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Posted by L.E.N. on Jan-04-2005 21:06:

I make it a rule not to "dip my pen in company ink". Its ok at first, then when you split, you have to deal with the awkwardness everyday. If you dont care....go for it. It just makes it hard to avoid her if you dont want to talk to her anymore.

Posted by jonze on Jan-04-2005 21:08:

quote:
Originally posted by Floorfiller
hmmmm good question...i hope i'm not in the friend zone hahaha. but what do you think...should i go the group route or one on one. i mean...i could just as easily say...hey all you secretaries...lets go out to celebrate that girl leaving bla bla...but then maybe that is too much friend zone...

i think the one on one date would be better.

Posted by vmc on Jan-04-2005 21:11:

Posted by Floorfiller on Jan-04-2005 21:13:

yeah i think you're right...how conveinent that we work on an outdoor mall...plenty of nice resturants around to take her to before it's back to my office for buttseckzz hahaha...

Posted by jonze on Jan-04-2005 21:16:

quote:
Originally posted by Floorfiller
yeah i think you're right...how conveinent that we work on an outdoor mall...plenty of nice resturants around to take her to before it's back to my office for buttseckzz hahaha...

then you can make her fax out some pics of you two on the copy machine, you know since shes a secretary and all.

Posted by l�cid on Jan-04-2005 21:31:

ever see the movie The Secretary?

now THAT'S what i'm talkin' about!!

Posted by diego on Jan-04-2005 21:36:

do it, do it. if she's hot, why not?

Posted by Floorfiller on Jan-04-2005 21:40:

quote:
Originally posted by l�cid
ever see the movie The Secretary?

now THAT'S what i'm talkin' about!!

*runs out of work early to rent the secretary and fantasize about buttseckz with secretary woman*

Posted by butterfly on Jan-04-2005 21:48:

i tried dating someone at work once. it was horribly uncomfortable. i would never ever do it again.

though i think this depends on your workplace. if you work in a more professional environment, then i definitely dont think you should consider it.

Posted by l�cid on Jan-04-2005 22:06:

quote:
Originally posted by Floorfiller
*runs out of work early to rent the secretary and fantasize about buttseckz with secretary woman*

invite your hot secretary chick to watch it with you

Posted by Floorfiller on Jan-04-2005 22:07:

quote:
Originally posted by l�cid
invite your hot secretary chick to watch it with you

omg genius! i drink a pabst to you hahaha

Posted by Ondrayce on Jan-04-2005 22:10:

quote:
Originally posted by l�cid
ever see the movie The Secretary?

now THAT'S what i'm talkin' about!!

Absolutely!

But what do you have to lose? Especially if you briefly see her only a couple times a day. That's hardly working together.

Posted by digitalbreach on Jan-04-2005 22:11:

Re: dating people from work...

quote:
Originally posted by Floorfiller
alright...so there is this secretary in our office building i've been wanting to bone for basically as long as i've worked here (4 years)

Bone her - yes
but make sure she wants that also.

Date her- NO!!!

p.s. just get both piss drunk and then bone her. Therefore you always blame it on the alcohol.

Posted by Spacey Orange on Jan-04-2005 22:13:

Bone her, if you won't get wierd about it. If you will, then fugidaboutit!

Hell, make it a threesome by including her friend that's leaving, and become Holefiller.

Posted by Floorfiller on Jan-04-2005 22:13:

Re: Re: dating people from work...

quote:
Originally posted by digitalbreach
Bone her - yes
but make sure she wants that also.

Date her- NO!!!

p.s. just get both piss drunk and then bone her. Therefore you always blame it on the alcohol.

well she's a nice girl...i'm not going to just get her real drunk and fuck her one night...that's fucked up.

now...

if she did that to me...that'd be ok hhahaha

Posted by digitalbreach on Jan-04-2005 22:20:

you admitted to having the urge to bone her for 4 years already.
And if she's flirting then she has it coming. your both grown up people, I presume.

how old r u?

seriously don't ever date anyone from work.

Posted by Floorfiller on Jan-04-2005 22:22:

quote:
Originally posted by Spacey Orange
Bone her, if you won't get wierd about it. If you will, then fugidaboutit!

Hell, make it a threesome by including her friend that's leaving, and become Holefiller.

well...her friend is moving away with her boyfriend hehehe...but she is also good looking

quote:
you admitted to having the urge to bone her for 4 years already.
And if she's flirting then she has it coming. your both grown up people, I presume.

how old r u?

seriously don't ever date anyone from work.

i'm almost 22 (in feb) and we're about the same age...both students. and yes the bone urge is strong hehehehe

Posted by Orbax on Jan-04-2005 22:29:

Subject Change:

Lucid friggn rules.

Back to Subject:

If its uncomfortable at work, at least it will be a funny storyin a few years. Just do it. Bad experiences with relationships are always hilarious later haha...ahh man, just thinking about the horrid uncomfortable things ive done, gah! Lol

Posted by Floorfiller on Jan-04-2005 22:33:

quote:
Originally posted by Orbax
Subject Change:

Lucid friggn rules.

Back to Subject:

If its uncomfortable at work, at least it will be a funny storyin a few years. Just do it. Bad experiences with relationships are always hilarious later haha...ahh man, just thinking about the horrid uncomfortable things ive done, gah! Lol

this is true...being stupid is the best way to have good storiess hahahah...

i have lots of stories too as i am stupid

Posted by PhloTron on Jan-04-2005 23:22:

I've been flying for the same company for 5 years...moved here with the job, gone 1/2 the month...usually don't get weekends off. So, in 5 years, the only people I know in the city are the people I work with. 99% of them I don't want to see the minute I'm done working...but the other 1%...hmm...I've pondered it, but so many people say don't dip in the company pool...yet probably 20% of my co-workers date/marry people they work with. Plus with a company of 5000 peeps, it's very easy to see someone once (at work) then not see them again for six months on the job.

Eh...the travel industry is just whack. It would just be nice to meet people outside of the job...but it's just not happening. Face it, the chicks don't dig the uniform anymore....lol.

That said, I have no advice...I have my own problems to worry about when deciding to date girls I work with...

Posted by Arbiter on Jan-04-2005 23:38:

I don't see the problem. What does working at the same place have to do with anything?

Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Jan-04-2005 23:47:

quote:
Originally posted by Floorfiller
she's smoking hot. and really i wonder why she isn't taken...

That's a red flag right there. I suggest "accidentially" kicking her in the leg one day just to make sure it's not made of wood.

Posted by bobba lou on Jan-04-2005 23:57:

dont shit where u eat!

Posted by tmft on Jan-05-2005 00:00:

You've only seen this girl in the office, but you have rapport.

Go out on the group thing, see how it goes out of office. If you like hanging out with the girl, ask her to lunch another day.

Repeat as needed with lunch, then go on a dinner date.

You'll either end up as friends or more.

You don't work directly with her, so I don't think that should be an issue, particularly to just hang out.

Posted by Xenocreator_PG_ on Jan-05-2005 02:40:

Its a dog eat dog executive world. People are stabbin each other in teh backs everyday to climb the corporate ladder to the buttsex. I say do her pooper while you got the chance FF. Just think, when it's hot, it's hot. If you have your own office then invite her in for lunch ....errr... I mean bonk.

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