im sad :( why do women crush your heart

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Posted by Callie5 on Oct-14-2004 20:46:

It's really too bad.. I'm sorry to hear you've been hurt. Heartbreak sucks, but it's all a learning process. As much as this might sound like an asshole thing to say...

NEXT

Posted by Jiffy on Oct-14-2004 20:55:

quote:
Originally posted by Callie5
It's really too bad.. I'm sorry to hear you've been hurt. Heartbreak sucks, but it's all a learning process. As much as this might sound like an asshole thing to say...

NEXT

Posted by NiteMer on Oct-14-2004 23:27:

Guys are definitely just as bad. Although I never do anything spiteful, I know that I sometimes am more interested in the chase. I don't try to play with girls emotions and I usually communicate honestly with them. After that, I think it's their problem.

For example, there is a girl I am dating a little bit now that I have known for a while. She just broke up with a friend and fellow dj I know a few weeks ago. We kind of hooked up and have been hanging out a bit. I know she's been kind of screwed over by a couple of guys lately that liked her, but didn't feel the chemistry after a while. I didn't want to be another one of those guys because she really is a great girl, but I don't know that I'm that attracted to her physically. On Sunday, she came out and I told her that we should maybe be just friends. Somehow that turned into us hanging out and letting things move slowly. Then on Tuesday she asked what I was doing and I said I had things to do (finishing a flyer for a party I'm co-promoting) and she took offense, saying I didn't have to hang out with her if I didn't want too. Now I'm in a tough spot, because I told her how I felt, but she seems to be more into me than I am her. I'm doing my best to maintain a friendship with her and not hurt her feelings, but I know where this road may lead. It's kind of a lose/lose situation. We'll see what happens.

Posted by butterfly on Oct-14-2004 23:31:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
here are some possible explanations as to why a female would crush your heart.

1. she's confused and just wants to find herself and date other guys, no hard feelings.

2. she's insecure about herself, and gets off on getting guys to become interested or even in love with her, then quickly loses interest, and moves on to get that attention again from a new victim.

3. she's a closet case man eating dike and wants to screw men over because she's been screwed by men her whole life.

4. you're too nice to her

5. someone better came along

6. a bigger asshole came along

7. a girl who eats better p&&&&& came along

8. a guy with more money and a bigger penis came along

9. she sees you as more like a brother figure

if i think of any more i'll let ya know

10. she just doesnt like you.

Posted by OurManFlint on Oct-14-2004 23:43:

11. She finds someone that can give her free drugs that you can't provide.

Posted by Arbiter on Oct-14-2004 23:50:

quote:
Originally posted by Massive84
tbh i don't know, she really strong in her mind, she don't take shit from anyone, you piss her off, she won't be shy but well strike back.

she realllllllly looks nice, not maked up like ..well you know(am sorry i hate when girls put 10 tons of make up on their face, especially for school ) , nice cute face, nice body.

It's not like she can't get anyone els am sure that not a problem, hence i even see 2 other guys in my class who try to hit on her.

But who knows, maybe your right.

Hmm... well there are alternative explanations. But with limited knowledge of the individuals involved I'd still bet on run-of-the-mill self-esteem issues. Sometimes the most insecure people are the ones with the least reason to feel that way.

Posted by Cildainie on Oct-15-2004 01:09:

???

The symptoms, obviously, of reading too much "GQ" and "Stuff"...

Posted by kramez on Oct-15-2004 01:12:

Posted by Spacey Orange on Oct-15-2004 01:13:

Re: ???

quote:
Originally posted by Cildainie
The symptoms, obviously, of reading too much "GQ" and "Stuff"...

what?

Posted by sigmanova on Oct-15-2004 01:18:

dunno why...but i feel stupid going back to the same punishment every now and then...it's just that the right girl looks so good and i get carried away and think maybe this one is different. oh well.

Posted by smokeape on Oct-15-2004 01:23:

Love, love me do. Beatles tune?

Anyhow, some women are just out there, like worried about fleas or something...

Don't let it drag you down bro!!!

[[[smoke]]]

Vincent de Moor ft Emerald - Eternity Forever

Posted by OurManFlint on Oct-15-2004 01:47:

quote:
Originally posted by kramez
....Your too nice to her...
do all girls agree with this? cause this one sounds really fucked up to me ( no offence slylee ) just curious..
I'm not a girl, but girls hate it when you are too nice to them. I mean imagine if a girl was too nice to you. It just gets boring.

Posted by Spacey Orange on Oct-15-2004 01:52:

quote:
Originally posted by OurManFlint
I'm not a girl, but girls hate it when you are too nice to them. I mean imagine if a girl was too nice to you. It just gets boring.

the love doctor has entered the building.

Posted by Radagast on Oct-15-2004 01:54:

I prefer to be beaten over the head with a sock full of batteries myself.

Posted by Spacey Orange on Oct-15-2004 01:59:

quote:
Originally posted by Radagast
I prefer to be beaten over the head with a sock full of batteries myself.

scarred.

Posted by Zilax on Oct-15-2004 02:04:

How nice is too nice?

Posted by Floorfiller on Oct-15-2004 02:08:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
well we're not all like that. i was stereotyping. it goes both ways. a lot of guys are insecure womanizers and hurt girls all the time, feeling no remorse.

no no...i'd say they are all like that hahah

Posted by Spacey Orange on Oct-15-2004 02:08:

doing something for another person is fine so long as it doesn't compromise your own time, goals and so forth, too much. when it does you're done. that's what is too nice.

Posted by Tranc3 on Oct-15-2004 04:53:

quote:
Originally posted by Arbiter
Hmm... well there are alternative explanations. But with limited knowledge of the individuals involved I'd still bet on run-of-the-mill self-esteem issues. Sometimes the most insecure people are the ones with the least reason to feel that way.

Agreed.

quote:
Originally posted by Zilax
How nice is too nice?

It's not a matter of niceness, it's 2 things: boring vs. fun to be with, and needy vs. fun to be with. Being too nice can be interpreted as being too needy....always helping them out with everything (all the freaking time), always being with that person "just in case," etc... You just get to see too much of that person and your interest quickly dies out. Not only that, but some people might start to think that you're the stalker-type if you make it seem as if that person is the only thing in your life.

And it's not about being an asshole vs. not being an asshole, it's about being self-confident and self-assured vs. sitting on your ass and doing nothing or just being plain nervous all the time. If you see two people give a speech, same exact speech, but one person is visibly nervous while the other person is calm and relaxed, maybe even into it, which person are you going to think did a better job? It's the outward appearance that counts.

People who have an excessive amount of self-confidence are oftentimes seen as cocky, and therefore assholes. Granted, there are girls out there that really are attracted to assholes - this is usually due to a self-esteem problem of some sort. However, most normal people don't want to be treated like shit. There's a reason we have things like manners and being polite and such - a majority of people prefer them to having people be assholes. How many people truly want to be physically or emotionally abused? If the number was significantly high, the S&M industry and the like would be one of the more profitable places to be in. So if we can safely rule out the idea that people are attracted to assholes BECAUSE they are assholes, what is it that the assholes have that most others don't? Disregarding moral/ethic belief systems, how many non-assholes would even have the gumption to go up to someone and start ridiculing them? This is EXACTLY why I feel it's about self-confidence and outward appearances, and NOT how you treat people. Girls like the assholes DESPITE the fact that they're assholes, not BECAUSE of it.

Posted by Tranc3 on Oct-15-2004 04:54:

Oh yeah, fuck the game

Posted by d0uble h3lix on Oct-15-2004 06:46:

**warning: rated R content follows**

man..time people started realizing what the key to a woman's heart is...it isnt diamonds, definitely not flowers, and fuck sentiment..one thing stands above all else, and one thing only:

giving face. for the few of you who don't know what this is, it's also called cunnilingus.

however, all things do have a bad side..and unfortunately, giving face is much like working for the mob.

one slip of the tongue...and you're in deep shit.

Posted by Spacey Orange on Oct-15-2004 06:48:

Posted by Tranc3 on Oct-15-2004 06:50:

quote:
Originally posted by d0uble h3lix
**warning: rated R content follows**

man..time people started realizing what the key to a woman's heart is...it isnt diamonds, definitely not flowers, and fuck sentiment..one thing stands above all else, and one thing only:

giving face. for the few of you who don't know what this is, it's also called cunnilingus.

however, all things do have a bad side..and unfortunately, giving face is much like working for the mob.

one slip of the tongue...and you're in deep shit.

very clever

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