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Posted by butterfly on Jan-03-2005 20:55:

quote:
Originally posted by goonerjack
i think you're kinda mixing up the 2 girls but i get what you're sayin... everything apart from "she was probably really nervous cause" seems as though it fits the girl that I really liked a month ago perfectly... altho I don't think she was ever nervous

the nervous one (emily) was nervous apparantly just cause she liked me so much, and I spose we all get nervous at first around people you have feelings for cuz you don't wanna lose a chance


oh yeah... i meant to refer to the previous girl you liked. i guess i read it wrong that she was always nervous.


Posted by Michael19 on Jan-03-2005 23:27:

didnt read the replies so dunno if this was mentioned.


but how abou getting your mate victor to tell her that you dont like her in that way?


Posted by goonerjack on Jan-03-2005 23:33:

quote:
Originally posted by Michael19
didnt read the replies so dunno if this was mentioned.


but how abou getting your mate victor to tell her that you dont like her in that way?


I think that's pretty obvious to her - I was strongly flirting with her mate right in front of Emily, so a pretty big hint

the issue at the moment is how to get steph's number off emily who's witholding it, and whether to come clean with emily about victor - making it probably easier for me but dumping my mate right in it...


Posted by butterfly on Jan-03-2005 23:39:

quote:
Originally posted by goonerjack
I think that's pretty obvious to her - I was strongly flirting with her mate right in front of Emily, so a pretty big hint

the issue at the moment is how to get steph's number off emily who's witholding it, and whether to come clean with emily about victor - making it probably easier for me but dumping my mate right in it...


why dont you just email steph? you dont have to send her a sappy love letter or anything. just send something like this:

steph,
i liked talking to you at the party. give me a call sometime.
-your name
xxx-xxx-xxxx


Posted by Michael19 on Jan-03-2005 23:46:

quote:
Originally posted by goonerjack
I think that's pretty obvious to her - I was strongly flirting with her mate right in front of Emily, so a pretty big hint

the issue at the moment is how to get steph's number off emily who's witholding it, and whether to come clean with emily about victor - making it probably easier for me but dumping my mate right in it...



but emily doesnt know, you know she likes you? So shes mightnt take the hint that you chatting up her mate was you dropping a hint.


butterfly, if he had her email, this post wouldnt be up!


Posted by goonerjack on Jan-03-2005 23:47:

i have absolutely no contacts of Stephs apart from thru this girl Emily... (my fault i know )


Posted by butterfly on Jan-03-2005 23:53:

quote:
Originally posted by goonerjack

btw i do have her address, and her email addy, but i am not gonna send teh letter! well maybe i would if i can write something good enough to sum up the whole situation...


i am confused now... which girl were you talking about when you wrote this?


Posted by goonerjack on Jan-04-2005 00:00:

ah right, i was talking about Emily - I thought igottaknow was implying to send teh letter to emily to sort out the situation there...

my other mates are thinking i should just come clean with Emily - it'll all come out anyway at some point so it might be best for her to hear it from me...


Posted by butterfly on Jan-04-2005 00:02:

quote:
Originally posted by goonerjack
ah right, i was talking about Emily - I thought igottaknow was implying to send teh letter to emily to sort out the situation there...

my other mates are thinking i should just come clean with Emily - it'll all come out anyway at some point so it might be best for her to hear it from me...


i dunno, it might be best to let her work out her issues herself. of course if you really do care about her it's different.


Posted by goonerjack on Jan-04-2005 00:12:

quote:
Originally posted by Michael19
but emily doesnt know, you know she likes you? So shes mightnt take the hint that you chatting up her mate was you dropping a hint.


butterfly, if he had her email, this post wouldnt be up!


Right, she (emily) doesn't know that I know she likes me

Personally I couldn't see how chatting up someone could be a hint to the girl that i'm not chatting to that i like her... although i've never been too good with hints

i've never really been that good friends with emily, but that doesn't mean i don't care for how she's feeling - i don't wanna see a nice girl crying...

the other thing is that i'd prefer to get steph's number sooner than later - don't want it to seem like i'm not interested in her after all


Posted by butterfly on Jan-04-2005 00:13:

quote:
Originally posted by goonerjack
Right, she (emily) doesn't know that I know she likes me

Personally I couldn't see how chatting up someone could be a hint to the girl that i'm not chatting to that i like her... although i've never been too good with hints

i've never really been that good friends with emily, but that doesn't mean i don't care for how she's feeling - i don't wanna see a nice girl crying...

the other thing is that i'd prefer to get steph's number sooner than later - don't want it to seem like i'm not interested in her after all


can you look her up in the phone book?
you could just keep pestering emily to give it to you. i mean, in the end if she doesnt give it to you it is really childish of her.


Posted by goonerjack on Jan-04-2005 00:21:

quote:
Originally posted by butterfly
can you look her up in the phone book?
you could just keep pestering emily to give it to you. i mean, in the end if she doesnt give it to you it is really childish of her.


i'm pretty sure there's no way to steph apart from thru emily - don't know steph's last name anyway.

yeah i agree with you - seems as though she's trying to stop us from getting together because maybe she thinks there's something still there - that's where it might be better for me to just tell her straight the whole situation, thats there nothin between us, so she can start moving on (and I can get to steph!)


Posted by butterfly on Jan-04-2005 00:23:

quote:
Originally posted by goonerjack
i'm pretty sure there's no way to steph apart from thru emily - don't know steph's last name anyway.

yeah i agree with you - seems as though she's trying to stop us from getting together because maybe she thinks there's something still there - that's where it might be better for me to just tell her straight the whole situation, thats there nothin between us, so she can start moving on (and I can get to steph!)


you know what would be kinda funny? if you did get in touch with steph and then found you are not really interested after all.


Posted by jonSun on Jan-04-2005 00:24:

Gooner & Butterfly should just get married & close this thread.


Posted by butterfly on Jan-04-2005 00:27:

quote:
Originally posted by jonSun
Gooner & Butterfly should just get married & close this thread.


i dont think my bf would like that...

i cant help myself... unlike other COR posters, i am endlessly entertained by relationship threads.


Posted by goonerjack on Jan-04-2005 00:50:

quote:
Originally posted by butterfly
you know what would be kinda funny? if you did get in touch with steph and then found you are not really interested after all.


hmm... it'd suck at first cuz she's on my mind all the time, but it'd probs be funny in retrospect

with all the new year eve drunk/hangover threads around i thought i needed to balance it out with a relationship thread

anyway hopefully there'll be developments tomorrow...


Posted by Orbax on Jan-04-2005 00:56:

quote:
Originally posted by butterfly
i dont think my bf would like that...

i cant help myself... unlike other COR posters, i am endlessly entertained by relationship threads.


heck yeah, these things pwn.


Posted by Trancefered on Jan-04-2005 01:25:

You don't have to tell her you know she likes you... All you do is call her/see her (Emily) and tell her you really liked Steph and that you want to see her again. Ask her if she could set you up. This would be an indirect LJBF'ing (Let's Just Be Friends).

Trust me, this is the best way... She will understand without having to tell you anything.


Posted by goonerjack on Jan-04-2005 02:56:

Hehe actually that is a really good idea, I'll try that tomorrow.

I do still kinda feel bad about mentioning Steph to Emily, seeing as though she's liked me for months then I meet her mate and within hours we're pretty dam close... but I see it as though my mate shouldn't have told me - so if he was actually a good mate to her and kept the secret then I wouldn't feel bad now anyway - which is how I gotta play it i spose


Posted by {b.s.e.} on Jan-04-2005 03:02:

i didn't read the thread, but i'm sure don't 'send teh letter' is applicable somehow.


Posted by Simcut on Jan-04-2005 03:05:

solution, get your mate victor to fuck emily, and whilst doing so get steph's number from emily, there problem solved ;D


Posted by echosystm on Jan-04-2005 03:12:

ask emily if you can have casual sex with her but enter a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship with her friend.


Posted by torontotrance on Jan-04-2005 03:40:

get the girl....lol

you will be happier


Posted by Gunyouken on Jan-04-2005 10:24:

This is getting more and more soap opera,.... I should do Lords and Ladies Part 2

hehehe.


Posted by goonerjack on Jan-04-2005 13:40:

quote:
Originally posted by Simcut
solution, get your mate victor to fuck emily, and whilst doing so get steph's number from emily, there problem solved ;D


Actually it's funny, whilst Victor was trying to set me and Emily up then he got to know her better and developed feelings for her! maybe I should try and set them up...

hopefully i can sort it today... i'll definitely be seeing emily tomorrow tho - so something's gotta happen then at the latest

and gunyouken, i enjoyed the last soap opera - i'll keep up to date on what happens so you can finish the story


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