, but why did it end up being so wierd now?

because her girlfriend can please her better than you

I agree with the others.

Talk one of your mates into pretending he's your boyfriend. Go up to your gf and say 'hey guess what, I've got a boyfriend now" and see how she reacts. Or just get a new girlfriend. The way I see it she's with someone else, if you're the kind of guy who wants a girl to himself (and that's fair play, why not) then you might as well call it cheating.

Of course, by all means you should try and blag a threesome before you do that, assuming her GF is hot

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Originally posted by Arbiter You're probably a possessive person. Don't feel bad, you sure aren't the only one: I call it insecurity.

well no shit. you can't make the assumption that he's an overall insecure person because he's a little disturbed/confused about sharing his girlfriend...that's ridiculous. anyone in their right mind who cares for and loves their gf/bf would have a problem with it, simple as that. if you don't care and you're all for it, then you don't have any feelings for him/her other than physical attraction.

my girlfriend is bi, but we don't share each other with anyone else. i would go spare if i found out she was doing anyone else but me, regardless of whether they are male or female. i guess that does depend on what you are actually looking for. if you are looking for a serious relationship that is going to work, her having a girlfriend on the side is going to get in the way.

decide what you want, and go for it. if you are happy to share her with someone else (i.e. you are not that bothered about the serious relationship) then let her do it, and ask to join in if not, tell her, and let her reaction decide what will happen with the relationship.

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Originally posted by Slylee well no shit. you can't make the assumption that he's an overall insecure person because he's a little disturbed/confused about sharing his girlfriend...that's ridiculous. anyone in their right mind who cares for and loves their gf/bf would have a problem with it, simple as that. if you don't care and you're all for it, then you don't have any feelings for him/her other than physical attraction.

well said !

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Originally posted by Slylee well no shit. you can't make the assumption that he's an overall insecure person because he's a little disturbed/confused about sharing his girlfriend...that's ridiculous.

I can't? I just did. If you think it's ridiculous, why don't you posit a more plausible hypothesis for his clearly irrational feelings?

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anyone in their right mind who cares for and loves their gf/bf would have a problem with it, simple as that. if you don't care and you're all for it, then you don't have any feelings for him/her other than physical attraction.

Nonsense. Your significant other isn't a piece of your property, they're a totally seperate human being free to make their own choices about what to do with their lives. If you genuinely care about them, then you'll respect their freedom instead of trying to tie them down with commitments and restrictions just to satiate your own jealous insecurity. If you genuinely loved them, you'd wish them well in their quest for physical pleasure - regardless of the source - not try to restrict their options for your own selfish reasons.

It's always the companies offering the worst services which demand to operate with a monopoly. They know they can't meet the standard of the competition. In love, it is no different. Monogamy is a monopoly and it is little more than a cover-up of one's own inadequacy.

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Originally posted by placebo To get revenge, you should get a boyfriend.

sure honey, go screw anyting that walks in your quest for physical pleasure...don't forget to double up on the rubbers so you don't get infested with every STD known to mankind. i just want you to be happy.

interesting situation man!

Thinking about it, if I had a girlfriend with a girlfriend i don't think i'd have anything against it at all. I'm not talking about cause then perhaps i could join in... i mean i really dont think i'd mind, well only if she dumped me for her ofcause

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Originally posted by Slylee sure honey, go screw anyting that walks in your quest for physical pleasure...don't forget to double up on the rubbers so you don't get infested with every STD known to mankind. i just want you to be happy.

Well, I understand where you're coming from, and I also give Arbite credit.

You're right when it comes to commitment because, if the two people in the relationship dedicate themselves entirely for that particular relationship, it'll be better for everyone - not to mention that this part was somewhat implicit when they became "boyfriend" and "girlfriend": if you need someone else in the relationship, that's probably because something in the relationship doesn't suffice for one of the members, so it should be analised.

On the other hand, Arbiter's also right when it comes to respect: the other person doesn't belong to you. I love my girlfriend, for example, and I'm aware of the fact that I can't put her in a glass dome - if I were doing so, I would just show how insecure I am about the stability of the relationship and her capacity of judgement.

That's as brief as I can be about it - if I were to talk more about it, I'd spend a lot of time typing, but I've got to work. Hope this could help the situation.

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Originally posted by Lira I can't put her in a glass dome

haha i'd buy that for a dollar...

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Originally posted by dj tek haha i'd buy that for a dollar...

It's a Brazilian saying... you got the main idea

I agree w/jamie. His reaction is that of a normal person he's not insecure. girl on girl is fine if you're watching porn but, its not good for a relationship. Sounds like he played with fire and now he's getting burned.

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Originally posted by Slylee sure honey, go screw anyting that walks in your quest for physical pleasure...don't forget to double up on the rubbers so you don't get infested with every STD known to mankind. i just want you to be happy.

So you're suggesting it's an issue of trust? If you trusted your significant other's judgment, this wouldn't be an issue.

I'd love to give a more thorough reply, but, as usual, there isn't really anything of substance to reply to.

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Originally posted by Lira It's a Brazilian saying... you got the main idea

haha sorry.. i know what u meant it was a joke referring to a saying in Robocop.

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Originally posted by Arbiter If you genuinely care about them, then you'll respect their freedom instead of trying to tie them down with commitments and restrictions just to satiate your own jealous insecurity. If you genuinely loved them, you'd wish them well in their quest for physical pleasure - regardless of the source - not try to restrict their options for your own selfish reasons.

"Sure sweety, i love you so much you can go screw other guys, whatever makes you happy"

Guess this means you wont mind when your wife is boning the gardener

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Originally posted by albertoR "Sure sweety, i love you so much you can go screw other guys, whatever makes you happy" Guess this means you wont mind when your wife is boning the gardener

So... do you have anything intelligent to say?

Of course not, that would be asking too much.

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Originally posted by Arbiter So... do you have anything intelligent to say? Of course not, that would be asking too much.

Answer the question, so your saying you would not mind at all?

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Originally posted by Falcon-X Answer the question, so your saying you would not mind at all?

There wasn't a question to answer.

arbitar, why don't you respond to his post about you not caring if your wife was screwing someone else huh?

you are one of the few that always argues faith and religion too, aren't you? exactly. i'm not gonna waste my time arguing with someone like that. we just go in circles. and for the record, the word "trust" was nowhere in my post. quit looking for stuff that isn't there.

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Originally posted by D-res you are quite possibly the luckiest man alive, assuming they're both hot and open to showcase

my girlfriend is on the left in the white, and her girlfriend is on the right in black. me in the middle.


i mean they have been friends for a long time, and i knew she was bi from the start, and i told her girls dont bother me, cause they dont, and they still really dont, but its just the fact that they have taken it the next step and its just wierd having them "together" now. and as far as all of you tellin me to 3 some it up, dont get me wrong, i would love to, but i dont think she would be down.

arbitar, you out numbered and out gunned. besides we're right

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Originally posted by Slylee arbitar, why don't you respond to his post about you not caring if your wife was screwing someone else huh? you are one of the few that always argues faith and religion too, aren't you? exactly. i'm not gonna waste my time arguing with someone like that. we just go in circles. and for the record, the word "trust" was nowhere in my post. quit looking for stuff that isn't there.

Then what was your point? Did you have one, or not? You're right, we do argue in circles: and it's always because people like you insist on making circular arguments to support your positions!

There wasn't anything to respond to except for a "guess" about my "feelings" on a situation that doesn't exist. Well I could answer, but it would only be a "guess" too, so it has no substantive contribution to the discussion at hand.

Hummm I think it was obvious let me clear it out by adding ? at the end

so you wont mind when your wife is boning the gardener??

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